Brothers and sisters please help me. I am dating a divorcee. Is it worth pursuing a relationship with a man who never keeps promises, who is as stingy as i dont know what and all he talks about is sex, sex and more sex. worried is it worth it

so I'm hoping you knew he was divorced before you started dating him because divorced men have to be stingy due to child support and palimony. from what you have said though seems like he is not worth the trouble

OP
since u're here on the internet, asking that question, then u definitely know somethin's not right. Cos we women often know 'wotsup' bt we usually choose 2 ignore that God given gift of intuition. BTW, U shud find out what caused the divorce with the ex and the type of plans he has for u.
CHEER UP THO!

gal u already knw that something is wrong with d relationship W.B.U

@poster
may i ask: what actually attracted you or made you date this guy?!

laura-lee:

Brothers and sisters please help me. I am dating a divorcee. Is it worth pursuing a relationship with a man who never keeps promises, who is as stingy as i dont know what and all he talks about is sex, sex and more sex. worried is it worth it

What really is your problem? Your guy is stingy?
Then maybe u should stop demandin much.

Oh he loves sex? So?? Thats the quality of a real man. You got a problem wit that?

If you tired of the relationship why are u complaining? Quit or keep worrying. The choice's yours.

U mean stingy?
*Shouts* run my dear
run as far as u can
sm men r so ill brained
he necessarily doesnt v 2 spend bt being stingy is awkward

He is only a sex mate. Stick with him based on that alone. You wan an encompassing relationship? Drop him without thinking twice.

^^^ gbam

are u going 4 marriag or for flirtin,pls specify

He is cheap, and all he cares abt is sex.

[size=15pt] ARE YOU KIDDING ME? WHERE ARE YOUR LEGS? RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/size]

It is not that i am after his money but the truth is i just feel that a man has to make an effort to take care of his woman. He never at any point spent a kobo on me. No birthday present nothing. These are small things but i dont know how he will behave in the house after he marries me.   I am a woman with a job who can take care of herself but i dont want a man who will  take the back seat when it comes to family affairs.

Someone asked me earlier what attracted me to him, it was his personality he had a great sense of humour. he is neither handsome or rich.

Thank you

Nope it aint worth it, go for wat u want and stop toleratin SH!t

laura-lee:

Brothers and sisters please help me. I am dating a divorcee. Is it worth pursuing a relationship with a man who never keeps promises, who is as stingy as i dont know what and all he talks about is sex, sex and more sex. worried is it worth it

  Why would you want to commit yourself to someone with no integrity whatsoever.  I can understand if maybe he didn't have the extra funds to spend on you, then in that case, he should be doing everything else in his power to make up for it in other areas.  You already know what makes you happen in a relationship, and as stated above, he don't even respect you enough to keep it 100 by staying true to his word.  I mean, it's obvious he is unable to contribute to anything else besides what's dangling between his legs.  Unless you looking for just as "casual" hook-up, right now, that's all this man has to offer you at this time.  Granted he'll keep his promise and show up for that.  But from reading your post, it don't sound like this is the kind of relationship you are seeking.  Why sell yourself short? Let him go on about his business and move on with your life and find someone whom you CAN rely on to be faithful to you, wants a relationship with you, love you, respect you, take care of you, cares about your happiness and be in your corner.  I'm not saying this guy isn't "capable" of providing those things, but right now, he is emotional unavailable to meet your standards.  It appears all this man is looking for is a "playmate".

Talk, talk, talk. Come on, no cash, no sex because cash rules, "foolish" huh?

Go and let him bang those loose cunts of yours with your legs spread wide into the sky screaming,
"heaven, here I c.um !!!"

run as fast as your skanky legs can carry you

laura-lee:

Brothers and sisters please help me. I am dating a divorcee. Is it worth pursuing a relationship with a man who never keeps promises, who is as stingy as i dont know what and all he talks about is sex, sex and more sex. worried is it worth it  

Have you ever asked him why he was divorced? If he was any good, do you really think he will be a divorcee? The guy's manliness just got bored and he's just looking for a lil' honey pot. Excuse my French, but if i were you i would start looking for a dude with a clean slate.

Sweet T:

Have you ever asked him why he was divorced? If he was any good, do you really think he will be a divorcee? The guy's manliness just got bored and he's just looking for a lil' honey pot. Excuse my French, but if i were you i would start looking for a dude with a clean slate.

As much as i hate to say it, Sweet T's probably rite. The choice to quit or continue is up to u.