bonnyhope:


Women of this generation think only about sex

I thought this was a guy thing not until I was proven wrong by women themselves.

emddi:
It affects your performance brother,wether they approve it or not.condoms must sell,Viagra and it's likes must also sell
And I was emphasizing on "over sexing"

No scientific evidence that sex before a sporting events affects performance, except of course it was done exhaustively too close to the sporting event.
If a light jogging and exercise does not negatively affect performance before a sporting event, why will sex a night before affect performance.

emddi:
It affects your performance brother,wether they approve it or not.condoms must sell,Viagra and it's likes must also sell
And I was emphasizing on "over sexing"

I should have put “copied”. I didn’t write the article. Many of these things don’t come out the way we think. Next time they may even find out it helps a boxer to have sex right before a fight!

Was she blind before marriage

This man belong to a society that forbids him from having sex during a certain period

emddi:
I thought this was a guy thing not until I was proven wrong by women themselves.

Humanity’s main purpose is procreation (sex) - we are all subconsciously preoccupied with sex - even if we consciously deny it

wirinet:

No scientific evidence that sex before a sporting events affects performance, except of course it was done exhaustively too close to the sporting event.
If a light jogging and exercise does not negatively affect performance before a sporting event, why will sex a night before affect performance.

that is why I said "Over" sexing
I have personally seen guys lose their sporting prowess from over sexing

Seduction is the key, she should appear very suductive in the ozer room. Ask her to go n buy very skimpy and transparent night gowns with see through panties, the husband will eventually rape her, she can thank me later

wirinet:

No scientific evidence that sex before a sporting events affects performance, except of course it was done exhaustively too close to the sporting event.
If a light jogging and exercise does not negatively affect performance before a sporting event, why will sex a night before affect performance.

It may actually help it - have the fighter more relaxed and thinking clearer

StPete:


Any man with a healthy sex appetite will not go without Sex for a week let alone 9 months unless you’re relieving yourself elsewhere. Surely, low libido has been the reason behind his not wanting to copulate, forget his archaic mindset.


What happens with having sex gently during pregnancy if you feel it could hurt the baby?

If sperm adds with ovaries to form babies, how does it turn around to hurt the baby? (Assuming truly, if sperm can contaminate the milk). Moreso, some women have been known to suck sperm, how come they aren’t dead?

Besides, it is obvious that his archaism is centered around sex which clearly shows that the man is trying to avoid sex by ALL MEANS!

9 months of pregnancy + 1yr 6 months of breastfeeding = Extremely low libido

Has any woman sucked your sperm?

Donyswit:
Seduction is the key, she should appear very suductive in the ozer room. Ask her to go n buy very skimpy and transparent night gowns with see through panties, the husband will eventually rape her, she can thank me later

Nonsense. The husband will probably find it extremely annoying

CanadaOrBust:

Humanity’s main purpose is procreation (sex) - we are all subconsciously preoccupied with sex - even if we consciously deny it

Me I think humanity main purpose is love,offering value to humanity
And I think there's a big line between making love and just having sex

There is more to this than meets the eye.Your husband may be gay or he is hiding something from you.You need to watch him closely.

mysticwarrior:
it is very important to know and understand the sexual orientation of your partner before marriage, this will help you to know if you can cope with that person in the future.

I guess she hopped in to bear the title Mrs

emddi:
Me I think humanity mains purpose is love,offering value to humanity
And I think there's a big line between making love and just having sex

Love doesn’t produce babies. Nature’s main purpose with humanity is procreation and if we are to be honest ourselves it doesn’t really care how u arrive at it (in ancient times it was through rape)

prommy:
There is more to this than meets the eye.Your husband may be gay or he is hiding something from you.You need to watch him closely.

You said it! Likely a closet gay

CanadaOrBust:


Love doesn’t produce babies. Nature’s main purpose with humanity is procreation and if we are to be honest ourselves it doesn’t really care how u arrive at it (in ancient times it was through rape)

are we not over populated yet?then maybe the world should end already

emddi:
that is why I said "Over" sexing
I have personally seen guys lose their sporting prowess from over sexing

“Over” anything is bad

emddi:
are we not over populated yet?then maybe the world should end already

But it hasn’t ended yet. UNTILL it does, it’s all about sex

wirinet:


Darling, it's difficult having your cake and eating it.
You asked for a husband that won't cheat, god gave you one with low libido. If you want for one with high libido, you will give you enough sexual satisfaction, you would have had to tolerate some cheating.

