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Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by felixawe(m): 2:02pm On Jan 23, 2020
I am badly in need of a serious relationship because I'm no more getting any younger and I don't know why many do not want to approach me to date me.
One of the reasons why I think many do not want to date me or want to open up to me that they will like to have a relationship with me is probably because I'm the boss of all my staffs.

They all do the 'Oga' 'Oga' thing all the time even though I've told them many times without number that they can call me by my name.

The too much respect they're giving me is causing me more harm than do me any good.

I'm going to be 39 in the next 2 years and the hope of finding a husband is getting bleak every day.

I don't know what to do. Many are spreading different rumours as to why no man is coming for me and I want all that to end.

I'm fine too now, it is not as of I'm that ugly. Even people that are not as attractive as I am are getting married every weekend.

Please advise me on what to do before I clock 40 and menopause starts setting in.

It won't be good for me to now become suicidal because of this marriage thing.

Different people have given me different advice in the past and I have applied all they advised me to do but I'm still where I am.

And currently, I'm beginning to ask if I will still be able to find a husband.

Please help me, guys!

I will read all comments.

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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Kobicove(m): 2:05pm On Jan 23, 2020
Make more effort to socialise with single guys who are above you financially

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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Coded2(m): 2:27pm On Jan 23, 2020
Be humble u will get even we that are still looking up to God for such are praying seriously come let pray together maybe God can answer our prayer together.

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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by NaijaDonCast(m): 2:33pm On Jan 23, 2020
Youre beautifully Elegant, many men will want to rendezvous with you, but pictures can't tell it all, maybe too much bossy demeanor can be a major obstruction at this stage, and most especially if youre not a type that hang out, travels, meet people, try new things, feel relax, and being free with people of less intellect, relate with people no matter their social and economical class. Its difficult your wait might still continue...well many people see most of this hangout stuffs as not being responsible and discipline but everything happens for a reason

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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by YangaBabe: 2:42pm On Jan 23, 2020
Don't be moved my sister, the right man is coming for you

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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jan 23, 2020
Enjoy your single life Oga!!!

Marriage is not for everyone!!!!

Stay single and happy. Men are scum cool

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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Remijuice: 3:03pm On Jan 23, 2020
Can You Smile A Bit

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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by jasman1: 3:11pm On Jan 23, 2020
Are you talking about dating your coworkers? Who else knows you’re the “Oga” outside your work setting? I don’t think that’s the problem Oga. You need to rethink and work on your attitude especially. The little power you think you have may have brought out your ugly behavior. Work on that, talk to people you’re interested in and be more respectful and I sincerely wish you well. Yes, you can still find not just a husband but a good one too.

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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jan 23, 2020
Marriage is not a Do or Die affair. Sweetie, take your time, don't Lower your standards for anyone just because of the pressure from people. God has prepared a special "Someone" for you, and you have to look beyond your age and the fact that you own a thriving company. Yes, some men are scared of successful ladies, but there are still quality and figuratively robust men out there. All you need to do is relax, take good care of yourself, and praise God. God is already going deaf over the prayers of spinsters on Earth, especially in Nigeria. It is high time y'all switched to Praising him, and watch HIM bless you with your dream MAN.

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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Bruno3000(m): 3:42pm On Jan 23, 2020
Hw far with that guy u broke his heart?
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by iceybux(m): 3:52pm On Jan 23, 2020
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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Lightangel65: 3:53pm On Jan 23, 2020
This must have been one of all those slay queens who form like they don't shit. Well this where they end up. Nobody wants expired products.
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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Tonymegabush1(m): 4:02pm On Jan 23, 2020
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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by chigozie007(m): 4:27pm On Jan 23, 2020
AYI!!!!
felixawe:
I am badly in need of a serious relationship because I'm no more getting any younger and I don't know why many do not want to approach me to date me.
One of the reasons why I think many do not want to date me or want to open up to me that they will like to have a relationship with me is probably because I'm the boss of all my staffs.

They all do the 'Oga' 'Oga' thing all the time even though I've told them many times without number that they can call me by my name.

The too much respect they're giving me is causing me more harm than do me any good.

I'm going to be 39 in the next 2 years and the hope of finding a husband is getting bleak every day.

I don't know what to do. Many are spreading different rumours as to why no man is coming for me and I want all that to end.

I'm fine too now, it is not as of I'm that ugly. Even people that are not as attractive as I am are getting married every weekend.

Please advise me on what to do before I clock 40 and menopause starts setting in.

It won't be good for me to now become suicidal because of this marriage thing.

Different people have given me different advice in the past and I have applied all they advised me to do but I'm still where I am.

And currently, I'm beginning to ask if I will still be able to find a husband.

Please help me, guys!

I will read all comments.

Please SHARE and COMMENT.
https://news-af.feednews.com/news/detail/dbddbb0b5a50253467d9720d5e852f59?client=news
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Nobody: 4:29pm On Jan 23, 2020
felixawe:
I am badly in need of a serious relationship because I'm no more getting any younger and I don't know why many do not want to approach me to date me.
One of the reasons why I think many do not want to date me or want to open up to me that they will like to have a relationship with me is probably because I'm the boss of all my staffs.

