I met her in 2007 and we have been very happy together but all of a sudden she changed because her parents wont allow her mary anyone from the east i have tried to make her stay for 2 years but it seems her parent would win. Am from delta but osun state born and bred, while she is from ekiti lagos born. Now her parents says no to ibo. What do i do. People say if she is for me she would come back. She is coming to say good bye tomoro' am very much confused as she made me to realize that whats the sense behind keeping a relationship that wont lead any where. my heart is very heavy.

Since she has decided 2 tow d line of her parents,im afraid dere aint much dat u can do. U just hv 2 move on tho it wuld be hard.

Okay, what is it that you want US to do?

I can understand you are confused and hurting and I can sympathize with you.  Ultimately, it IS her decision rather or not she chooses to stay in this relationship with you or let someone else make her decision for her.  All you can do is pray to God and tell God how you feel and ask Him for wisdom and guidance for what to do in this situation.  What should matter is what is in God's will for your life.  And if she IS a part of God's will in your life, so it will be. 

Frankly, I don't let ANYONE determine my future happiness for my life.  Only opinion matters in situations like these is God first, me, and my significant other.  Everyone is given one life to live and they live it how they feel fits.  You can try expressing to her how you feel and give her the option rather or not to stay, but if she decides to go. As much as it hurts, you must let her go.  At that point, you will have to pray and ask God for courage and strength to move on with your life and pray that he brings who He has ordained for you since he knows all and knows what's best for you. 

So if she does leaves and don't come back. Then you will know that she wasn't the one for you.  Most of the times, God won't give us what we want, but He will give you what you need.

Mr, Cork:

livedit <<<<<< very beautiful lady ((light skin))

Now, thats what am talkin about: Light skin/ yellow (mwaaaah)

Stop making me blush Mr. Cork, , but I'm not light-skinned though. At least, I don't think so. , but any hoo, thank you Mr. Cork.

livedit:

I can understand you are confused and hurting and I can sympathize with you.  Ultimately, it IS her decision rather or not she chooses to stay in this relationship with you or let someone else make her decision for her.  All you can do is pray to God and tell God how you feel and ask Him for wisdom and guidance for what to do in this situation.  What should matter is what is in God's will for your life.  And if she IS a part of God's will in your life, so it will be. 

Frankly, I don't let ANYONE determine my future happiness for my life.  Only opinion matters in situations like these is God first, me, and my significant other.  Everyone is given one life to live and they live it how they feel fits.  You can try expressing to her how you feel and give her the option rather or not to stay, but if she decides to go. As much as it hurts, you must let her go.  At that point, you will have to pray and ask God for courage and strength to move on with your life and pray that he brings who He has ordained for you since he knows all and knows what's best for you. 

So if she does leaves and don't come back. Then you will know that she wasn't the one for you.  Most of the times, God won't give us what we want, but He will give you what you need.

Nice one!

@ poster, I was in ur shoes and i knw exactly hw it feels. My ex decided to satisfy her family too and we had to quit the rship. It was hard but there was nothing I could do. So I had to let go of her. Initially i thot I cldnt luv again , hw wrong I was. Today, I have sm1 whom I consider better than her in everythn. So what I'll tell u is that if she has made up her mind to leave there 's nothing u can do. Infact if u try to hold her back she'll begin to see u as a pest. Just let her go. Pray to God as my dear livedit said and u'll find sm1 who is better, will be ready to do anythn 4 u. All da best.

Lmao @ cork, thread derialer.

i have bin tru dis b4, guy buff d babe, pray n God will sure give u ur missin rib

Phate07:



Just leave the girl. What's the big deal in doing that?

He is a sucker that why.

Lucky for you, the girl wants to quit the relationship as painless as possible. If a girl will not choose you over other people's opinion (even her parents), get rid of her asap.
I once had an issue with a girl that her parents did not approve of me. It took her mind of the relationship and she started looking for backup options behind my back, even cheating repeatedly knowing I would take her back then. It messed up my self belief badly and I began to doubt myself. Eventually I was able to pick my self up and get over it to become who I am today.
Point is, if she has made her choice, let her go. Don't try convincing her cos you deserve more than that. Congrats.

So many thanks to everyone who posted a comment on my post. I really appreciate it. You all made my day. And to all those who have similar issues. God will surely raise you and heal your minds.

freezze:

I met her in 2007 and we have been very happy together but all of a sudden she changed because her parents wont allow her mary anyone from the east i have tried to make her stay for 2 years but it seems her parent would win. Am from delta but osun state born and bred, while she is from ekiti lagos born. Now her parents says no to ibo. What do i do. People say if she is for me she would come back. She is coming to say good bye tomoro' am very much confused as she made me to realize that whats the sense behind keeping a relationship that wont lead any where. my heart is very heavy.

guys your triberlism is way too much

ZIM DRILL:

guys your triberlism is way too much

It is their sense of pride for which tribalism still thriving.