lyndaway:
Just stay clear the deed has been done already there's no need crying over split milk just believe God and a better man will come

Ladykiss:


Am regretting that too. My pain was that lady sending me message by mocking me. Sincerely i don't mind being the second wife if that is what she want since she refused to have sense. But i hope am doing the right thing?

To be honest i still love the man deep down me

SBL28:
You know what you are doing is wrong, don't use the wife's message as an excuse. What is bad is bad, it does not have two names!

Ladykiss:



Reading this made me cry. Please what can i do to end this relationship and take myself out of it. What exactly can i do?

Ladykiss:


Ofcourse i put myself in the wife shoe reason i congratulate him and wish him well. But right does that woman have to message me, the annoying part in her message was

"Hi lola i know you are my husband ex, how are you? She sent it with a laughing emoji

Is her message fair on me?

J111333:
Delete his memory. Pictures, phone number, unfriend him on social media and block his numbers.
You just need to move on. Love yourself, give yourself a treat and open your mind for a new start.
Moving on is not easy but people do it so you too can.
If he impregnated a woman, that's forgivable but marrying and taking her with him to the UK is a premeditated treachery so don't be more foolish than you already are. No insult intended.
You'll see another man you'll love in no time, trust me.

prizlezzlalasky:



My dear don't tell me you went back to this man just to get back @ his wife.... Cause that is pathetic.
Pls leave emotion out of this and get your life back. Use of your head and not heart.
Bottom line is he is married. Look for your own man.

Ladykiss:


Not that i don't love him, i need to work after graduation, i don't want a situation he will believe i married him because of papers.

DanDeeBoss:
Leave him and his wife alone, forget about him unless you want to be "single" later on


Use your head

Tajbol4splend:
You are shaa looking for someone to help justify your adultery with him.

You've got to move on and wait for your own man and stop spoiling another woman's family because you wouldn't want the same thing done to you by another woman if you were the man's wife

Ladykiss:


Well that's your own opinion, probably you are the type that double date and depend on men has your pot of gold. Am not the type

The relationship started while i was in school, which made it that long. I have parent to give back to after graduation, reason marriage wasn't in my head early. You can insult me from now till next year, that's your problem but one thing i want u to understand is i lola is not the same person with you. Thanks

Ladykiss:


Don't pour your anger on me if u fall in the line of those desperate ladies that will use pregnancy to tie another lady man just to marry u and give u papers.

Who is desperate to marry? Like u don't know me. I will pick my carrier 1million times before thinking of marriage.

Treat my Bleep up squarely, i laugh on this. Her madness is doing yes madam where my own madness stand. I just dislike fighting on men because they don't worth it. My anger is that woman message to me while am still trying to let go.

Be nice with your advice, if someone has snatched your husband from you before, don't come and pour the anger on me.

Manadan0000:
Aunty you bleeped up, just move on and take responsibility of your actions, from your post you love him but you didn't show him, what kind of a man will be with a lady for six years hoping to settle with her and then wait while they re other more beautiful, better options out there.
See where shakara has landed you now you want to be a second wife and you think the first lady of the house will let that just happen smoothly, pity your unborn children, leave somebody's husband alone and get yours please.

LilMissFavvy:
I am just amazed at your stupiidity, even when you claim to be educated. This is far from me pouring my anger, fact is, you are a cheap hoee, messing with another woman's marriage, I don't bash females, but you are just a wicked soul out to frustrate another woman's marriage, even READY TO BECOME A SECOND WIFE, hahahaha, yet you claim not to be desperate, such a foool.

Claiming all sad and emotionally downcast, whereas your aim is to destroy another woman's marriage. Up there you said she might have married because she got pregnant, now you are saying she roped him into marriage cuz of pregnancy, aren't you a confused being? Two contradicting statements. Let me leave your thread, cuz if I decide to banter words with you,I will continue to call you names which befits a trampp like you.

Ladykiss:


Adultery? Like i snatched him from his wife or what? Madam be mature with your post. Probably you snatched your friend man and married him, claiming wife to your friend, forgetting the fact she was dating the man before u forced yourself in. I know people like you, so your message can't touch me.

Ladykiss:


Iyndaway i will take your advice and stay clear, i know it won't be easy but i will try even if to leave the country for some time. I will try my best to erase him from my memory. I will, I will, I will try

lyndaway:
God will help you dear

Ladykiss:


Amen and thanks for understanding me and giving advice without insult

Tajbol4splend:




Look at this.

You know he's married. He came to Nigeria without his wife. He called you to hang out with him and you obliged despite knowing his marital status. What do you think adultery is? Are you married to him to hang with him? Even though he wanted you to hang out with him, did he force you to hang out with him to say it's not adultery?

rtdCivilservant:

Have u had sex with him since he came back? There is a reason I am asking.

Ladykiss:


Hello this was a man i dated for good 6yrs without double dating, do u actually think is easy to quit the relationship just because he married another lady? Definitely i will face him physically to explain what and how i wronged him to deserve that maltreating from him. We are together all through doesn't mean sex. Please use your sense, my pain now is more than having sex. Give ur advice and don't add to my pain. Thanks

Ladykiss:


The answer is No, he requested but i refused simply because am in pain. That's the honest truth

Smartjohns:
Ma'am, going through your post and replies. It's glaring that you're very confused.

Take your time and decide on what you really what.

You can decide for yourself, cuz a man you claim to love left you and marry another person, you were not lost oooh, you were in a relationship with him.

That only shows how confused the both of you are. You don't want to be a second wife, I bet you, there's absolutely no Joy in that.

Forget him and MOVE ON!!!!!