There was this chic I dated, when I was in year two. We loved each other so much that we did everything apart from sex. She claimed she was a virgin. Recently she started behaving strange, my friends claimed they saw her at one time or the other wit some guys on which I confronted her but she denied, she told me I'm not caring. Recently, I told her to leave me that I'm not into her again, but she does want to hear it, keep buzzin me wit calls everyday. Her mum called me & told me her daughter is emotionally down and if anythin happens to her she's gonna come after me 'cos she's thinking I initiated her. The girl also threaten to punish me. Omo, is it by force to love somebody? Pls nairalanders need your advice on what to do.

Etakime:

There was this chic I dated, when I was in year two. We loved each other so much that we did everything apart from sex. She claimed she was a virgin. Recently she started behaving strange, my friends claimed they saw her at one time or the other wit some guys on which I confronted her but she denied, she told me I'm not caring. Recently, I told her to leave me that I'm not into her again, but she does want to hear it, keep buzzin me wit calls everyday. Her mum called me & told me her daughter is emotionally down and if anythin happens to her she's gonna come after me 'cos she's thinking I initiated her. The girl also threaten to punish me. Omo, is it by force to love somebody? Pls nairalanders need your advice on what to do.

You dumped her cos of what ur friends told u or do u have any evidence that she cheated on u?

@justwise.
I've caught her several time, and she's alwayz so free wit boys. Infact, I told her I'm tied of the relationship,but She does not want to leave me alone.

Etakime:

@justwise.
I've caught her several time, and she's alwayz so free wit boys. Infact, I told her I'm tied of the relationship,but She does not want to leave me alone.

Caught her with a guy in bed or caught her talking to a guy?

I wonder how true this story is because you don't sound convincing.

^^^ just thinking the same thing

Whether he dumped her because she wz whth so and so boy is not the issue here pl§ people,just advice him on what to do as his mind is already made up,@op yeah you are right if i repeat if what you typed in here is actually true that is not by force, simple, you are not interested in the r/shp,just call her to order and explain things out with her and even her mom should things get out of hand!

The thing there is that she is demanding more of my attention & if I didn't give it to her she starts insulting me things she's never done b4.

Ow old is u n ur gf?

Dyt:

Ow old is u n your gf?

I'm 23 and my gal is 19.

playmate:

I wonder how true this story is because you don't sound convincing.

The story is true and really believe you guys could help me out.

Ok
now i c
en u too give er attention so she doesnt cry na

as long as u didnt av sex wit her

tell her 2 leave u the frigg alone!!

@poster,Lemme say,
It is a matter of sitting her down and try talkin sense into her. Try explaining to her the reasons why you are not into her again.hopefully she will come to terms with reality.
From your post, you were not really into her from day 1. Y go into d r/ship @ all?

Haba? since u no chopan u have the 100%+ right to go your way.che na by force?

Haba? since u no chopan u have the 100%+ right to go your way.che na by force?

Then take agressive steps like get a new girl and introduce them. . if she goes mad, introduce the new girl to everyone. . if she still doesn't have shame and back down, ^{beat the crap outta her!} kidding  . If she doesn't take hint, ghen ghen. . .pack your load and flee!!

It works, she finally freed me oh. But buzz once in a while to say hi.