Actually majority of men are turned off by lactating breasts. I know some hypocrites might not want to say this but it's true. Most men sleep with their pregnant wives just to make her feel good not like they're enjoying it except men with tiny thing. The most difficult time for men in marriage is that 2nd to last trimester and first 3 to 6 months post delivery of their wives. By "difficult" I mean faithfulness. That man might not be archaic but is trying to avoid some things before he gets turned off too early in marriage. That is if her attitude has not turned him off already.

sassysure:


He just married to have biological kids and avoid societal stigmatization. I just dey pity the woman.it should be the other way round.

Can you just imagine the excuses not to have sex with his own wife!!! I weep for the woman in this story. The excuses will keep coming till she’s frustrated and runs away, goes mad or cheat. Then he will have cause to divorce her.

dominique:
Either the husband is a closeted gay or has very low libido. It's her cross, let her carry it. Sex is neither food nor oxygen you need to have to sustain yourself.

human beings are sexual beings and as a result, the WHO is going to classify inability of a human being to find a sex partner as an ill-health ok a disease that requires treatment, just the same way inability to breathe oxygen is called hypoxia and inability to find food is called anorexia.

stanliwiser:
sex is everything at a point and nothing at some point. stop confusing us.

Sex is NEVER everything. U forget there’s always beer

Baldwretch:


Lol, that's very true sha.

Forums thrive better with fake and made-up stories.

Or at least partly made up. Totally true stories are usually uninteresting

mysticwarrior:
don't blame the woman its a normal thing for most woman to have sexual desires during pregnancy.

Really?Tell me do woman has urge too...like spontaneous arousal.

Abfinest007:
do we still have these kind of primitive people in these Nigeria

Plenty. My uncle is one of them. He believes so much that the gas in AC is carcinogenic, he'll fight you if you try to tell him its not true.

CanadaOrBust:
Her husband is not highly sexed. He has low libido and she should adjust accordingly if she wants the marriage to last. Sex is not everything. Let her enjoy her baby and other aspects of marriage and life

That man is buzzing the speakers of someone drinking Krest somewhere

CanadaOrBust:

Sex is NEVER everything. U forget there’s always beer

. you mean beer also sweet like dat honey part.

CanadaOrBust:
Her husband is not highly sexed. He has low libido and she should adjust accordingly if she wants the marriage to last. Sex is not everything. Let her enjoy her baby and other aspects of marriage and life

Easier said than done. Most women develop very high libido after the first trimester and almost kill their husbands with sex. During my own time, I use to think I was hulk hogan, until I realised I was a learner. I was relieved after she gave birth.
As a MAN, it is a duty to satisfy your woman, no excuses.

bizzibodi:

Really?Tell me do woman has urge too...like spontaneous arousal.

It gets worse during pregnancy

crackhaus:

If I didn't already figure you were as sharp as a block of wood, I would have been more serious in my replies to you.

Just see your last paragraph in bold.
Was it not my own comment on this thread that started this and got you to quote me yapping about asexuality?
Or do you have a 24hr memory retention limit?

BTW, I know you don't have kids...but like a block of wood, you won't sense sarcasm if it was a double-edged sword swinging towards the surface of your skin.

Lol. I find your insultiveness amusing because there is absolutely no basis for it.
No, I am the very first to comment on this thread. Instead of stating your own views, you were attacking me for making an assumption

OcMichaels:


"Sex is not everything".....

Of course not - u forget there’s always beer

Abagworo:
Actually majority of men are turned off by lactating breasts. I know some hypocrites might not want to say this but it's true. Most men sleep with their pregnant wives just to make her feel good not like they're enjoying it except men with tiny thing. The most difficult time for men in marriage is that 2nd to last trimester and first 3 to 6 months post delivery of their wives. By "difficult" I mean faithfulness. That man might not be archaic but is trying to avoid some things before he gets turned off too early in marriage. That is if her attitude has not turned him off already.

Is mouth job included too or will it affect the baby?

The way u guys heap blame on women is suffocating.

U have condemned her.
U Nigerian men should be very ashamed of yourselves.

So quick to trash down a woman yet you guys have ran the country under. If I were u guys, I will always hide my head in shame.

CanadaOrBust:


Sex is NEVER everything. U forget there’s always beer

Like this one abi...

stanliwiser:
.
you mean beer also sweet like dat honey part.

If u r forced to choose between the two, always choose beer

I believe she will be fine

Gaggi:
How is this even an issue? Some people are suffering neglect and domestic abuse, this one is talking of ac and sex. If the man never liked sex, we can understand, some men are just put off for a while with the whole pregnancy thing.

