Well got into a new gig about a year back, some months later my company acquired another company, (a competitor).
Been getting a whole lot of pressure from family to settle down. So unfortunately for me I saw one damsel from the newly acquired company, with all the right physique and calm attributes i wanted. Not knowing i was heading for my own demise.
Anyway we kicked off and started dating to the envy of other male colleagues who tried their luck to woo her but to no avail.
Relationship went on smooth for about 6months, till the big bang happened. The Country head just arrived town and has been eyeing this lady of mine. Noticed the lady was always calling the country head her close friend an some unusual weird calls was exchanged at odd hours, I felt unease about it but just shoved it off...with the thought "what will my damsel be doing with a married man".
So we had an office party and this country head codedly warned me to stay off(not in plain terms though) but i got the message. I felt i found a love to die for. Only for the lady to give me the much dreaded line some days after "we need to talk". Well madam said she needed break and she wasn't much into the relationship. I felt quite devastated. Well i got to find out a week later that the lady and country head are now couple goals in the office (atleast thats what they are called).
Well some pals in the office told me i dodged a bullet cos thats her modus operandi. She always goes for her bosses to secure her job, she did same with her previous boss, and i should count my gains and move on, which I am moving on though. Well the lady is 35 but still acts the age of 20. Cos at her age she still derives pleasure from clubbing and partying.
I actually did love her so much, i intended proposing before the year runs out. Well spoke to her of recent and shes maintaining we should still be friends but sincerely I ain't cut out for it as I'm desperately looking towards a job switch, cos the boss has suddenly seen me as his arch-enemy.

Life move on.. You will too

Women are naturally hypergamous.
I'm sorry but you never stood a chance with your boss

Just move on bro! Its her loss. God just showed u who she was b4 u propose 2 her. I don't think u want 2 keep such as a wife. Wen life hands u a lemon u learn 2 turn it into a lemonade.........don't ever try office romance again, most doesn't end well.

Modus operandi. Except you wife her. She is not really yours.


Olusegun Obasanjo 1567

Ode ni e o
Olohun, U be mumu but e dey happen
U should get that dirt off your shoulder
Lemme give U an advice
Buy new clothes
Look more stunning
Go to your boss and make friends with him
U see that babe
GIVE AM D. I. S. T. A. N. C. E
Nothing pains a lady like silence and distance...
Stop whining and acting out here

this just reminded me of amanda rosenberg who was a staff at google, she was dating a top google executive, as google founder sergie brin showed interest in her, she dumped that guy and went after sergie brin, the relationship led Sergei brin wife to divorce him, google employees were angry that he was dating her, the relationship didn't work out , she had to leave google, and sergie brin continue his life, she lost sergie brin and also working for google, now she is single while sergie brin is married to another woman.

i swear to the gods, i hate dating my work mates, it is lot of stress, in my opinion, i just think dating in the workplace is dangerous, unprofessional and conflict of interest.

this is what will happen at the end of the day, one of them will eventually have to leave the company, when the dating leads to marriage

You're even lucky bro. Your ass would have been fired

Guys hustle ooooo, make girl no tell you say she want break only to catch am dey chop chicken with another man the next day

Some people can be mumu ooh.

You clearly saw something that can’t work, yet you de shoock your head there.


You even said she behaves like a 20 year old girl,


Tomorrow now, you will open another thread and be asking for help.

You DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT.

Workplace/compound affairs "choke" last last.

Currently in one.... But I will save this thread

It never ends well. I once dabbled into one but thankfully she was a temporary staff and finally left after a year. It was a miserable year for me. It always starts as fun and adventurous, stealing kisses and if you're daring enough, doing quickies.
However, it quickly gets tiring, drama creeps in and you regret the relationship. Going to work every day becomes a chore. Terrible moment in my life then. Avoid dating anyone you will see every day except marriage of course.

