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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by GeneralPula: 7:01am On Nov 26, 2019
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CanadaOrBust:
Her husband is not highly sexed. He has low libido and she should adjust accordingly if she wants the marriage to last. Sex is not everything. Let her enjoy her baby and other aspects of marriage and life.
*******
FTC!!!
Never thought this would make front page.
Goes to show, if u make up a good story, u never know...

I dedicate this FTC to that guy, Onyema, and his Air Peace.
We know he stole money but at least he put it to good use, unlike people like Mompha and Hushpuppy who just kept buying Lamboghinis
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CanadaOrBust:
Her husband is not highly sexed. He has low libido and she should adjust accordingly if she wants the marriage to last. Sex is not everything. Let her enjoy her baby and other aspects of marriage and life.
*******
FTC!!!
Never thought this would make front page.
Goes to show, if u make up a good story, u never know...

I dedicate this FTC to that guy, Onyema, and his Air Peace.
We know he stole money but at least he put it to good use, unlike people like Mompha and Hushpuppy who just kept buying Lamboghinis
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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by stormborn28(m): 7:01am On Nov 26, 2019
frozen70:


Better than messing around
yeah
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 7:01am On Nov 26, 2019
emddi:
I hope you don't equate success with money,money can be gotten by any means.I mean people who av brought amazing inventions to this world

I mean people who appear to somehow have extra energy beyond the rest of us
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 7:03am On Nov 26, 2019
GeneralPula:
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Ok, so why r u canceling all my posts. I don’t know u from Adam
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 7:06am On Nov 26, 2019
wirinet:

Believe I know lots of stuffs. I am widely read and widely travelled and have lots of friends. Friend nicknamed me prof.

But u have so far only demonstrated extensive knowledge in this particular topic of fetishes grin
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 7:08am On Nov 26, 2019
crackhaus:

Just because a sicko like you loves watching men fvck pregnant women does not mean everyone does the same. cheesy

I’m sure u like worse. I'm sure u didn’t pick CRACKHAUS as moniker by mistake

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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 7:08am On Nov 26, 2019
CanadaOrBust:


I mean people who appear to somehow have extra energy beyond the rest of us
I mentioned Muhammad Ali and Mike Tyson earlier,investigate their sexual life.most of all this big men you see around and musicians,most are on drugs
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 7:10am On Nov 26, 2019
crackhaus:

And how does it feel genius?

You sound irritating

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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 7:10am On Nov 26, 2019
crackhaus:

You learnt this one through scientific experiments in a classroom?
is sex that sweet and indispensable? Nah
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 7:11am On Nov 26, 2019
I think sex is overated
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 7:12am On Nov 26, 2019
emddi:
I mentioned Muhammad Ali and Mike Tyson earlier,investigate their sexual life.most of all this big men you see around and musicians,most are on drugs

I’m talking of mainly entrepreneurs. I’m around a lot of them and the most successful are usually the most highly sexed
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by wirinet(m): 7:14am On Nov 26, 2019
CanadaOrBust:


You ain’t fooling nobody. Only one dog knows what type of sick fetish u r trying to camouflage with pretentiousness

More on fetishes. ..
The worst fetish I have heard is rape. Yes, rape can be a fetish for a guy.

While I was at OAU ife, a certain rapist used to rape girls at night between theatre arts and the zoo. This rapist was well known. When guys went to ask the guy why rape when he could pay for sex at Ladiga. He told them that if a girl willingly agree to have sex with him, his thing would not rise. It is the excitement and violence of rape that turns him on.
Believe me, that's the minds of lots of rapists.

Furthermore, some ladies too have a rape fetish. You can toast them from Jerico to Jerusalem, they would not open for you, you can buy them iPhone 11 plus latest rava 4, they would not even let you suck boobi. But land them slap and tear their pant and bra, they would be wet like river Jordan and beg you to penetrate.

As long said, it's a strange world out there.

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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Blaqfellow: 7:15am On Nov 26, 2019
Oh i really pity her but she should try more to educate the husband i believe that such a man will still love to learn

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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 7:16am On Nov 26, 2019
CanadaOrBust:


I’m talking of mainly entrepreneurs. I’m around a lot of them and the most successful are usually the most highly sexed
have you confirmed their medication life?
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 7:17am On Nov 26, 2019
emddi:
have you confirmed their medication life?

