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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Emmaculate77(m): 9:25am On Nov 26, 2019 |
It is not true that for a man not to have sex for a period of 1 year is a proof that he has a problem. The same men who got married were once bachelors and some of them abstained from sex due to their belief and moral standards; and this requires a high self discipline. For your husband to be too concerned about his health, hence, refusing to use AC takes discipline and care, and this can be supported by the way he cares for your family; And most likely, he does not seek for sexual pleasure outside. Sex is good in marriage and it helps to bond the relationship, but people have their different ways of expressing love. But if you care much about your sexual satisfaction, I will suggest you guys meet a marriage counselor with a medical experience for for a little education. But on the whole, your husband is just fine. |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 9:37am On Nov 26, 2019 |
CanadaOrBust: Sometimes u have to use ur head pls. So wen someone accuses u of stealing money in 2014, u automatically become a criminal. |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by daviesmania(m): 10:07am On Nov 26, 2019 |
so disturbing that all women wants is to get fucckked by a man... damn!!!! |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by midnighter(f): 10:12am On Nov 26, 2019 |
CanadaOrBust: There is also the fact that woman flock towards powerful figures. It's a two-way thing When a sport team comes into town women will literally go and camp outside the hotel, waiting to snag one of the players. Those men have more access to free and interesting sexual encounters than the average Joe |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by midnighter(f): 10:17am On Nov 26, 2019 |
wirinet: It probably has an effect on them psychologically. Sport has a psychological element they are trying to maintain focus on the upcoming event and sex can be distracting. |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by midnighter(f): 10:18am On Nov 26, 2019 |
bonnyhope: Hahahaha |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by EasternPrince: 10:19am On Nov 26, 2019 |
midnighter: Probably? You know not shit! |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by EasternPrince: 10:19am On Nov 26, 2019 |
midnighter:
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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by MicroBox: 10:34am On Nov 26, 2019 |
mysticwarrior:Thanks for the name " aphrodisiac " |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 11:21am On Nov 26, 2019 |
CanadaOrBust: Haaaa! He has corrected me before o Let me infuse that in my subconscious. crackHAUS, crackHAUS. Naaaa, this one is hard. Thanks |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 11:51am On Nov 26, 2019 |
midnighter:side chicks na stress abeg .na full time job for men wey dey do am.u can ask them |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 11:55am On Nov 26, 2019 |
Emmaculate77:how do u know he does not seek for pleasure outside his marriage..u dey dere?.a wife whose husband runs from her when it comes to sex is justified to be worried. |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by MrFly(m): 12:33pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
are u married? U de take panadol 4 anoda woman headache |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 1:44pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga:I would have liketo write my own story abt my sex life, but not now. NL never ceased to amaze me always. |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by djon78(m): 1:53pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 1:54pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
crackhaus:That's not true. One can avoid sex because of unemployment (Money), and this covers every other matters, like not ready to have a family you can't care for. So such individuals will do it best to control itself. Remember, not all are patroniser of Prostitute (Olosho). |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by djon78(m): 1:56pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Emmaculate77: At the bolded is a true fact. That a man abstains from sex for long doesn't mean he has any problem. It has more to do with learning over time to discipline the body. And true there are a lot of men out there like that. Most times people try to console there uncontrollable sexlife, passions and desires which is common now, that after all everybody do it. But it will shock some to know that many people out there have full control, disciplining and mastery of there body. 1 Like |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by nams77: 2:17pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
This is the most ludicrous thing i have read this year.......sperm mixng with breast milk? Hmmmm. This calls for research o. Research topic loading |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by bolu96(m): 2:31pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
wirinet: You are very correct. In the book " think and grow rich" written by Napolen Hill, there is actually a chapter devoted to sex. He tried to explain that trying to curb sexual urge is like trying to contain a river, you can do it for a while, but if not allowed to flow it natural cause will find it way out and may cause damage( flood). So also is sex, you can contain it for a while but if not released, it will find it way out forcefully(this explain the case of rape sometimes) especially for those with high libido. |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by UjuJoan2: 2:42pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: I've had men 'proposition' me in my extremely pregnant state. Quite disgusting I tell you . . . Men are just so foolish and annoying. I wonder what happened to the s3x dolls you guys were all raving about I honestly thought it would help relieve women of having to endure disgusting sexual propositions from men. 1 Like |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by wirinet(m): 2:44pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
