christianzest:
sometimes i just feel love is lie

christianzest:
i actually over trusted her.. thats why its so heart breaking

Kennedyiheme:
someone just got sacked, you don't think the best thing to do is encourage the person?.. you don't think the person needs moral support to help him get back on his feet?.. the way you responded, its impossible a man would say this.. you're either a woman hiding under a mans moniker or youre gay

Blu03:
if you have no problem with marrying a barren woman because of love, then you're rare. Most men wouldn't. Majority of the guys who commented here move from thread to thread slutshaming non virgins. Assuming they fall in love with one, would they give her up simply because she's lost that piece of irrelevant flesh?
As much as love is important, we have to consider other factors in the relationship for our securities. Thats human nature for you. Pure selfishness.
Again, count your blessings rather. She wasn't the one. I hope you would heal. Ignore those chanting 'bitches ain't loyal'. If their girl was bathed with acid would they stay?
Consider things from both sides.

Blu03:

[s]If she came home with a fake hospital result that her womb has been damaged from her previous abortions, would you stay?
Dont be narrowminded next time. You wouldn't take such a 'prank' lightly[/s].
Anyways, she isn't wifey material. You'll heal and find miss Right.

Codergirl:
All these testing are unnecessary and a waste of time. Some people still get divorced down the line despite all the tests and the passing of the tests.

dairykidd:

It isn't... life itself is a test

Codergirl:


But love isn't. Shouldn't we learn to separate the two?

Blu03:

If she came home with a fake hospital result that her womb has been damaged from her previous abortions, would you stay?
Dont be narrowminded next time. You wouldn't take such a 'prank' lightly.
Anyways, she isn't wifey material. You'll heal and find miss Right.

J111333:
Forget the fool. How could a woman who claimed to have loved a man leave the next day without saying a word just because he had lost his job. She didn't bother to offer any assistance or at least stand by him a little at that time of despair.

Another fool is asking which man would stay if her woman lost her womb. You can imagine the crop of women in this forum.

Blu03:
if you were the woman, would you marry a broke man?
Abi you would prefer an uncertain future? I'm not defending the lady, but before love there are other factors we have to consider for our security. Humans are foremost selfish. It's our survival instinct.

christianzest:
you can only know the feeling when you truly love someone and has planned a life ahead with the person

crackkhaus:
Lol, was she your wife?

How can you be broken hearted because one so-called girlfriend left you.

You've been delivered please.

christianzest:
ladies are just not worth it sometimes,

i planned on going for a 1 month leave from work so i decided to pull a prank on my girlfriend...

i designed and printed a fake sack letter from my company while i signed off to go on my leave, the next day i did not go to work, did same for like three days untill she asked why i wasn't going t work, i faked my cry and gave her the fake letter telling her i've been sacked from work, she sat for like 10mins without saying a word, next she said what's my next plan, i told her i dont know yet and that there is no vacancy fro my kind job anywhere at the moment so we have to manage for the main time....

to my suprise i woke up the next day to find out she had packed her bags and left, i dialed her number and it was saying ''call forwarding'' i then dialled from me a neighbours phone it rang but she didnt pick which meeans she has blacklisted my number.

https://carrygist..com/2020/02/she-broke-up-with-me-after-i-took-1.html

so all the money i've spent on her, paying for her hair, even bought her a new phone for the new year, all is waste and gone, which means she never was with me cause of love but for the money....

guysss!!! please be sure that lady you are about to give your life or you've given your life to is really worth it.

Blu03:
So we can start a lesbian relationship?
We gotta balance things babe.

Came4amod:


The fact is he got her with money not communication.. bro if u get a girl like that .. she has played u and had option B since day 1 .. but if you get a girl with communication.. she will be dropping options to be with you almost all the time till u finally marry ..

emkz:
That was an immature stunt you pulled.

If you were tired of the relationship, you could have told her and not pull tasteless stunts. Loving someone does not equate to testing their loyalty by setting traps they'd fall into. It is tasteless, puerile and crass pusilanimity.

You can do better next time: if the relationship loses its colour, read about how to re-ignite it.

christianzest:
Ladies are just not worth it sometimes, I planned on going for a 1 month leave from work so i decided to pull a prank on my girlfriend. I designed and printed a fake sack letter from my company while i signed off to go on my leave, the next day i did not go to work, did same for like three days until she asked why i wasn't going t work, i faked my cry and gave her the fake letter telling her I've been sacked from work, she sat for like 10mins without saying a word, next she said what's my next plan, i told her i don't know yet and that there is no vacancy fro my kind job anywhere at the moment so we have to manage for the main time. To my surprise i woke up the next day to find out she had packed her bags and left, i dialed her number and it was saying ''call forwarding i then dialed from me a neighbors phone it rang but she didn't pick which means she has blacklisted my number. So all the money I've spent on her, paying for her hair, even bought her a new phone for the new year, all is waste and gone, which means she never was with me cause of love but for the money. Guys please be sure that lady you are about to give your life or you've given your life to is really worth it.

zexy2030:
Until guys learn to test women who are truly in relationship with u can never tell their weakness. But let's turn it the otherway round.. What If she tells u she removed her womb because of some life's problem.. Won't u do s same?

Barzinime:
Both are not the same my friend.
you can get another job but you cant do the same with womb.

Blu03:
if you were the woman, would you marry a broke man?
Abi you would prefer an uncertain future? I'm not defending the lady, but before love there are other factors we have to consider for our security. Humans are foremost selfish. It's our survival instinct.

Blu03:
if you were the woman, would you marry a broke man?
Abi you would prefer an uncertain future? I'm not defending the lady, but before love there are other factors we have to consider for our security. Humans are foremost selfish. It's our survival instinct.

Blu03:
if you have no problem with marrying a barren woman because of love, then you're rare. Most men wouldn't. Majority of the guys who commented here move from thread to thread slutshaming non virgins. Assuming they fall in love with one, would they give her up simply because she's lost that piece of irrelevant flesh?
As much as love is important, we have to consider other factors in the relationship for our securities. Thats human nature for you. Pure selfishness.
Again, count your blessings rather. She wasn't the one. I hope you would heal. Ignore those chanting 'bitches ain't loyal'. If their girl was bathed with acid would they stay?
Consider things from both sides.

christianzest:
hmmm... i'll do just that, though i felt like i should just allow her be so she wont think i still love her or am missing her, cause am over her already

emkz:
That was an immature stunt you pulled.

If you were tired of the relationship, you could have told her and not pull tasteless stunts. Loving someone does not equate to testing their loyalty by setting traps they'd fall into. It is tasteless, puerile and crass pusilanimity.

You can do better next time: if the relationship loses its colour, read about how to re-ignite it.

Kennedyiheme:
would a woman marry a sterile man?.. please stop putting this guys suituation in the same bracket with infertility.. all these blue pilled simp men always trying to save women

MedicH:


You're pathetically stupid and irredeemably insane. So your dad never lost a job? Is that the point and what did ur mother do next? Pack her bags and call the marriage quit? This is unbelievable.