Just as one person earlier mentioned, if u wanna succeed in life, distance your self from her, stop picking her calls and stop calling her, shut her off completely, keep her at arm length and don't even respond to her greetings, life isn't fair we all know, so get your sorry ass and go get your self a younger and cuter girlfriend and make her frequent your office, ya ex go explode with jealousy , make sure u make your boss trust you that u ain't got nothing to do with your ex. And watch out how things turn around for you drastically,, women can take silent treatment it kills them like fvck.
And don't date anyone else in your office,
Good luck champ

nairaonfire:
Well got into a new gig about a year back, some what will are now couple goals in the office (atleast thats what they are

I'm quite sure the evening Newspaper crew will say you want to lose your job over evening Newspaper....continue!

AwkaetitiBabe:
Guys hustle ooooo, make girl no tell you say she want break only to catch am dey chop chicken with another man the next day

Did this simpleton read the OP's Message at all?


Attention Seeking Bole.

KingSatan:


Did this simpleton read the OP's Message at all?


Attention Seeking Bole.

If you ain't frustrated, you'll know that line is the new joke in town. Guy go roast for he'll and allow us see road.

Move on... More ladies are coming for you as long as the cash is there

lol why u come dey mention the babe age? .dat she is 35 is not enough reason to stop her flexing nau .i have seen ladies in their late 40s,early 50s who are single and still jumping from one club to another and from one man or men to another.since it seems u are a young man who wants to get into a serious relationship then get involved with a serious minded lady.stop wasting ur time with a lady who clubs heavily and maybe drinks and smoke.leave that to the playas.

AwkaetitiBabe:
If you ain't frustrated, you'll know that line is the new joke in town. Guy go roast for he'll and allow us see road.

in which town biko

nairaonfire:
Well got into a new gig about a year back, some months later my company acquired another company, (a competitor).

Well some pals in the office told me i dodged a bullet cos thats her modus operandi. She always goes for her bosses to secure her job, she did same with her previous boss, and i should count my gains and move on, which I am moving on though. Well the lady is 35 but still acts the age of 20. Cos at her age she still derives pleasure from clubbing and partying.
I actually did love her so much, i intended proposing before the year runs out. Well spoke to her of recent and shes maintaining we should still be friends but sincerely I ain't cut out for it as I'm desperately looking towards a job switch, cos the boss has suddenly seen me as his arch-enemy.

and stop dating your fellow work colleague cos it does not do any man any good.just imagine your babe in the same work place u see ur boss pressing her yansh in ur presence wetin u wan do? talk and u get fired .so u see the disadvantage .get a neutral girl outside.

KingWarri:
Currently in one.... But I will save this thread

Careful bro.. Jyst got out of one

zed7:
It never ends well. I once dabbled into one but thankfully she was a temporary staff and finally left after a year. It was a miserable year for me. It always starts as fun and adventurous, stealing kisses and if you're daring enough, doing quickies.
However, it quickly gets tiring, drama creeps in and you regret the relationship. Going to work every day becomes a chore. Terrible moment in my life then. Avoid dating anyone you will see every day except marriage of course.

Bro.. U just said the fact... Same experiences bro.... I can relate big time... We broke up as drama. Was so much.. I can't even talk to another lady or another lady visiting my office... Choking bro

AwkaetitiBabe:
Guys hustle ooooo, make girl no tell you say she want break only to catch am dey chop chicken with another man the next day

husstling and making money wont stop him losing the girl to a richer man.abi u never see governor wey go snatch local govt chairman wife dem both get money but one get money pass d other.