djon78:False premise. A fully fit young man that abstains from sex for up to one year has a problem. Forget control, sex is hardwired into our DNA (and the DNA of all animals). It is not controlled by the head, but by hormones. A man with low testosterone levels or pheromones would obviously have low sex drive, but one with high testosterone levels and high pheromones will not only have high sex drive but also attract women from miles around. Certain foods and stress also affect sex drive. Excessive sugar and starch intake can have adverse effect on sex drive. Excessive stress can actually kill sex drive. That's why guys with highly stressful jobs can hardly satisfy their women. Their women either rely on intimacy toys or cheat with any available person (ie, gardeners, drivers, plumbers or cable men. Many men have cum and gone at the same time, taking excessive drugs to up their game in the other room. The drugs put too much stress on the heart by forcing it to pump excess blood to the action area, leading to raptured arteries and blood vessels and eventually leading to stroke. |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by crackhaus: 3:08pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
sassysure:You are very lucky you're taken, wetin I for do you ehn... |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by crackhaus: 3:11pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
UjuJoan2:Send me a picture of you in your very pregnant state, let me see what they were seeing sef Stvpid men |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 3:18pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 3:20pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
PrecisionFx: Well, if u later come up with money no one knows how u earned, then US accuses u of trying to launder money through their banks, when u combine all these... Look, we’ll never be 100% certain of anything - that’s the nature of our universe, but at a point u need to stop splitting hairs and use your nature-given common sense to deduce what is likely true |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by UjuJoan2: 3:20pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: Oh I tend to 'glow' when pregnant, trust me But still . . . Why would a man even think that way about another man's wife, who is pregnant Anyway, I gave up trying to understand men a long time ago; also trying to give up on judging them. . . . I know sometimes we can be 'victims' of our desires. Strange world we live in. |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 3:20pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
UjuJoan2:It's true o, the thing just died a natural death No more sex dolls. I said we should give them 1 yr and revisit the sex doll issue again, e no even reach one yr Our men are problems even to themselves |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by UjuJoan2: 3:22pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
sassysure: True words @ bolded. |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by crackhaus: 4:10pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
UjuJoan2:Yes I know about the glow some pregnant women have...but still I hate sharing this story: I had a heavily pregnant neighbour when I was in uni who I regularly checked up on since she stayed alone (husband worked out of town). It was clear that evening during one of those regular visits that she was in a very hórny state - the nightie she put on was completely transparent and she was wearing nothing underneath, NOTHING! As a guy man, immediately she opened the door I could sense her intentions - dat kain thing no dey miss me. I just played along and started the usual chit-chat, then she brought fruits as usual...everything still cool. The next thing that happened in like a split second was her lips locking mine. I admit that for maybe 5secs I was carried away, perhaps it was the taste of the pineapple and bananas on our lips that made it sweet - but when I regained composure, I just backed up, looked at her and simply asked her if she wanted to have sex. The speed with which she answered yes sef was too funny. I told her she should excuse me as I needed to get condoms from my flat next door - the mistake she made that day was letting me walk out of there. By the time I reached my crib and found my stash, the holy spirit had ministered to me oo - fear no let me return there dat evening, all I could think of was the protruding stomach and baby inside it. 4 Likes |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by crackhaus: 4:15pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
sassysure:It's good |
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by UjuJoan2: 4:30pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: Jeeeeez, this is so funny. Truth is that hormones make pregnant women Hot at odd times. They have the strangest craving and longings. But it's just the whole chemical reactions going on in their system. You are a good man for not going through with it. Most men are not that strong. Truth is if you had done it you would have been taking advantage of her. And when she puts to bed and regains her sense, she'll resent you for it... It's like sleeping with a drunk or stoned girl. . . . |
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