mysticwarrior:
why she go use brush when better screwdriver dey with her husband?

johnkey:
Give me her number I want to greet her

yeyeosoronga:
Sex is actually classed as a physiological need, as with food , water, health, sleep, shelter, clothing.
These are even classed before safety needs.
Madam has been deprived of sex for almost a year or more since she found out she was pregnant, till the baby will stop breastfeeding. That will be close to a total of 2 years at the very least, of not meeting her sexual needs. That's definitely more than being icky about sex on the husband's part.
While a vibrator or d.ildo can do a pretty good job too, I doubt if a young girl in marriage will want to see that as her lifetime sentence
I wonder how the man has been meeting his own sexual needs though...

crackhaus:

Lmao... Physiological

Where did you learn this one from?

yeyeosoronga:


Are you ''kidneying'' me or you're trying to wind me up?

You've never heard the word before?
Anyway, online dictionary's definition:

physiological
/fɪzɪəˈlɒdʒɪk(ə)l/
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adjective
1. relating to the branch of biology that deals with the normal functions of living organisms and their parts.
"physiological research on the causes of violent behaviour"
2. relating to the way in which a living organism or bodily part functions.
"slow down your body's physiological response to anger by breathing deeply"

wwwkaycom:
Bose is an outgoing and sexually active young lady of 26, she got married to her hubby in November, 2018, they are now blessed with a big baby boy.
She was my student and very close to me and my family during her ND and HND days. She is just like a member of my family. I know that she was involved with two guys then, one a student in the same school during her ND and the other, a businessman in town during her HND days. Her affair with the businessman didn't materialise into marriage because the man wanted her to get pregnant first, a proposal she vehemently opposed because its like a taboo in her family and her religious organization. That relationship broke and she met another guy who I didn't really know in 2017. She told me that the guy was easygoing and fun loving too so I didn't really had much advise to give other than the normal talks about being of good behaviour etc.
They got married in November 2018, she relocated to live with her hubby in Abuja, now they're blessed with a very big baby boy.
She visited me with her baby last weekend when she came to attend the funeral of her uncle here in Ondo State. She stayed in my place. It was then we really had time to talk. She told me that her husband believes so much in some archaic things that is affecting her badly. For instance, he doesn't believe in the use of Air Conditioner because it is carcinogenic, he had sex with her last the day he realised she was pregnant in January. She said her hubby believed having sex with a pregnant woman will hurt the baby. She put to bed in August and since then nothing has happened because the hubby said no sex until breast feeding is over so that the breast milk will not be contaminated with semen, I have been laughing since then but its not a laughing matter. She said this guy is so serious with these wrong facts and is not willing to let it go for anything and that she had engaged him in discussions over this many times with the guy sticking to his points. She said the guy is so caring and the way he dots on her and the baby is out of this world. He hired a nanny for her. the nanny followed her to Ondo State for the funeral and stayed with her in my place. Honestly, I haven't heard this kind of thing before. I told her I'll post it on nairaland and she said I should go ahead and that she will be interested in reading people's comments. I actually admonished her not to look the way of any other guy or be involved in extramarital affairs as that could lead to problems she won't be able to handle. She said that is almost impossible in the environment she lives in Abuja and the way her husband dots on the family. Good people, kindly advise please.

johnkey:
Give me her number I want to greet her

crackhaus:

You never hear say 95% sexual satisfaction na from clitoral stimulation?

Dat screwdriver na unnecessary hardware when one very soft brush gently moving over her clit fit make am turn into Olympic gymnast.


Even the females wey read about this brush don dey imagine am, and it is sending chills down their spine.. I TELL YOU

mysticwarrior:
If e no be the real thing e no fit be like the real thing, if I dey lie ask that woman wey them dey call "IBINABO FIBERESIMA" that woman na better nympho wey no dey relent" if Daniel Wilson no dey available she go switch to Fred Amata, if Amata no sabi fire she go go meet Philip Trimnel, if Trimnel dey spend two minutes ontop na to run follow Uche Egbuka, as I dey talk she don even run leave that one for marriage dey fine another, as she fine na so she dey lash dey waka, even with breast cancer the woman still dey fire dey go, chai I shake my joy stick for that woman.

crackhaus:
How does the man's libido and sex-drive even fathom into the conversation?