nairaonfire:
Well got into a new gig about a year back, some months later my company acquired another company, (a competitor).
Been getting a whole lot of pressure from family to settle down. So unfortunately for me I saw one damsel from the newly acquired company, with all the right physique and calm attributes i wanted. Not knowing i was heading for my own demise.
Anyway we kicked off and started dating to the envy of other male colleagues who tried their luck to woo her but to no avail.
Relationship went on smooth for about 6months, till the big bang happened. The Country head just arrived town and has been eyeing this lady of mine. Noticed the lady was always calling the country head her close friend an some unusual weird calls was exchanged at odd hours, I felt unease about it but just shoved it off...with the thought "what will my damsel be doing with a married man".
So we had an office party and this country head codedly warned me to stay off(not in plain terms though) but i got the message. I felt i found a love to die for. Only for the lady to give me the much dreaded line some days after "we need to talk". Well madam said she needed break and she wasn't much into the relationship. I felt quite devastated. Well i got to find out a week later that the lady and country head are now couple goals in the office (atleast thats what they are called).
Well some pals in the office told me i dodged a bullet cos thats her modus operandi. She always goes for her bosses to secure her job, she did same with her previous boss, and i should count my gains and move on, which I am moving on though. Well the lady is 35 but still acts the age of 20. Cos at her age she still derives pleasure from clubbing and partying.
I actually did love her so much, i intended proposing before the year runs out. Well spoke to her of recent and shes maintaining we should still be friends but sincerely I ain't cut out for it as I'm desperately looking towards a job switch, cos the boss has suddenly seen me as his arch-enemy.

nairaonfire:
Well got into a new gig about a year back, some months later my company acquired another company, (a competitor).
Been getting a whole lot of pressure from family to settle down. So unfortunately for me I saw one damsel from the newly acquired company, with all the right physique and calm attributes i wanted. Not knowing i was heading for my own demise.
Anyway we kicked off and started dating to the envy of other male colleagues who tried their luck to woo her but to no avail.
Relationship went on smooth for about 6months, till the big bang happened. The Country head just arrived town and has been eyeing this lady of mine. Noticed the lady was always calling the country head her close friend an some unusual weird calls was exchanged at odd hours, I felt unease about it but just shoved it off...with the thought "what will my damsel be doing with a married man".
So we had an office party and this country head codedly warned me to stay off(not in plain terms though) but i got the message. I felt i found a love to die for. Only for the lady to give me the much dreaded line some days after "we need to talk". Well madam said she needed break and she wasn't much into the relationship. I felt quite devastated. Well i got to find out a week later that the lady and country head are now couple goals in the office (atleast thats what they are called).
Well some pals in the office told me i dodged a bullet cos thats her modus operandi. She always goes for her bosses to secure her job, she did same with her previous boss, and i should count my gains and move on, which I am moving on though. Well the lady is 35 but still acts the age of 20. Cos at her age she still derives pleasure from clubbing and partying.
I actually did love her so much, i intended proposing before the year runs out. Well spoke to her of recent and shes maintaining we should still be friends but sincerely I ain't cut out for it as I'm desperately looking towards a job switch, cos the boss has suddenly seen me as his arch-enemy.

..ok..so u advisin men not to date women Becoz u switch job??.... brother..are u ok??(No oofeense)

Na so one useless Oga go corner my girl, thank God say I be ladies man so I no care, I go just dump your ass and move on.

U wan marry ashawo...

Where is your orientation...

Your ot not complete. Such girl go still spread leg for 21 year yahoo boy qeh get Benz.

Hustle ooo..

Girl that is on coded runs website with her pussy video masturbating and breast fucking every dick Monday to Friday with her picture on every harry laptop is what you have head ache for

U better Bleep,pour sperm on her pussy hair and drink beer at next beer palor.

10 commandments of workplace.. Read that book and be better informed.

AwkaetitiBabe:
If you ain't frustrated, you'll know that line is the new joke in town. Guy go roast for he'll and allow us see road.

A new joke indeed!

Whatever made you drop that lame text you call a joke is genetic. It flows in your bood-line.

I guess that "joke" was scripted by slumrags living in the slums where you were born, bred and currently residing?

Overused Sanitary napkin

KingSatan:


A new joke indeed!

Whatever made you drop that lame text you call a joke is genetic. It flows in your bood-line.

I guess that "joke" was scripted by slumrags living in the slums where you were born, bred and currently residing?

Overused Sanitary napkin

Yawns. Try again.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yawns. Try again.

Wetin you and Satan get? You offend the guy before?