Please your advice is needed on the issue of my wife whom I got married to December last year, I discovered she is in love with another married man and having intimate affair with him. Now she told me she is pregnant now and am doubting that am the father of that child. please dear nairalanders your advice is needed, this lady is the person I spent a lot of resources on that even want to lead me to broke.





I want to thank everybody for the advice that has been given to me, as of yesterday my wife confessed to me that all the allegation I laid on her is true. The worst part there is that, she said she can not pinpoint who the owner of the pregnancy between me and her man friend, so sad. She said she had sex her man friend on 15th march and on 13th march. the scan we did yesterday state that the pregnant is 8weeks +2 days and EDD is 12th December 2020. please Doctor in the house what could be the date fertilization occurs.

Let her deliver first then you go for a DNA test to truly ascertain who is the father of the baby

Better run for your life before you hurt yourself.

An adulterous woman can kill easily.


Earlier you move on, the better for you. Your kid will be fine in her hands.

Brave up and move on. The earlier, the better. Pick up your pieces and act like nothing happened

How did you know she is in love with another man

married less than 2 years old and wahala don start... You married folks should stop discouraging single folks like us abeg

Op how did come up with all this ?
Have you ever confront her?

Get a standard America table tennis court to keep busy during this lockdown. Delivery within and outside Lagos. Whatssap:

How long do you know her...before you say i do.

Get more concrete informations on this matter.
Investigate and don't assume.

Don't forget to pray

ladkud:
Please your advice is needed on the issue of my wife whom I got married to December last year, I discovered she is in love with another married man and having intimate affair with him. Now she told me she is pregnant now and am doubting that am the father of that child. please dear nairalanders your advice is needed, this lady is the person I spent a lot of resources on that even want to lead me to broke.

it's best to calm down, no rush.. I guess u must ve been aware of their affairs for quite some time now, yet u played a boredom life by sitting with hopes she might change for the better.. Also that might also be a good reason why u quickly got married to her, so she might change and your expenses on her won't go the drain.. But u guys are now married, so protect your marriage.. Call her and talk to her with love and passion.. She might tell u wat u don't know.. No use violence o

Lekaya:
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shatap there and get out
what do you know about marriage

You discovered? Means you've got concrete evidence..
Da fvck you warbling about bro?
The ability to spot a whorre from a mile away is one thing..
If for some reason you miss that, the ability to ruthlessly shut the door and walk away when you find out is another.. Married or not..

Being single ain't no crime hommez. Don't mind what anybody says..
Get that DNA test done once the child is out.
If your conclusion is drawn from hearsay, then you should confront your wife bro..
*Phew* , wonder where y'all crawl out from..

na wao una just marry and she is already cheating on u?
is the married guy her ex?
i am very sure they forced her to marry you

So, you couldn't send her to be with the married man she's been cheating on you with?

Na her philandering ways she wan take ruin your life with ill luck, you better get wise and strong.

Lol you're definitely kidding, like December 2019? Damn another simp

Wait o! .. Is it December 2018 or 2019... I think you both entered that marriage with the wrong reasons... If she is adulterous cut her loose before its too late.. You sef how you go spend for woman to the near point of going broke.. Abeg all this thread don too much and e no dey give single guys hope at all...

wife this, wife that, girlfriend this and that. Reason I have been single for close to a year how will someone even marry like this.

Go swallow some redpill.

Marriage of December 2019


Bros you're in for a bumpy ride.

Who cares if the child is yours or not.

You better kick the w.hore out of your house.

Person wey wan disgrace me,na me go disgrace her first

You can't even control your wife. Shame on you.

Somebody u married in December,less than six months ago, u found out she's in love with a married man, now she's pregnant and you are here complaining that she's hurting and seeking advice...this is what you will, buy colanut and dry gin,send it to ur wife's lover to say big thank you to him, open a big shop for your wife in the neighborhood, buy car for her too and always lick her feet for being such a wonderful wife

No advice for you,You ignored the red flag during courtship , and its either you forcefully marry her or you snatched her from her ex or that married man while you think marrying her will make you have her totally to you..... you married her in Dec and she is already seeing a married man within 3-4 months

ladkud:
Please your advice is needed on the issue of my wife whom I got married to December last year, I discovered she is in love with another married man and having intimate affair with him. Now she told me she is pregnant now and am doubting that am the father of that child. please dear nairalanders your advice is needed, this lady is the person I spent a lot of resources on that even want to lead me to broke.

ladkud:
Please your advice is needed on the issue of my wife whom I got married to December last year, I discovered she is in love with another married man and having intimate affair with him. Now she told me she is pregnant now and am doubting that am the father of that child. please dear nairalanders your advice is needed, this lady is the person I spent a lot of resources on that even want to lead me to broke.

Pvssy men

May the lord never let us degrade to this level

ladkud:
Please your advice is needed on the issue of my wife whom I got married to December last year, I discovered she is in love with another married man and having intimate affair with him. Now she told me she is pregnant now and am doubting that am the father of that child. please dear nairalanders your advice is needed, this lady is the person I spent a lot of resources on that even want to lead me to broke.

Goan do DNA test
You better confront her, not being scared about it. Since you are such she does such, spend on a woman ñear to bankruptcy? Haba that's why I can't spend on a woman that ain't my wife yet

ladkud:
Please your advice is needed on the issue of my wife who...

How did you know that she's having an affair with another man?

Do you have concrete evidence or are you just making assumptions?

So heartbreaking. Ladies will not understand how we men feel when our partners seek sexual pleasure outside. Our ego is bruised. The thought of your wife having sex with another person oh m God !!! I wonder why God put such mind in us?

Person go dey try to reason marriage and settling down for good one day but everytime i open Nairaland it makes me don't ever want to settle down... Married women or single i no come know which one cheat pass again. Assuming i don't withness some of theae things in real life i for say una dey form all these gist to scare those of us unmarried because I'm seriously confused at the rate women/ girls cheat lately. Even the good girls sef i no longer believe them

God abeg oo

This always happen when you guys didn't date for a while before marriage. I don't really know the advice you want us to give you right now.

Pussyman: A man who behaves like a pussy. Weak and spineless, worships women and feels unworthy for them, the typical femdominated slave, has no sense of own dignity. The typical westerner. Would never beat a hoe even in self-defence. Thinks those who dare to do it are for sure monsters and should be executed right away. A no-man. The absolute opposite to a macho. A shitmonger.

Example: Ya such a pussyman! Why did ya let that shitty ashawo sit on your face!

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=pussyman

I also once fell in love with a prostitute, I paid dearly for it. My guy, I have only two words for you: get sense.

With what i read here everyday i think marriage is scam