How can you tell a guy that you just want to be friends with him and nothing more after you have flirted with him little in the beginning of the relationship when he was flirting with you?

OP.
You shouldn't be playing with the fire . . .  .Continue the enjoyment ''Sengemenge'' or stay away from the dude.
   Men are incessant when it comes to this stage

Men do not like rejection. Trust me. Just tell him in a nice way that you a lesbian and you prefer women.

^^Nice idea thou
I think you have opened a thread on guys having the highest rejection than women do!
Op.
Tell him you are HIV positive . . .And you would have him running away to another planet

Thanks sweetie . . .Compliment of the season
My wife ''MrsEve'' has never said anything sweet to me since we are married . , . She starves me and kicks me outta the house every night

You can always just tell him "I just want to be friends" while you are having a serious conversation. Or, during one of your flirting/joking sessions just say "You know we are just friends right?" or "You're a really great friend." Just repeat those last ones a couple of times (at different times) and he should get the idea that he is just your friend. Then again, it all depends on the extent of your flirting. Just don't be getting touchy-feely with him or make any sexual jokes because that would honestly be giving him mixed signals.

@ poster , what were your intentions when you reciprocated his flirting ?You are encouraging him and it is very unfair for you to mess with his feelings like that.Cut the bull and tell the guy the truth straight up ,im certain you would not like it if the boot was on the other foot

Mrs. Eve I totally love your suggestion
PTBNaija you have done an outstanding job.


I think you should take this advise, which ever one works. Start with PTB's and then of that doesn't work go for Mrs' Eve's. Tell him you were not upfront about it coz u were trying to spare his feelings. Good luck