Have you ever been suspicious that the person you are dating is more interested in your money than in you? If you are concerned about this and want to find out, here are some ideas to accomplish this and protect yourself before it is too late.


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Understand what a gold digger is, and is not. There's nothing wrong with a person being concerned about your financial stability. A long-term partnership means depending on each other through the ups and downs, and being financially reliable does help with that to a degree. The difference between a gold digger and someone who values your role as a provider is that the gold digger would deride and perhaps leave you if you lost your ability to provide for them financially. A good person can appreciate your financial resources, but a gold digger appreciates only that, and will not see the relationship as worthwhile if you're not well off.

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Kid, if u really want to excel in life, stay off drugs.

xynerise:

Kid, if u really want to excel in life, stay off drugs.  

Thank you grandpa! the best advice I've received in ages

When they discuss their financial woes, suggest ways in which the suspected gold digger can make money fast. When you mention the possibility of them selling their luxury car, video console, guitar, diamond bracelet, or any other expensive item that could keep them from becoming homeless or having their utilities cut off or car repossessed, how do they respond? The average person will be saddened and may even become angry or upset, but a gold digger will be appalled at the very idea that they should have to give up their prized possessions in order to meet their own basic needs. They'll treat the idea as ludicrous.

xynerise:

Kid, if u really want to excel in life, stay off drugs.  

grandpa has said it all

mashnino:

grandpa has said it all

It's like u and grandpa are victims of gold digger, am just opening ur eyes

^negative. I aint no victim. When we were young there was no blackberry.

@ Op de said you should stay off drugs and u're still smokin ciga. na wa o!

tiniyata:

@ Op de said you should stay off drugs and u're still smokin ciga. na wa o!

lolz, dnt mind him, i dnt knw how many pple he wants to cheat

MBJ and Koyoke will be here shortly to teach you snotty-nosed lads.

Mrs, Chima:

MBJ and Koyoke will be here shortly to teach you snotty-nosed lads.

Op do you still have any drugs left?I need some please.

yep; i can give u some drugs

freecocoa:

Op do you still have any drugs left?I need some please.

M M M:

op      if u have 2much money then u will know dat GOLD DIGGER dont exist

I partly agree to this

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xynerise:

Kid, if u really want to excel in life, stay off drugs.  

Lol

Sorry peeps, been taking my dopes n trying to get more insights for my research, any meaningful thinking comes from overactivation of the neural networks in the brain, so am back with more facts, but before I proceed, let me answer some folks

xynerise:

^negative. I aint no victim. When we were young there was no blackberry.

Really? even way back in time, gold diggers exist, maybe u ain't got what it takes to attract them,

exits thread>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

the signs are always clear however infatuation and lust can cloud our judgement.

that is what gold diggers of both sexes depend on to gain our hearts AND check books.

M M M:

op      if u have 2much money then u will know dat GOLD DIGGER dont exist

So gold diggers are experts in digging up the whole mine, don't think is those cheap babes u buy cheap designer cloths for from a cheap boutique that are gold diggers

freecocoa:

Op do you still have any drugs left?I need some please.

tell us the truth, the name is freecocaine not freecocoa, so I should be asking you of more drugs

Back to me research, enjoy


Look for a sense of entitlement. Gold diggers feel that they deserve to be treated well, and that includes knowing that someone is willing to spend money on them. Maybe it's because they had a bad childhood or relationship, and they feel they deserve to be happy (and it just so happens that their joy carries a high price tag). Or maybe they feel it's their right to be able to pursue their big dreams at the expense of financial stability, and, coincidentally, haven't considered who will foot the bill of their soul-searching. Have you noticed unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment? This sense of entitlement is one of the symptoms of narcissistic behavior, which has other symptoms that a potential gold digger might harbor:[1]
• grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
• preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
• believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
• requires excessive admiration
• lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others
• often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her

Ask them meaningful questions.
• What is the best gift they've ever gotten? Gold diggers will almost always cite an expensive, material object, not a uniquely personal and thoughtful gift.
• What's the biggest thing you ever had to give up to do or get something you really wanted? What you're searching for here is evidence of delayed gratification - the ability to give up something now so that you can achieve something greater, later. Gold diggers are notoriously spoiled or sheltered, and have never had to really wait, work, or struggle for what they want because somehow, someone was always there to help.

^ I will advise u take B Complex and Ampiclox.