They all do the 'Oga' 'Oga' thing all the time even though I've told them many times without number that they can call me by my name.

The too much respect they're giving me is causing me more harm than do me any good.

I'm going to be 39 in the next 2 years and the hope of finding a husband is getting bleak every day.

I don't know what to do. Many are spreading different rumours as to why no man is coming for me and I want all that to end.

I'm fine too now, it is not as of I'm that ugly. Even people that are not as attractive as I am are getting married every weekend.

Please advise me on what to do before I clock 40 and menopause starts setting in.

It won't be good for me to now become suicidal because of this marriage thing.

Different people have given me different advice in the past and I have applied all they advised me to do but I'm still where I am.

And currently, I'm beginning to ask if I will still be able to find a husband.

Please help me, guys!

I will read all comments.

Please SHARE and COMMENT.
https://news-af.feednews.com/news/detail/dbddbb0b5a50253467d9720d5e852f59?client=news
most likely she is masculine. She needs to learn how to be more feminine. That's how to attract guys
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Nisland(m): 4:34pm On Jan 23, 2020
Call me on 08028453000. So that we can talk more.am olaniyi.
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Nobody: 4:48pm On Jan 23, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
most likely she is masculine. She needs to learn how to be more feminine. That's how to attract guys
I thought you are single? how did you figure out how to attract guys? grin

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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jan 23, 2020
Nisland:
Call me on 08028453000. So that we can talk more.am olaniyi.
stop wasting your time on made-up stories

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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jan 23, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
most likely she is masculine. She needs to learn how to be more feminine. That's how to attract guys
nah. Men are intimidated because she is a boss ,they want ladies the can control. Don't masculine ladies get ready?
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jan 23, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
most likely she is masculine. She needs to learn how to be more feminine. That's how to attract guys
nah. Men are intimidated because she is a boss ,they want ladies the can control. Don't masculine ladies get married?
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jan 23, 2020
Michellekabod2:
nah. Men are intimidated because she is a boss ,they want ladies the can control. Don't masculine ladies get married?
it's hard to find a man who isn't emasculated by a lady's success.

Besides masculinity always attract femininity. So a masculine woman will most likely attract a feminine man. Who wants that? Masculine women can get married too
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by YorubaPrince: 5:41pm On Jan 23, 2020
The chic sef no fine na... angry I bet many guys would have tried their luck but, she go dey form class and picky. Abeg, commot joor! angry

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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by YorubaPrince: 5:47pm On Jan 23, 2020
Nisland:
Call me on 08028453000. So that we can talk more.am olaniyi.

Just Imagine dis block head... angry

Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Brunicekid(m): 5:49pm On Jan 23, 2020
eni4real:
Enjoy your single life Oga!!!

Marriage is not for everyone!!!!

Stay single and happy. Men are scum cool
Don't be WICKED with your words, please. You that might be 3 years in Marriage with 3 children already offering this kind of advice.

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Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Georgekyrian(m): 6:03pm On Jan 23, 2020
My dear, get a cool guy to hit you straight with a cutie baby/ies, then move on marriage go come when it comes. Since you have the money you'll be happy with your kids and believe me, either you or your right man will find you. Be humble and support him when he comes
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by nlPoster: 6:04pm On Jan 23, 2020
God would provide a husband for you in Jesus name.
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Newguyhere: 6:13pm On Jan 23, 2020
even me as a single guy no go date her!
Even though I get money pass am!
Kobicove:
Make more effort to socialise with single guys who are above you financially
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Bigseven(m): 6:47pm On Jan 23, 2020
Coded2:
Be humble u will get even we that are still looking up to God for such are praying seriously come let pray together maybe God can answer our prayer together.
grin grin you mean she should visit so you guys can pray? Haba coded, a prayer of faith can be answered even if the person is over seas, even pictures can represent. Are u sure is the same prayer we know? grin

Meanwhile, seek the face of God and be specific on ur request to God, sore a seed to those preparing for marriage, then join service unit in your church with all humility. now u re of my prayer point.
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Originalsly: 6:55pm On Jan 23, 2020
Do readers realize this is cut and paste?..... from another forum?.... and the writer would not be reading your comments?.... nor the poster forwarding them to the writer?... just saying.
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Otis7(m): 6:57pm On Jan 23, 2020
Hmmm Women!!! They can be choosy and selective. Humble thyself and watch the Lord lift up thou. Humility comes before Honour.
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by zeestone99(m): 7:00pm On Jan 23, 2020
Kobicove:
Make more effort to socialise with single guys who are above you financially

What kind of advice is this. If you are a loaded single guy, will you marry someone that's almost 40?
Re: Nobody Wants To Approach Me Because I Am The 'oga', Can I Still Find A Husband by Nobody: 7:01pm On Jan 23, 2020
You need to come down from your throne and change your definition of what a husband means to you, setting specifics on the type of man you want may have chased the good guys from you that doesnt mean you should get down with any man, men with great vissions, ideas and a decent job are men too, yet he may not be rich now but would be someday, and how loyal are you?to be frank no man wants a feminist, a woman who would pride herself over his friends and family, you need to respect the men you admire and create a chance for a date, if you want to get married or find a husband you must split the share 50/50, you cant get a husband by always being too busy for relationships or dates, may the creator help you.

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