Threedoorsdown:
she once told me that she had sworn never to assist any BF financially except her husband

She hardly supports me whenever i'm down financially except lending money to me a few times and i pay back at the appointed time . One time we had issues and she threatened to call soldiers on me if i do not refund the money she lent me, i had to pay up before time.
Apart from the fact that she seems proud and ungrateful for the things i do( she once told me i gave her a meagre 20K monthly , money that cannot buy material while her then ex gave her over 50k bla bla bla.

budaatum:
So, all this wahala already and you still want to marry her?

I'm a strong feminist, the sort who will tell you some men are pigs, but in your case I just have to say you have no sense because if you did you'd dump this woman and be out there looking for one who appreciates you for who you are and for what you do.

Preshy561:
Always begging for money? Nawaooo.

Chamakh93:
you know I have no problem with her not being committed to helping you financially and other issues you raised, my concern is that you said she once told you she will call soldiers for you if uno return her money,baba, he good as u end dat kind yeye relationship o, even tho I no wetin happen y she talk say ,she go call soldiers for u.

adegoke4sure:
the day my gf compares me to her ex,, that's the end of the relationship

CaveAdullam:
This generation of young men and girlfriend troubles.

Treating your girlfriend well is good, at least to maintain the masculine pride. But my problem is you made her feel entitled not only to a better treatment but to a monthly stipend. Who does that? You of course, because you have allowed yourself to be enslaved by "audio love."

So she works her money and straight to the bank, but you, no. You work your money day and night and use some reasonable percentage to please her. I pity you my friend!

Your girlfriend is an employer of labour, lends you money, and when you failed to meet up with the payment deadline she threatened you with military might. O my Lord! Is this not an indication that the relationship is heading towards the red sea and no Moses rod at sight?

Oga, from this "one side of the story" your girlfriend is using you to play emotional, psychological and financial "ten-ten."

Kit up bro, that lady is not yours except she adjust to a better side.

Why you wait for a reasonable wife material, take some miseducation pills from my oga ubunja and Martinez. The miseducations may not be taken for a gospel but it will definitely relief you in a way you never expected.

Thank you.

God bless.

comshots:
Girlfriend na huge burden.

tunjilana:
She has a dependent mentality. She has bn groomed to believe you should do all for her while she owes you nothing. A mentality that has its root in the fact that her body or companionship should be enough for you. A sex for your resources mentality, many ladies have it but yours added extreme selfishness to it. You can do 2 things

1. Simply end it (If you are a good guy)
2. Convert her to friends-with-benefit in your mind(If you know how to play games)...stop the abnormal one sided support, let all you give her be simply sex and anything you can afford to loose without breaking a sweat. She will figure out soonest and leave. But if your bed game is sweet, she will move on in her heart but still come around for the D. So u just got yourself a Bleep buddy till you are tired. This is very dangerous thou especially if you are the emotional guy who can simply get back to loving....Use that time to find better gal and do these checks early so you dont waste time unnecsarily

Westernlove:
I want to believe this Is only a made up story

Threedoorsdown:
i had to make her understand that we are all different and i did not earn as much as her ex. i can only do according to my capabilities moreover, she knows i am the one that supports my siblings so enough responsibility on me

fatymore:
Okomi, you are blessed to have me

frankkydee:


I am not...

My future oko













So you are married and at the same time looking for someone to be your Val, eku ise ooooo!