Pls guys i nid help. Hw do i know a guy luvs me or he is hit n go? Pls u response can save my soul. Tanks.

close your lap until your marriage,if he can wait for that long then he love u.

THERE IS. no give him punny till marrage. if he stay fine he love. if not stay? then no love u. but u canot do that i know

chikeorji123:

close your lap until your marriage,if he can wait for that long then he love u.

bad-guy:

THERE IS. no give him punny till marrage. if he stay fine he love. if not stay? then no love u. but u canot do that i know

i support sex after marriage,but my dear,sex after marriage doesn't guarantee a happy ending. it is in the mind, Love does,cos it goes from strenght to strenght and it conquers all things.





@OP talk to him,ask him questions in a gradual process tho,watch his live style,his thoughts,his dreams,his plans for the future,listen and think.Don't act too desperate,just relax, but be mindful and your answers will emerge naturally, don't hurry now,cos its not how far you go with him,but how well your relationship becomes. i hope this helps.

Am so confuse. Bt guys wat do u do wen u luv a gal?

jessy4done:

Pls guys i nid help. Hw do i know a guy luvs me or he is hit n go? Pls u response can save my soul. Tanks.

VERY SIMPLE. TELL HIM U HV INFORMED UR PASTOR/ IMMA ABT IT AND HE(UR PASTOR/ IMMA) WOULD WANT TO MEET BOTH OF U FOR COUNSELLING. THEN, WATCH HIS REPONSE, GESTURE N FEELINGS ABT U, D REST IS FOR U TO DECIDE O. IT WORKS. GUD LUCK.

Actions don't always = true feelings because there are many guys that will do and say all the right things just to keep it coming.

I am suspecting that the fact that you are asking this question means that there is doubt in your heart or maybe you have already noticed some traits in him that do not add up. My advice - trust your instincts!!!

And like some people said before, you can stop having sex till marriage because any guy that truly loves you will stay with you till the ultimate form of commitment is made(marriage), after all, sex outside marriage is a sin and if you want the blessings of God in your relationship, it will help if you follow his word (the bible). Just my 2 cents.

Am nt havi any doubts bt i am tryin 2 b careful,am d emotional type,am scare of luvi n losi him if he is nt 4 real.

jessy4done:

Am nt havi any doubts bt i am tryin 2 b careful,am d emotional type,am scare of luvi n losi him if he is nt 4 real.

u realli cant tell. but if he can opt to be with u without sex, he mught actualli love u. problem is that
if he's not sleeping with u, he's probably doing it with sum1 else. women need a reason to make love
men just need a place to have se[i]x[/i].

Good one by sexylogan.
knowing if a guy is real is simple but tricky.
Maybe mine could help you, i call my girl always about 7 or more times in a day and we talk for long, there is always something to talk about. i share my feelings, my fear, i mean i am very open to her. i share my future with her and infact she knows what i am targeting to achieve now! I support her financially with her basic needs (no extravagance expenditures). I take her out (we hang out in any good resort twice in a month), introduce her to my friends and family as my future wife. I visit her at her house, infact we eat together in a plate and her parent see us. many more i can't just go on.
but please be careful when you receive too much gift, it could be a trap.
ladies do confuse caring with gifts.
all the best

one cnt tell because as they say, love is blind, when hrtbreak comes, it bcoms clear

Txts guys.
i appreciate all ur response.bt wat abt teli d guy dat he shld cum n see my parents n get d introduction list,can i no if he is serious 4rm dre,though am nt ready 4 marriage now bt just want 2 b sure.

A gud guy wil alwayz wait 4 sex after mariage but tru he may hv anoda sex patner. a gud guy may run if u talk abut seein

parents cos he wanna tak things slow nd easy and u wil luk lik a despert babe tryin to trap him into mariage

poster

loving someone takes time. You can meet and like each other but truly loving a person takes time and it includes getting know really know a person. just because a person calls you and takes you out on dates doesn't mean they love you. A person might care for you but love i dont know.

Seems like the word Love is used loosly in Nigeria

i'll go with sexlogan on this one. most men just need a place to pour their juice. So if he's not humping u then he's probably having sex with someone else

well, i dont know what to do, i love this guy so much.