ggood:
Good evening please help me , I met a lady three weeks ago and we started dating , everything was going well , few days ago she told me that where she stay her room mate want to leave the town , and she does not have money to pay for her rent that she want to stay with me. I stay alone in very nice apartment my house have everything inside including running water, steady light, shower etc. She has been begging me to allow her stay for the main time and I don't know what to do. I Barely know her, she said she want to pack her bag and come and drop in my house, and am new in that town. My fear is that she will block me from having other ladies and exploring other girls and she will be feeding in my house because she is not working at the moment she a graduate waiting for her NYSC according to her.

ArisingStorm:


You are confused and don't know what you want.

ggood:
Good evening please help me , I met a lady three weeks ago and we started dating , everything was going well , few days ago she told me that where she stay her room mate want to leave the town , and she does not have money to pay for her rent that she want to stay with me. I stay alone in very nice apartment my house have everything inside including running water, steady light, shower etc. She has been begging me to allow her stay for the main time and I don't know what to do. I Barely know her, she said she want to pack her bag and come and drop in my house, and am new in that town. My fear is that she will block me from having other ladies and exploring other girls and she will be feeding in my house because she is not working at the moment she a graduate waiting for her NYSC according to her.

Please help me out what should I do

lefulefu:
u can make her ur fuckmate nau.she is offering her kpomo to u on a platter of gold and u cant even code.its left for u to reject or accept the kpomo

Omar09:


Tell her to pack to her father's house ni.

lefulefu:
u can make her ur fuckmate nau.she is offering her kpomo to u on a platter of gold and u cant even code.its left for u to reject or accept the kpomo

ggood:
I have other lady hanging around just to come to my house I believe the will all run away when they notice I stay with a lady

Omar09:


Tell her to pack to her father's house ni.

proclinician:


Wrong move. Na u go tire for this kind thing.

padi94:
If she is waiting for NYSC, tops you will keep her for 3months, just endure with her

ggood:
I have other lady hanging around just to come to my house I believe the will all run away when they notice I stay with a lady

lefulefu:
if he chop tire he can tell her to leave abi?

ggood:
She is like telling me that am heartless indirectly , because she don see fine house ,and who go feed am

ggood:
I told her to show me her matric number she refuse , is as if she lied about the nysc stuff

proclinician:


I am not sure how things will play out by then. He may get her pregnant, she may be pregnant for him. Women do this always when they see a hot prospect of a guy.

lefulefu:
but then how will a normal girl be telling a guy she wants to bunk up with him cos she has no where to go..so she has no female friend abi?

Stacyomolola:

he is confused thats why he asked for advice not for u to remind him of his predicament

proclinician:


It happens always sha. Every lady will be more comfortable staying with a bf than a lady friend. Problems are more likely to erupt with the lady friend I think she most definitely be expected to contribute to rent while the guy getting the kpekus wouldn't mind.

deno001:
she is not offering anything. it is a gimmick, that is one of the leech move of women

ggood:

1. Good evening please help me ,
2. I met a lady three weeks ago and we started dating ,
3. few days ago she told me she does not have money to pay for her rent that she want to stay with me.
4. I Barely know her, she said she want to pack her bag and come and drop in my house,
5. My fear is that she will block me from having other ladies and exploring other girls
6. she will be feeding in my house
7. Please help me out what should I do

lefulefu:
except if u mean a flatmate but sharing one single room with another guy doesnt come across as decent except if the guy is ur boyfriend or fiancee.for example can u trust ur girlfriend if she tells u she is sharing one single room with a strange guy?

CAPSLOCKED:


If nobody is saying it, I'm telling you that you're dumb.

ArisingStorm:

Well you have a point, but it seems like he doesn't even know what he wants, makes it hard to advice him