Definitely none whatsoever. Guaranteed. Their drug is sex
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by wirinet(m): 7:17am On Nov 26, 2019
CanadaOrBust:


I’m talking of mainly entrepreneurs. I’m around a lot of them and the most successful are usually the most highly sexed
Not just entertainers, but many businessmen and politicians too.
Mohammed Ali had numerous women, in fact women led to his downfall. Mike Tyson too had women problems. He was actually convicted for rape.

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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by marisdgreat(f): 7:19am On Nov 26, 2019
Let your friend go on facebook and search for extra-ordinary married and single lady forum. She should chat up with any of the admins there and see how she could added up to their sex class and how to make their husbands longing for them. I believe with this, she will testify and her husband will adjust.

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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 7:22am On Nov 26, 2019
wirinet:


More on fetishes. ..
The worst fetish I have heard is rape. Yes, rape can be a fetish for a guy.

While I was at OAU ife, a certain rapist used to rape girls at night between theatre arts and the zoo. This rapist was well known. When guys went to ask the guy why rape when he could pay for sex at Ladiga. He told that is if a girl willingly agree to have sex with him, his thing would not rise. It is the excitement and violence of rape that turns him on.
Believe me, that's the minds of lots of rapists.

Furthermore, some ladies too have a rape fetish. You can toast them from Jerico to Jerusalem, they would not open for you, you can buy them iPhone 11 plus latest rava 4, they would not even let you suck boobi. But land them slap and tear their pant and bra, they would be wet like river Jordan and beg you to penetrative.

As long said, it's a strange world out there.

Like I said u r too much of an expert on this fetish stuff grin
But seriously u guys should have had that guy promptly arrested
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 7:24am On Nov 26, 2019
CanadaOrBust:


Definitely none whatsoever. Guaranteed. Their drug is sex
Lol,na you be their guardian angel?
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 7:24am On Nov 26, 2019
wirinet:

Not just entertainers, but many businessmen and politicians too.
Mohammed Ali had numerous women, in fact women led to his downfall. Mike Tyson too had women problems. He was actually convicted for rape.

A most successful relative of mine has a sex drive that is simply supernatural
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 7:26am On Nov 26, 2019
emddi:
Lol,na you be their guardian angel?

They only do two things - work and sex. No time to even think of drugs
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 7:27am On Nov 26, 2019
wirinet:

Not just entertainers, but many businessmen and politicians too.
Mohammed Ali had numerous women, in fact women led to his downfall. Mike Tyson too had women problems. He was actually convicted for rape.
before a "fight",they stayed months without sex
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by wirinet(m): 7:27am On Nov 26, 2019
CanadaOrBust:


Like I said u r too much of an expert on this fetish stuff grin
But seriously u guys should have had that guy promptly arrested
Rape in Nigeria is the most difficult crime to prove in a law court. First the rapes are done at night, the guy wears a mask and no girl would come to court to give details on how she was raped.
Even in clear cases, rape is difficult to prove, not to talk of under those circumstances.

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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 7:28am On Nov 26, 2019
emddi:
before a "fight",they stayed months without sex

Not Ali
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by IDERAWOLE(m): 7:30am On Nov 26, 2019
wwwkaycom:
Bose is an outgoing and sexually active young lady of 26, she got married to her hubby in November, 2018, they are now blessed with a big baby boy.

She was my student and very close to me and my family during her ND and HND days. She is just like a member of my family. I know that she was involved with two guys then, one a student in the same school during her ND and the other, a businessman in town during her HND days. Her affair with the businessman didn't materialise into marriage because the man wanted her to get pregnant first, a proposal she vehemently opposed because its like a taboo in her family and her religious organization.

That relationship broke and she met another guy who I didn't really know in 2017. She told me that the guy was easygoing and fun loving too so I didn't really had much advise to give other than the normal talks about being of good behaviour etc.

They got married in November 2018, she relocated to live with her hubby in Abuja, now they're blessed with a very big baby boy.

She visited me with her baby last weekend when she came to attend the funeral of her uncle here in Ondo State. She stayed in my place. It was then we really had time to talk. She told me that her husband believes so much in some archaic things that is affecting her badly.