He is doting and caring and a good provider. Madam should go and pleasure herself jor. I sometimes wonder what this world is coming to. What happens when a partner has an accident and can no longer function sexually? Is that the end of the marriage? Our generation is crazy. Men and women should learn to see beyond the mundane, marriage is deep and should be treated as such.

In this case I don't think the man is put off with "the whole pregnancy thing" as u put it. its his believes even prior to marriage that is the issue. Such mental attitude can be a source of suffering and deprivation for any one who has it and to those around them.

Met in 2017, married in 2018.


Shey na marriage matter full una head. Enjoy ya low libido man in peace, he maybe even be Tonto Dikeh's ex husband friend .

Instead of taking time to know this person, you wanna jump into marriage, now you have jumped, enjoy it to the fullness.

Just deal with it.

Nonsensical nonsensicrity nonsenselila nonsenseclala. Nonsense ingredients

Honestly, I don't see how what you said about the man is a problem. Of the truth getting too of air the the AC can course some carcinogenic related alignments. And it is not normal to have sex during pregnancies though it is still obtainable. It is just being modest with sexual health that's all.

MusaDanladi1:

Like this one abi...

Nah, more like this:

mysticwarrior:
cocumbation off course.

Coinage of word won't kee u 4me!
Cocuba...wot?

Abagworo:
Actually majority of men are turned off by lactating breasts. I know some hypocrites might not want to say this but it's true. Most men sleep with their pregnant wives just to make her feel good not like they're enjoying it except men with tiny thing. The most difficult time for men in marriage is that 2nd to last trimester and first 3 to 6 months post delivery of their wives. By "difficult" I mean faithfulness. That man might not be archaic but is trying to avoid some things before he gets turned off too early in marriage. That is if her attitude has not turned him off already.

My brother watin man go do? Shebi na we sign till death do us part? So you have no choice but to do - by force or by fire.

baby124:

Can you just imagine the excuses not to have sex with his own wife!!! I weep for the woman in this story. The excuses will keep coming till she’s frustrated and runs away, goes mad or cheat. Then he will have cause to divorce her.

That man is hiding something honestly. Look at his pathetic excuses.

Op please tell her that I am available for away games, just to fill up the vacuum. I will inbox you my number. I ate mens that are stingy with their pricks

od501:
Honestly, I don't see how what you said about the man is a problem. Of the truth getting too of air the the AC can course some carcinogenic related alignments. And it is not normal to have sex during pregnancies though it is still obtainable. It is just being modest with sexual health that's all.

Then you are either not married or your wife is one of the very few exceptions.
Most women crave sex during pregnancy like they crave stupid food tastes. As their hormones starts to act widely, it also affects their sex hormones.

Abagworo:
Actually majority of men are turned off by lactating breasts. I know some hypocrites might not want to say this but it's true. Most men sleep with their pregnant wives just to make her feel good not like they're enjoying it except men with tiny thing. The most difficult time for men in marriage is that 2nd to last trimester and first 3 to 6 months post delivery of their wives. By "difficult" I mean faithfulness. That man might not be archaic but is trying to avoid some things before he gets turned off too early in marriage. That is if her attitude has not turned him off already.

sassysure:


Is mouth job included too or will it affect the baby?

The way u guys heap blame on women is suffocating.

U have condemned her.
U Nigerian men should be very ashamed of yourselves.

So quick to trash down a woman yet you guys have ran the country under. If I were u guys, I will always hide my head in shame.

See why u shouldn’t generalize? I have actually always been turned on by pregnant women - don’t know why

CanadaOrBust:




See why u shouldn’t generalize? I have actually always been turned on by pregnant women - don’t know why

no wonder i always see you with pregnant women

Fountainofyouth:



You are a junkie

Wow

wirinet:

Easier said than done. Most women develop very high libido after the first trimester and almost kill their husbands with sex. During my own time, I use to think I was hulk hogan, until I realised I was a learner. I was relieved after she gave birth.
As a MAN, it is a duty to satisfy your woman, no excuses.

U so right.
Mr. CRACKHAUS (what a moniker), see, I’m not the only one that thinks those are just excuses.

CanadaOrBust:




See why u shouldn’t generalize? I have actually always been turned on by pregnant women - don’t know why

Thank u. I know and have seen men who get turned on by pregnant and lactating women. Lactating is worst
That man is very selfish