Ive seen on this section news of women telling their husband "he should not have sex too much" or use sex to starve her husband or one thing or the other. reading these made me start asking questions like

so after saving this deeq for years my wife would now be saying "no that it's too much" or "i'm tired" or whatever.....it's unbearable to think

life is really not fair, why is it like this? is it still important to keep virginity as a guy?

tellsblinks:

So after saving this deeq for years my wife would now be saying "no that it's too much" or "i'm tired" or whatever.....it's unbearable to think

Life is really not fair, why is it like this? is it still important to keep virginity as a guy?

So Oga mi, you're among those who think a deeq kept in storage before marriage should be pampered and given libations with sex upandan?

Sex is a dance, you gotta learn to tango with your wife so that she can do salsa to your beat whenever you call!

BTW, Virginity is a matter of principle, not obligation

There are more to life than sex Op; so don't worry, within few months in your marriage, you won't be able to talk about sex, sex, sex all the time

KingsJohnson:
There are more to life than sex Op; so don't worry, within few months in your marriage, you won't be able to talk about sex, sex, sex all the time

Never mind cos when u are not yet married, sex looks all fun, but venture into marriage and u will get to find out tha sex is more of a duty and obligation u are bound to at any given time. Na u go run.

Men's virginity does not exist.

She can't be tired ... unless someone's else is sexing her outside.

tellsblinks:
Ive seen on this section news of women telling their husband "he should not have sex too much" or use sex to starve her husband or one thing or the other. reading these made me start asking questions like

so after saving this deeq for years my wife would now be saying "no that it's too much" or "i'm tired" or whatever.....it's unbearable to think

life is really not fair, why is it like this? is it still important to keep virginity as a guy?

This is a very common occurrence in Nigeria and Africa at large and it is because majority of our women have been genitally mutilated (circumcised). circumcision reduces sexual urge in women and also makes sex painful to them. that is why most Naija girls dont like sex.

you can be lucky to find an uncircumcised lady and you wont have problems with sex. but the chances are slim because a large percentage of our ladies within the age of 20yrs and above are circumcised.

The Fedral Government in conjuction with the ministry of health and women affairs are currently working to put an end to the babaric practice because apart from lack of sexual urge or pains during sex, circumcision also causes obtructed labor. meaning that circumcised ladies are more likely to give birth through a ceseran section operation.

FeliciaOja:
Virginity is overrated
Times Have Changed..
It was only in the early 1800,1900's that our ancestors value virginity.

In this 21st century, we have more life threatening things to worry about.

Virginity does not prolong life
Virginity does not make you rich
Virginity does not pay your bills
Virginity does not save you from being barren

Just live life to the fullest.. and stop worrying about a hymen tissue..

It's men's virginity and it's not a hymen issue.

Stephenomozzy:



BTW, Virginity is a matter of principle, not obligation

I like this part

This hoe should keep deceiving herself

FeliciaOja:
Virginity is overrated
Times Have Changed..
It was only in the early 1800,1900's that our ancestors value virginity.

In this 21st century, we have more life threatening things to worry about.

Virginity does not prolong life
Virginity does not make you rich
Virginity does not pay your bills
Virginity does not save you from being barren

Just live life to the fullest.. and stop worrying about a hymen tissue..

xendercage:
This hoe should keep deceiving herself

Stop calling your mama a hoe

FeliciaOja:
Virginity is overrated
Times Have Changed..
It was only in the early 1800,1900's that our ancestors value virginity.

In this 21st century, we have more life threatening things to worry about.

Virginity does not prolong life
Virginity does not make you rich
Virginity does not pay your bills
Virginity does not save you from being barren

Just live life to the fullest.. and stop worrying about a hymen tissue..

A non virgin has similar features as mentioned. However, there are people who appreciates virginity.
Virgins do not really have to worry about STD and consequences of pregnancies, staying a virgin is seen morally right compared to someone who had fornicated.
Just like some people are saying they want a virgin spouse and another could say otherwise but, I'm not sure many parent would be proud of their children to share that characteristics of their partner if asked. Anyways, been a virgin is a thing of choice and I feel it's good to stay one till married.

Stephenmoka4:
A non virgin has similar features as mentioned. However, there are people who appreciates virginity.
Virgins do not really have to worry about STD and consequences of pregnancies, staying a virgin is seen morally right compared to someone who had fornicated.
Just like some people are saying they want a virgin spouse and another could say otherwise but, I'm not sure many parent would be proud of their children to share that characteristics of their partner if asked. Anyways, been a virgin is a thing of choice and I feel it's good to stay one till married.

Ok sit down and learn kid,
You talk as if you have been married.
Let catter your brain with facts
Virgins can still have ANAL SEX
With their hymen intact
And you will never know
So miss me with your bullcrap about STD
Anal sex is the most dangerous and easiest way to contact HIV/Aids and major STD.
So forget all that virgin rubbish you talking
Many cases of Virgins with STD's gotten from anal sex.
My Muslim roommate at uniben told me lots of hausa virgins do anal sex to leave the hymen intact. And still marry as virgins lol

FeliciaOja:

Ok sit down and learn kid,
You talk as if you have been married.
Let catter your brain with facts
Virgins can still have ANAL SEX
With their hymen intact
And you will never know
So miss me with your bullcrap about STD
Anal sex is the most dangerous and easiest way to contact HIV/Aids and major STD.
So forget all that virgin rubbish you talking
Many cases of Virgins with STD's gotten from anal sex.
My Muslim roommate at uniben told me lots of hausa virgins do anal sex to leave the hymen intact. And still marry as virgins lol

There are virgins too that do not do that, and non virgins that do it. I also know virgins that don't do the above.

I have failed my lineage if I get married as a virgin.

FeliciaOja:
Virginity is overrated
Times Have Changed..
It was only in the early 1800,1900's that our ancestors value virginity.

In this 21st century, we have more life threatening things to worry about.

Virginity does not prolong life
Virginity does not make you rich
Virginity does not pay your bills
Virginity does not save you from being barren

Just live life to the fullest.. and stop worrying about a hymen tissue..

this is a hoe!

Lol, we are living in a world where being a virgin is a crime. If there's really a virgin boy before marriage, bet that dude is a sissy

Maybe you have no experience and you bore her to death in the bedroom. Unlike ladies, guys' virginity doesn't mean anything.

Xclusiveme:
Lol, we are living in a world where being a virgin is a crime. If there's really a virgin boy before marriage, bet that dude is a sissy

Some people do not really like the idea of sleeping around and want to wait till married. Well, I guess everything is upside down LoL

IAmSkinny:
I have failed my lineage if I get married as a virgin.

oh God, what did I just read?

I even sometimes ask my self something as a man/woman is it possible to stay with your spouse in marriage for over 60yrs and not fúck outside