Fellow nairalanders, can you disclose your real wages or salaries to your partner?

yes why?

OP,
Yep . . .why not!

Its a two way thing

@k-money, two way thing?how

how

Yes and No. Yes willingly if shes not the greedy type. Hell no if a girl like one of my ex.

190:

NO

cos if you do

She would multiply and divide the monthly cost on

Hair,
Recharge cards
Suya
Nails
Shoes
Meat
Car

whats left is yours to manage!!

Confirm 190 you have spoken well I agree with you.

^^^^190 and you are just weak men who cant handle your biz.
First: you guys probably should look for gals who have their own J O B (income), so that you dont have to provide for what 190 mentioned.
Second: who cares if she asks (or double the fee)? DONT PAY and stick to what you are comfortable to offer, if she doesnt like it, she could always take a hike!!!!
Last: if you fear women that much then there is only ONE way out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

Unless we are married, I don't see why my partner has to know my income. . . . .

Yes if the person is my wife BUT no if na ordinary babe. But even if gf knows its wat i feel like giving or do, i do if shes not ok den good riddance 2 bad rubbish.

Yes i can if he let me know his. And for me,  knowin his does not mean i demand too much from him. I love to be independent and so I work hard to make my money and to spend my money d way i want to

Nothing wrong with that

for a babe, no way and even if she finds out, she's on her own. wifey, surely will let her knw. at least i think she's entitled to knw afterall we swim and sink together.

I cant tell her oo, Woman! na that time she go multiply her expenses and you have no options than to obey lol

never,i can't even think abt telling her the really amount. cos if i does without given her  what she expect every month from me there will be trouble. see boy get sense. u must add little lie to make it up with ur p. or u crash out.just try and care for her as much as u can ok. get payment of 150k monthly and tell her is 100k sure she will love u more if u give her 20k or less . then scope her little brain.lol

REALITY101:

Yes and No. Yes willingly if shes not the greedy type. Hell no if a girl like one of my ex.

You may also want to add "if she's not the talkative type" to your list. Before you know it, all her friends and relatives know how much oga makes in a month

It should be kept private for lovers but married couple should keep transparency on their incomes, a so called joint account to know how to budget on their needs and wants

Yes i can let my boyfriend know, he knows how much i bring home weekly and monthly and i know the same for him, we both have seperate accounts and it works just fine,

My BF knows how much im earning,and he tells me every income he makes. We also consult each other before spending huge sums of money.

baby.me:

My BF knows how much im earning,and he tells me every income he makes. We also consult each other before spending huge sums of money.

i dont know how much you earn== the other time i asked you== you were like

k-money £:

i dont know how much you earn== the other time i asked you== you were like

For g.f: mba. For wife: yes.

MRbrownJAY:

^^^^190 and you are just weak men who cant handle your biz.
First: you guys probably should look for gals who have their own J O B (income), so that you dont have to provide for what 190 mentioned.
Second: who cares if she asks (or double the fee)? DONT PAY and stick to what you are comfortable to offer, if she doesnt like it, she could always take a hike!!!!
Last: if you fear women that much then there is only ONE way out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

i couldn't agree less.

Carolece:

Never, and I dont want to know his either. What's his is his, and what's mine is mines. Yall call me selfish if you please, I dont care. Having things together is what cause the fuss when there's a breakup. I will walk my way and he his way without a fuss.

Marriages barely last these days and break ups are prevalent because people like u invest all your resources (time, money, energy, etc) on "breakup or divorce recovery". On the long run, if there is no breakup, you'll make one happen

She will see ma payslip anyway so no biggie.
No reason to be sensitive about what i earn.

baby.me:

Your next day day will show if truely you can let me know how much you earn.

jay bee:

She will see ma payslip anyway so no biggie.
No reason to be sensitive about what i earn.

very true sir, i see it all, even i know his social number and how much he has in savings and he didnt have to tell me cuz i can find on my oqn