People are just so sex-centric these days that it is totally unbelievable for a healthy man to go over 9months without any need to fvck his pregnant wife, or fvck anyone for that matter.

Messed up mentality.

Baldwretch:


Why are people responding to this post? Bs. Don't you see it's a clever work of the imagination.

CanadaOrBust:


Some people avoid sex if they can. Some don’t have sex at all - asexual. That’s how libido figures into it. Everyone’s sexuality is not like yours

crackhaus:

Anyone who is avoiding sex or not having sex at all, is asexual with a very low libido.

This is what you plan to teach your teenage or unmarried children?

midnighter:
She hasn't told you whether their sex life was good prior to the pregnancy so it's difficult to comment.

By the way this is not "old-fashioned man" but "ignorant and incorrigible man". Starving her of sex for almost 2 years in the name of protecting pregnancy is just stupid. He could have asked for the correct information during antenatal class.

johnkey:
Give me her number I want to greet her

midnighter:
She hasn't told you whether their sex life was good prior to the pregnancy so it's difficult to comment.

By the way this is not "old-fashioned man" but "ignorant and incorrigible man". Starving her of sex for almost 2 years in the name of protecting pregnancy is just stupid. He could have asked for the correct information during antenatal class.

Gaggi:
How is this even an issue? Some people are suffering neglect and domestic abuse, this one is talking of ac and sex. If the man never liked sex, we can understand, some men are just put off for a while with the whole pregnancy thing.

He is doting and caring and a good provider. Madam should go and pleasure herself jor. I sometimes wonder what this world is coming to. What happens when a partner has an accident and can no longer function sexually? Is that the end of the marriage? Our generation is crazy. Men and women should learn to see beyond the mundane, marriage is deep and should be treated as such.

Mindfulness:


Sex, for many people, is a very important part of marriage. Religious folks even marry to have sex "legally". There is nothing wrong with wanting to be intimate with your spouse. It is very normal.

CanadaOrBust:


Look, there are all types of sexuality. Some people are gay but get married to opposite sex then avoid sex with their spouse as much as possible. Sex is such a primal urge that all these OP said are just excuses to avoid sex - if nothing else he’d seek mutual madturbation with his wife (unless he’s getting it else where)

Mindfulness:


I would like to know it too.

You have put it rather nicely. I was thinking that to add to the issue that he doesn't make love to his wife, he is also, allow me to use your words, "ignorant and incorrigible man". Her cross is heavy.

Mindfulness:


Sex, for many people, is a very important part of marriage. Religious folks even marry to have sex "legally". There is nothing wrong with wanting to be intimate with your spouse. It is very normal.

midnighter:


Exactly. If she were the one making stupid excuses to get out of sex this thread would be 10 pages long with comments telling him to send the useless woman out of his house get another.

Because it's the man depriving the woman they have started blowing grammar, mtchew

midnighter:


Yes! My priest always preaches that if you and your intended spouse don't have feelings of lust and sexual desire for each other leading up to the wedding, then something is very wrong in your relationship and you shouldn't be marrying because being sexually attracted to your partner is a major part of it.

People always quote St. Paul but forget Songs of Solomon and how much sex there was in it

Gaggi:
How is this even an issue? Some people are suffering neglect and domestic abuse, this one is talking of ac and sex. If the man never liked sex, we can understand, some men are just put off for a while with the whole pregnancy thing.

He is doting and caring and a good provider. Madam should go and pleasure herself jor. I sometimes wonder what this world is coming to. What happens when a partner has an accident and can no longer function sexually? Is that the end of the marriage? Our generation is crazy. Men and women should learn to see beyond the mundane, marriage is deep and should be treated as such.

crackhaus:

Keep this sex education for your kids man - don't forget to tell them that sex is such a primal urge and avoiding it means they are asexual & something is wrong with their libido.