yusuf_@:

What really should be the age gap between 2 people in a love relationship or a Married couple, i think he shouldn't be more than 5 years if he is older and 2 years if she is older , so they can mostly come to a common ground on issues. what u guys think?

livedit:

For livedit, age DOES matter.  I can not see myself seeking a relationship with a man old enough to be my father/grandfather.  I'm not a fan of dating someone more than 5yrs younger or older than me.  But sometimes, you can't help whom you fall in love with.  I'm just hoping as long as this person is legal and mature minded.  For some people, I think too big of a age gap I think will eventually down the line lead to some problems. When I speak of "problems" I mean 20+ difference.  No matter how mature you are, this older person mindset will differ from yours one way or another.  Say for instance, a young 25yr old vibrant woman/man dating a 50+ year old woman/man gonna want to go out, party with friends, travel and so on and then you have someone twice your age trying to keep up.  Your partner has probably already lived their life doing that and find issues with that.  Then their thoughts automatically switch to a "parent" mode to talk you into staying home.  Age difference may not matter to most people, but it will some people. And livedit is one of them.

pweetyme:

if age is a number as women here say, why is all naija women even the old one with facial aging claims to be born in 80's

because they were born in 80s

pweetyme:

if age is a number as women here say, why is all naija women even the old one with facial aging claims to be born in 80's

because they were born in 80s

Shy-One:

My current guy - I am one year older than he is - he is the first person that I have dated that I am older

Previously my guys have been 16 years older, 14 years older, 9 years older, 2 years older and 1 year older than me.

I could never have a guy that was more than 2 years younger than me - if I did - he would have to be extremely mature mentally - I still just don't ever see me being fascinated enough with the guy to date him.

I have always loved older men

so for me to even date my current guy - you can believe that mentally he is most definitely my senior - quite a sage in many areas. - thank God.

Shy-One:

young guys in the U.S.

the majority of them don't know how to talk to you, how to treat you

too loud, too rough - I refuse dating them

Hahaha  but remember if you continue to refuse them
there is always an expiring date 

Shy-One:

lololololol

why are u shocked?

Shy-One:

young guys in the U.S.

the majority of them don't know how to talk to you, how to treat you

too loud, too rough - I refuse dating them

Shy-One:

There were many, many times I wish this wasn't true

"I will never be without a man for a mate"

@ Shy-one I don hear you oo my sista I beg quickly work something out