My brother in-law sends me 1 million monthly but does not want me to inform anyone-Worried wife.

My brother in-law sends me 1 million monthly but does not want me to inform anyone-Worried house wife

A worried house wife has written to relationship expert Osigwe Omo-Ikirodah, anchor of iRelationship make or mar over the gestures of her brother-in-law.
She claims he sends her a million naira monthly to assist in the welfare of the family.

Her fear now arises from the motive behind the gift.
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According to her, the husband is currently facing hard times and she is lost on how to help him without letting the secret out on the source of her funds.

Hello, Osigwe I hope this message is successfully published. I am really at a loss on what to do currently as regards helping my husband.
My husband is a dismissed civil servant who was forced into retirement by the government.

Since his forceful retirement things have not been the same with us anymore.
Meanwhile, my husband's younger brother for the past two months has been crediting my account with 1 million nairas monthly.

According to him he understands our present predicament and wants to help. But the only condition he is giving me is I should not inform anyone, note even my husband.

Yes, I do appreciate the gift but emphasis should be laid that my husband's younger brother was my University school date. We lost touch after our school days and when I had a re-connection with him was on the day of my traditional engagement. Then it was too late to alter any equation with my husband, his brother.

My husband needs money to start up a business now and am at a loss on how to help him with the money the brother gives me. How would I help without letting my husband know the source of the funds?

These dilemma has led to a series of concerns as regards why my brother-in-law does not wish to give his brother money directly and giving me and yet saying I should not talk.

Bearing in mind our childhood days I feel uncomfortable accepting his gifts without telling anyone. But I am constrained because we need the money at the same time.

Does he have a sinister motive? if he does how do I play safe?


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madam,if u can keep ur sexcapeds with the younger brother as a secret..keep dis one as well.it's called dividend of something in between...i fear women,i mean i fear women,i sey i dey fear women.

I am waiting for Elders to cum and answer this one ooo

She should not accept the gift.

At least he has credited you account with 2m now, so give it to your husband start something with it then don't answer the idiot again. He's a very stewpid bro to your hubby.

Little issues shouldnt be blown out of proportion.. Madaw tell ur old boy friend say you wan give ur husband cash from watin he give u..observe his reaction to satisfy your curiocity..but women,why owner they so secretive? You better tell ur husband every every,and hand over that cash to him make he start biz. Plus that ur inlaw wicked. So he can not help his brother back on his feet? World people sef!

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mechanics:
She should not accept the gift.

Hopefully she is clever enough

This dodo can not be salvaged anymore, just throw away the frying pan

This is called between red sea and the Dragon

Who knows if the so called brother inlaw or boy friend is the architect of her husband problem , since he cannot help his brother directly, secret my foot.

jefy:
Little issues shouldnt be blown out of proportion.. Madaw tell ur old boy friend say you wan give ur husband cash from watin he give u..observe his reaction to satisfy your curiocity..but women,why owner they so secretive? You better tell ur husband every every,and hand over that cash to him make he start biz. Plus that ur inlaw wicked. So he can not help his brother back on his feet? World people sef!

And God bless u I pray she can ooooo

jefy:
Little issues shouldnt be blown out of proportion.. Madaw tell ur old boy friend say you wan give ur husband cash from watin he give u..observe his reaction to satisfy your curiocity..but women,why owner they so secretive? You better tell ur husband every every,and hand over that cash to him make he start biz. Plus that ur inlaw wicked. So he can not help his brother back on his feet? World people sef!

Well his younger brother want to help no doubt, but you know people they might start getting envious and turn to monitoring spirit, so he is keeping low profile,more over it only proper for the senior to help the junior but you know 9ja na one kind country... Good thing Bet 9ja is there as an alibi ...just tell your husband you won bet 9ja

No be Una blessings e don pay Una for so?

She is asking a silly question because she already knows the motive behind the money but greed is too sweet.

where the fish drown and even die of thirst.....















We are nothing but pencils......

I didn't bother to even read the story, cos it will end in tears for the lady, if you are true woman and loves ur husband you will tell ur husband what his brother is doing


If not that you are dumb why didn't you ask him why he's isn't sending the money to his brother,yo help him start a business

Women and oju kokoro, ur brother in-law is simply fattening u for the kill,cos he knows u like money

Better tell ur husband and save ur marriage from disgrace and breakdown, which work u do wey u dey collect one milli from ur in-law every month

That condition is a no-no. Let him give the money to his brother or not at all.

Who am I deceiving sef. The money is already making her salivate. "He sends money to me" is in the present continuous tense (I think). She is going to sleep with the younger brother las las and destroy the whole family. Sometimes, marrying a wife is like importing a nuclear bomb into your family.

�� better call your husband and explain to him then things continue

Zeezny feat. Idowest titled Answer drops soon!!!

And all of una dey believe this super story that someone will jst sit in one corner and fabricate one lie upon another to see how una go digest am. One million ko, 30billion for the account ni.

Why you come dey inform us.

Your boyfriend feels he has lost you, so he's now taking the anger upon his elder bro. He's punishing his senior bro for sins he has not committed. You're the real problem here. My advice is open up to your husband now tell him everything that happen btw you and his younger one from beginning to end before its too late, and stay far from the younger brother. after that give your husband the money to start business. If the younger bro come back for his money, agree to pay him back but pay it as a loan. You and the husband should agree on how much you will be paying monthly or yearly till the two million is complete. Nobody will arrest you for that kind of money and if he threaten your life please report him to police should incase anything happen to you or husband.

Untainted007:
And all of una dey believe this super story that someone will jst sit in one corner and fabricate one lie upon another to see how una go digest am. One million ko, 30billion for the account ni.

the story may not be exact what happen. The money may not be up to 1m per month. I believe the op is trying to say that the husband bro have been giving her money for sometime which is now total 2million. And she's tired of any secret affair with the husband brother and as such she's also confuse on what to do with the money generated from the inlaw since the husband is jobless. She's seeking advice on how to hand over the money to her husband without causing any conflicts.

use the money to play 1.2 odds in bet9ja and then claim bet9ja paid u because u won

uruba23:

Well his younger brother want to help no doubt, but you know people they might start getting envious and turn to monitoring spirit, so he is keeping low profile,more over it only proper for the senior to help the junior but you know 9ja na one kind country... Good thing Bet 9ja is there as an alibi ...just tell your husband you won bet 9ja

probably a good point. She won bet9ja,nice. But me think he doesnt want to help his bro. Why give his x cash in secret? Why not call his brother and discuss a way out,and gift him cash to set up what ever business of his choice. And who on earth say's a younger brother shouldnt help his elder brother?! Remember,there is nothing hidden under the sun. No matter what,her husband should be aware...tommorow,when breez blow,fowl yansh go open,then casala go bust. There shouldnt be any form of secracy in marriage... My thoughts.