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.... by Nobody: 9:08pm On Dec 17, 2010
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Re: .... by Dyt(f): 9:27pm On Dec 17, 2010
Chuckles x3
its funny
things lyk dis jst makes me laugh
eyah
d guys always wanna b in control sha
Re: .... by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:42pm On Dec 17, 2010
why is that it is always by best friend

if she aint happy she should just dump the nigga and move one
Re: .... by Coolabbie: 9:57pm On Dec 17, 2010
Dang dis is so funny. Wat is she still doing wit such a jerk. She had beta leave dat prison & not allow bb or his 'generosity' 2 becloud her senses.
Re: .... by livedit(f): 9:59pm On Dec 17, 2010
How often is your "friend" on these websites?  These social websites can become addictive and some people may not realize they spend an awful considerable amount of time on Facebook/Twitter.  It's fine to be registered and on those sites, but when it's becoming in the way of your personal life and/or relationships then you have a problem.  

On the other hand, why is he so "overpossessive"?  Maybe he craves attention, a little selfish, insecure, controlling and maybe even "mentally disturbed".  You say he "loves" her dearly and treats her good other than that right?  I can see where the man is coming from if her first morning greetings is to a bunch of strangers that may or may not even like her than before your man.  He got a good point there.  Maybe he just going about it wrong when trying to express how he feels.  

If your friend is going to remain in this relationship, then they are definitely going to need to work on some better communication skills.  Because from what you just wrote, they are lacking that tremendously.  Have they always had this issue or is this issue new? Either way it goes, they need to have to learn how to LISTEN first and communicate better. Otherwise, maybe it's better they part because why continue on being miserable if no one is willing to compromise and sit down quietly and try to work things out without it turning into a "fight".
Re: .... by Omolola1(f): 10:13pm On Dec 17, 2010
What is she still doing with him?

Guys like this can do anything, absolutely anything to frustrate a lady
Overpossessiveness is something that is a common problem among Nigerian guys!

I guess she should just try talking with him maybe he might change, and if he doesn't
She should TAKE a BOW! while the crowd is still cheering
Re: .... by Nobody: 10:33pm On Dec 17, 2010
weneva she's traveling,its 'hu's sitting besyd u', when sh's at a party,he calls so often i ges its as a means of monitorin/interuptin hu sh's wv, wen they r at d cineme /beach,he wants ha to look n talk 2 him only!sh's nt even allowd 2brwse in hs prescence(even wen dey re not talking) n so many anoyin tins dat u cant go on listing, he blvs evrytin shd b abt him, they just had anoda insecurity qurel n ma frend got pissed cos sh's bin addressing ds issue,yet no changes, so she decided to ignore hm 4 a day,only for him 2send ha a txt dat he's done wv ha,dat he regretted buyin ha d bb,cus he bot it 4 thr comunicatn only,n he imm removed ha 4rm hs bb contact! So immature,i tnk,4rm a 26yr old!, he came bk begggin 2days later(probably dsapointed ma frnd dint respnd) n he's bin beggin 4 days nw, my frend isnt perfct bt sh has a strong personality n to me,4rm wat sh tld me,d guy's nt as stong as she is, wat shd she du?
Re: .... by livedit(f): 10:44pm On Dec 17, 2010
Okay, now that you gave more details about this relationship.  If after numerous attempts to try and work it out with this guy and he STILL keep doing the same pattern over and over.  I think they should part ways.  He obviously has some trust issues and too controlling, weak, and insecure with himself.  He really needs to seek some professional help immediately to get himself together first before trying to get in a relationship with ANY woman.  He's not sound.  My advice to your friend is to break it off with him, forgive him, pray for him and move on with her life.
Re: .... by Specialist900(m): 10:47pm On Dec 17, 2010
The guy is thrash, she better leave him now that she's still got the chance. They've not married all these have begun when they supposedly do it will be "always take permission from me before you breath, no talking to neighbours, we'll always go to market together" e.t.c
Re: .... by zone77(m): 12:20am On Dec 18, 2010
dis isnt ideal esp dis 21st century,d guy os actin lyk a local boy or sum1 dat ve nt bin in2 r/ship b4, mayb dat wz d idea n pattern he wz taught abt r/ship, she shud try n correct d guy or tel his close frnds wu can talk 2 d guy n enlighten him more abt r/ship.but if he cant change den u guys ar nt meant 2 b wit each oda, gudluck dear
Re: .... by Arkhin(m): 12:41am On Dec 18, 2010
I wonder what your friend is still doing with the guy. He's so insecure and i'm sure he will have complex probs too. She ain' seen nothing yet, wait till acid comes raining.

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