For instance, he doesn't believe in the use of Air Conditioner because it is carcinogenic, he had sex with her last the day he realised she was pregnant in January. She said her hubby believed having sex with a pregnant woman will hurt the baby. She put to bed in August and since then nothing has happened because the hubby said no sex until breast feeding is over so that the breast milk will not be contaminated with semen.

I have been laughing since then but its not a laughing matter. She said this guy is so serious with these wrong facts and is not willing to let it go for anything and that she had engaged him in discussions over this many times with the guy sticking to his points. She said the guy is so caring and the way he dots on her and the baby is out of this world. He hired a nanny for her. the nanny followed her to Ondo State for the funeral and stayed with her in my place.

Honestly, I haven't heard this kind of thing before. I told her I'll post it on Nairaland and she said I should go ahead and that she will be interested in reading people's comments. I actually admonished her not to look the way of any other guy or be involved in extramarital affairs as that could lead to problems she won't be able to handle. She said that is almost impossible in the environment she lives in Abuja and the way her husband dots on the family. Good people, kindly advise please.

If you don't have a family doctor, get one, preferably a woman. Bring the doctor into the know of this achaic man's philosophy, and get the doctor to educate him. Such people respect professional like doctors. Meanwhile, use this period to discover other things about marriage, as well as the man and his interests, educate him in other areas of life in a humourous way.

He'll adjust, he's likely having a low libido problem too.

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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by bonnyhope: 7:33am On Nov 26, 2019
kennybabs1980:
Sexually satisfy herself until she's done with breastfeeding? How please?

Cucumber no de again?
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 7:36am On Nov 26, 2019
emddi:
before a "fight",they stayed months without sex
*copied*
In an article by Stefan Lovgren for National Geographic News, Doctors Ian Shrier (a sports medicine specialist) and Emmanuel A. Jannini (a professor of endocrinology) seem to agree that there is no actual proof that sex before athletic events, including those of combative sports, have any kind of diminishing effect on an athlete physically.

“There are two possible ways sex before competition could affect performance,” said Shrier. “First, it could make you tired and weak the next day. This has been disproven.

“The second was is that it could affect your psychological state of mind. This has not been tested.”

Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 7:39am On Nov 26, 2019
wirinet:

Rape in Nigeria is the most difficult crime to prove in a law court. First the rapes are done at night, the guy wears a mask and no girl would come to court to give details on how she was raped.
Even in clear cases, rape is difficult to prove, not to talk of under those circumstances.

It is that victims don’t come forward because Nigerian society blames the victim as ashawo

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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by bonnyhope: 7:39am On Nov 26, 2019
crackhaus:
How is any of this even a problem that required her to go blabbing. Air conditioning & wanting to have sex while pregnant? Seriously?

Women of this generation think only about sex

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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by Nobody: 7:43am On Nov 26, 2019
CanadaOrBust:


In an article by Stefan Lovgren for National Geographic News, Doctors Ian Shrier (a sports medicine specialist) and Emmanuel A. Jannini (a professor of endocrinology) seem to agree that there is no actual proof that sex before athletic events, including those of combative sports, have any kind of diminishing effect on an athlete physically.

“There are two possible ways sex before competition could affect performance,” said Shrier. “First, it could make you tired and weak the next day. This has been disproven.

“The second was is that it could affect your psychological state of mind. This has not been tested.”
It affects your performance brother,wether they approve it or not.condoms must sell,Viagra and it's likes must also sell
And I was emphasizing on "over sexing"
Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by wirinet(m): 7:44am On Nov 26, 2019
CanadaOrBust:


It is that victims don’t come forward because Nigerian society blames the victim as ashawo
Apart from the society putting the blame on rape victims, the police are usually unwilling and ill equipped to investigate rape cases. No forensic or DNA analysis. It is usually the word of the accuser against that of the rapist.

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Re: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by CanadaOrBust: 7:46am On Nov 26, 2019
wirinet:

Apart from the society putting the blame on rape victims, the police are usually unwilling and I'll equipped to investigate rape cases. No forensic or DNA analysis. It is usually the word of the accuser against that of the rapist.

Not only that, many Nigerian policemen are themselves rapists

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