I understand, that's why I'm not complaining.

I commented so the OP will see an advantage and focus on working on her marriage

If she wants to change the man's sexual attitude she should be wearing sexy cloths whenever they are both together. She should stop complaining and concentrate in raising her child. She should be prayerful too. There's nothing that God can't do. She is lucky that the man isn't a party freak, a woman wrapper or even aka-gum. She should be matured in handling this issue.

CanadaOrBust:
Her husband is not highly sexed. He has low libido and she should adjust accordingly if she wants the marriage to last. Sex is not everything. Let her enjoy her baby and other aspects of marriage and life.
*******
FTC!!!
Never thought this would make front page.
Goes to show, if u make up a good story, u never know...

I dedicate this FTC to that guy, Onyema, and his Air Peace.
We know he stole money but at least he put it to good use, unlike people like Mompha and Hushpuppy who just kept buying Lamboghinis

mysticwarrior:
oya hanty phinish the story na, what happened after he saw you with this short dress?

na our little secret I have killa thighs and legs the first time he saw me he said my daughter must have those legs so you can imagine ...

Jiokejohn:


Dear Midnighter,
Please take it easy. You are taking it personal. Though I understand your point and equally agree with your submission. But tread softly.

Well, I'm not sure what you mean by this message

Tread softly how? I was just responding to what that guy wrote, which I vehemently disagree with.

Yeah, I take it personally when people try to justify neglecting women for spurious reasons. You can't see the amount of hypocrisy and double-standard in this thread

The man is seriously not going to touch his wife for 2 years and they're going to every length try to excuse it. If it were the other way around, do you think that would be the case??

yeyeosoronga:
Sex is actually classed as a physiological need, as with food , water, health, sleep, shelter, clothing.
These are even classed before safety needs.
Madam has been deprived of sex for almost a year or more since she found out she was pregnant, till the baby will stop breastfeeding. That will be close to a total of 2 years at the very least, of not meeting her sexual needs. That's definitely more than being icky about sex on the husband's part.
While a vibrator or d.ildo can do a pretty good job too, I doubt if a young girl in marriage will want to see that as her lifetime sentence
I wonder how the man has been meeting his own sexual needs though...

he must have been soapyfying it

emddi:
maybe not necessarily low libido,maybe he is among the few that understands that their sexual energy is the most important energy they need for everyday life

This shit got me

kingcalors:
If she wants to change the man's sexual attitude she should be wearing sexy cloths whenever they are both together. She should stop complaining and concentrate in raising her child. She should be prayerful too. There's nothing that God can't do. She is lucky that the man isn't a party freak, a woman wrapper or even aka-gum. She should be matured in handling this issue.

U r the 2nd person person saying this sexy clothes stuff. Won’t u find it extremely annoying if someone you told u r not interested in having sex suddenly starts wearing “sexy clothes” - what u consider sexy clothes may actually be abhorrent to him

bonnyhope:


Has any woman sucked your sperm?

That’s none of your business

lefulefu:
guys who marry women they dont find sexually attractive are really trying sha .maybe this could explain why many married men still keep side chicks.

Lol lefu man, they are not trying anything. Why do you go for a woman you don't like Are you not punishing yourself?

Hope you're not trying to tell me your future plan is to be a man with many side-chicks?

StPete:


That’s none of your business

Share your experience with us

NuissancePolice:



Nice pix...
To Bleep you dey hungry me

To slap you dey hungry me

bonnyhope:


Share your experience with us

Ask your girlfriend, she’d be delighted to

wirinet:

He might be an exception to the rule or maybe he is doing it codedly. One thing I know, is that most highly driven business men have extremely high libido.
I remember someone like Abacha. He had a guest house in Alexander Road, ikoyi, where his aid brings in 3 different girls, almost every night. The girls are put in 3 different rooms. Abacha comes in at around 12 midnight and goes through all the girls before 6 am. By 8 am he is back at his desk in his office at Dodan Barracks. That was when he was chief of army staff under IBB. And in all these he still loved his wife very much.

Power is an aphrodisiac. Powerful people often have a very high libido

Politicians get runs arranged for them by their aides to satisfy their appetite.

Except some extremely disciplined or religious people who try to overcome it