Macktaob:

You tripped... sadly

Nairalandmonika:

Women are just confuse abeg, una nor know watin una want.

So if I say a woman's duty is in the kitchen and the other room, u will be cool with that?

hennylove:
a woman is suppose to be a homemaker first even if she is working she has to find a balance and I say yes the main duty of the woman is kitchen and other room. Any woman that does not meet up with such will be pushing her man away

SweetCunt97:
Guy kindly grow up and fvck yourself. If true, so freaking what? Long mouthed childish motherfvcka.... Attention seeking animal. Psycho. Ebele this Ebele thst. It's obvious you into this your friend's Ebele, you probably tried your shot and she did not agree and you here fooling yourself... Blaady foool

cococandy:
There’s nothing wrong in marrying someone who’s struggling with the intention of being independent and genuinely working to be independent. I always say no one can provide for you like you can provide for yourself. Few man can provide for you 100% and it’s the same with women.

So why are you letting him make you feel like you’re doing something wrong for not wanting to carry his family burden?

The main problem I’m seeing here is not that he borrows money from you. It’s that he’s borrowing it to support other people. That shows poor management on his part.

hennylove:
there is nothing like the 21st century. There's a role assigned to each gender and each gender should do his responsibility accordingly and as I said anything you do aside your role should be extra and not entitlement. So are you okay with the fact that this OP is automatically the bread winner even before marriage. Mind you am married over 10yrs and working as well and contribute financially for the well being of my family. But I cannot advise my younger sister to marry such a man. Thanks

Cowbell521:
Wetin dey to dey into? Abegi..... I no dey do ya type...no vex Shift comot
You don chop Wale moni finish you con go slip wit Chidi......abi? No worri

SweetCunt97:
Lol.. Crazy dude, you probably out of cocaine to snif ryt? Crazy

Nairalandmonika:

So a man cannot be home maker as well, u see why Nigeria men will not respect and regard you, u put yourself in that position that u are. Wether u are dutiful in the kitchen and the other room you man will still cheat on you and useless u.

Cowbell521:
I hia sey Chidi na tof guy....he fit be cocaine carry ur pusi go giv am in the first place

I don tell Wale make in liv U, he no hia

SweetCunt97:
It's obvious you simply crave my attention... Pls swerve... Chidi ko dichi ni. Mtcheeew

SweetCunt97:
If she earns more, then the man ought to be the house husband, take care of the kids, cook, deal with the chores... Be d home maker while d woman becomes the provider.

SweetCunt97:
If she earns more, then the man ought to be the house husband, take care of the kids, cook, deal with the chores... Be d home maker while d woman becomes the provider.

VivleBriella:
Good day everyone

I've been a guest for a couple of years now, created an account to seek advice

My dear nairalanders, does it always end well marrying the Breadwinner of a family? He's the last born with 4 elder siblings but they all depend on him.

Yes, I knew he was the Breadwinner from day one but I thought with time, everyone else will be able to stand on their own, but it hasn't happened yet, we've dated for 3yrs now and he doesn't support me financially. I don't complain but he feels entitled to my money and when I get tired of him always asking me to lend him some money and decide to say no, he nags and tells me I'm not being supportive enough.

This is driving me really crazy cause he reminded me of how unsupportive I've been to him and his family, he's driving me insane, you can't possibly put the responsibility of your family on my shoulders, that's crazy and insensitive, over the years, I've borrowed him nothing less than 500k which I know for sure he's never giving back.

Is it normal to be in a parasitic relationship whereby the female remains the host that's being fed on?

I'm only 24 while he's 31.

Nairalandmonika:

I see why they keep insulting niaraland girls, girls here are not intelligent at all.
Who's talking about earning more?
If she earn more or less doesn't matter, a man n his wife make the home. The chores and taking care of the children is the responsibility of both of them regardless of who is working or who is earning more.

What is wrong with u guys for crying out loud, must one person be the house wife or house husband, your mentally is really poor abeg.

Cowbell521:
Wale don Bleep sense comot...Chidi don dry ya engine oil

Make lockdown finish na...dis Abuja... I go show u say Wale better pass Chidi wey U Cari pussy go give

Cowbell521:
Ur engine Oil don finish? Wetin dey to crave for Flat breast cocaine snifa? Meshionu jare

VivleBriella:
Good day everyone

I've been a guest for a couple of years now, created an account to seek advice

My dear nairalanders, does it always end well marrying the Breadwinner of a family? He's the last born with 4 elder siblings but they all depend on him.

Yes, I knew he was the Breadwinner from day one but I thought with time, everyone else will be able to stand on their own, but it hasn't happened yet, we've dated for 3yrs now and he doesn't support me financially. I don't complain but he feels entitled to my money and when I get tired of him always asking me to lend him some money and decide to say no, he nags and tells me I'm not being supportive enough.

This is driving me really crazy cause he reminded me of how unsupportive I've been to him and his family, he's driving me insane, you can't possibly put the responsibility of your family on my shoulders, that's crazy and insensitive, over the years, I've borrowed him nothing less than 500k which I know for sure he's never giving back.

Is it normal to be in a parasitic relationship whereby the female remains the host that's being fed on?

I'm only 24 while he's 31.

SweetCunt97:
OH I'm a cocaine sniffer? OK. Yawns abeg ur mates done sleep. Abuja gold digger.

Harllaby:
Honestly, the man is only being truthful to himself by asking his partner for money. So because you borrowed him 500k you feel like you can rub it on his face. The guy was never at fault from what you wrote instead you are the one that refuses to voice out your feelings by assuming he should know what you want.

Tell him how you feel and if he isn't what you want in a man, then go look for your type.

Cowbell521:
Abuja Wetin? Who be ur Papa for Abuja? Tell me.... You be monkey.... No make me disgrace U for this place....eehn Ebele

akaahs:

U actually spot the main issue in her story. The man need to draw the line between his family needs and his need and that of his girlfriend.
I wonder why he feels with out him, they exist or feed, the truth if he dies today, their lives ll surely continue.

IYANGBALI:
really?who assigned those roles? You want to rub shoulders with men, see yourselves being equal, treated with respect, want to be on top during lsex, but you want to shy away from sharing financial burden. Real girls no longer reason that way except stingy and selfish ones like you. Wake up from your slumber and face reality, this is 21st century and not the days of Adam and Eve


Dominique will never reason the way you do, that I know for sure

Harllaby:
Honestly, the man is only being truthful to himself by asking his partner for money. So because you borrowed him 500k you feel like you can rub it on his face. The guy was never at fault from what you wrote instead you are the one that refuses to voice out your feelings by assuming he should know what you want.

Tell him how you feel and if he isn't what you want in a man, then go look for your type.

SweetCunt97:
Who your own papa be huh? You lucky I'm simply on NL for the Cruise and nothing personal. You for chop sand.

SweetCunt97:
Who your own papa be huh? You lucky I'm simply on NL for the Cruise and nothing personal. You for chop sand.