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Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Twinkletwin: 5:47pm On Jun 04, 2020
When a girl gets hurt and she still gets hurt about any certain past relationship they tend to bring up the issues about how my Ex raped me etc
I will never support rapists also I will never support tarnishing innocent persons image.
Do you notice most girls online this days claims to be a rape victim?
Especially those always doing naked and dirty challenges on live chats or porn sites
How should law punish fake accusations about rape?

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by xendra: 6:07pm On Jun 04, 2020
who told you they are fake? until you get raped yourself you will not have sense abi

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Twinkletwin: 6:14pm On Jun 04, 2020
xendra:
who told you they are fake? until you get raped yourself you will not have sense abi
wow so you mean we should believe any story that comes up without evidence?

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by ABBkelvin(m): 6:37pm On Jun 04, 2020
Simple, cause they are loser and weak.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by ibkayee(f): 6:42pm On Jun 04, 2020
You don't actually know whether it's true or not

And Nigeria's reputation for rape isn't coming out of nowhere so I don't understand why guys think the high rate of people talking about their rape experiences is farfetched...

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Deicide: 6:45pm On Jun 04, 2020
All I know is that all Nigeria female ex are monster meanwhile they are the Angels, that's why I tend to stay away from relationship these days
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Biancah(f): 6:53pm On Jun 04, 2020
Even males demonize/tarnish their exes reputation, it is not only females that do it.
When people break up, they mostly choose the narrative that makes them a saint.

As for the rape issues, this is Nigeria where visiting of a guy's house means you have already consented to sex. The rape cases would be more higher than this if all victims choose to come out.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by 2buffagain(m): 7:00pm On Jun 04, 2020
Except in rare cases, the claim of "I was a saint, he was the devil" is generally how you know the female in question did not learn anything about herself in previous relationships.

No-one is a saint.
Women generally have issues with taking any kind of responsibility for their actions.
Unless she has reached a certain level of maturity, most women get off on social sympathy and so must always see the need to project themselves as angels in every story they recount about something.

This is because to a woman, her social reputation of "purity" matters a lot...so good luck meeting a woman who has done the growth work needed to be able to stand as an adult to incorporate the phrase "I said/did some things I was not proud of(that might have hurt him) and I wasn't perfect..." when talking about past relationships. Some won't even use that phrase even if she cheated.
Must. project. sainthood.

Personally, I tend to only truly have sympathy for a woman when she is mature enough to be real about the role she played in matters.
She can pull that manipulation ish with other people who are ready to take her saint propaganda story.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by paulolee(m): 7:28pm On Jun 04, 2020
hate n bitterness
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Gentle0wavez: 7:34pm On Jun 04, 2020
Ask Tonto dike, Who never talked about her man's 2 mins problem all the while they were fvcking b4 marriage.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Jullima(f): 7:38pm On Jun 04, 2020
Twinkletwin:
wow so you mean we should believe any story that comes up without evidence?
So why then are you disbelieving any story that comes up without evidence?

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by OgwuEgo: 7:53pm On Jun 04, 2020
I take most rape claims from Nigerian girls with levity
Someone just accused this guy of rape and it's clear the girl is angry because she was just a fling.
Take a look at La’aroooo (@Jibola__i): https://twitter.com/Jibola__i?s=09
ibkayee:
You don't actually
know whether it's true or not

And Nigeria's reputation for rape isn't coming out of nowhere so I don't understand why guys think the high rate of people talking about their rape experiences is farfetched...

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by ibkayee(f): 7:57pm On Jun 04, 2020
OgwuEgo:
I take most rape claims from Nigerian girls with levity
Someone just accused this guy of rape and it's clear the girl is angry because she was just a fling.
Take a look at La’aroooo (@Jibola__i): https://twitter.com/Jibola__i?s=09
False accusations are a tiny fraction of the bigger issue, you people can cite all the anecdotes you want lol

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by stare: 8:08pm On Jun 04, 2020
2buffagain:
Except in rare cases, the claim of "I was a saint, he was the devil" is generally how you know the female in question did not learn anything about herself in previous relationships.

No-one is a saint.
Women generally have issues with taking any kind of responsibility for their actions.
Unless she has reached a certain level of maturity, most women get off on social sympathy and so must always see the need to project themselves as angels in every story they recount about something.

This is because to a woman, her social reputation of "purity" matters a lot...so good luck meeting a woman who has done the growth work needed to be able to stand as an adult to incorporate the phrase "I said/did some things I was not proud of(that might have hurt him) and I wasn't perfect..." when talking about past relationships. Some won't even use that phrase even if she cheated.
Must. project. sainthood.

Personally, I tend to only truly have sympathy for a woman when she is mature enough to be real about the role she played in matters.
She can pull that manipulation ish with other people who are ready to take her saint propaganda story.
hmm.. If i tell you how many girls i've met dat claim that their ex raped them.. U won't even ask about dier past relationship nd they'll just spit out that same national anthem.. Last year's style was"he promised to marry me and I tought he was for real".. Babe.. No one is actually judging u for having sex before..

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Twinkletwin: 8:15pm On Jun 04, 2020
Jullima:

So why then are you disbelieving any story that comes up without evidence?
because some girls are wicked
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by OgwuEgo: 8:16pm On Jun 04, 2020
If I get you, have you seen this guy videos?
ibkayee:

False accusations are a tiny fraction of the bigger issue, you people can cite all the anecdotes you want lol

Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Freelane33(m): 8:18pm On Jun 04, 2020
Hmm

Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Twinkletwin: 8:18pm On Jun 04, 2020
Jullima:

So why then are you disbelieving any story that comes up without evidence?
So Twitter now is the evidence?
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by ibkayee(f): 8:19pm On Jun 04, 2020
OgwuEgo:
If I get you, have you seen this guy videos?
Lol no I haven't, I've seen you post it before and I was wondering who the hell he was at one point
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Jullima(f): 8:21pm On Jun 04, 2020
Twinkletwin:
So Twitter now is the evidence?
If it isn’t evidence then why are you disbelieving it?? You say people shouldn’t believe every story, I agree. Why are you disbelieving every story?

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Jullima(f): 8:23pm On Jun 04, 2020
Twinkletwin:
because some girls are wicked
So how do you know the girl with the rape story is wicked?

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by OgwuEgo: 8:25pm On Jun 04, 2020
A lot of his videos are here, he is popular on Naija Twitter.
Take a look at these search results: https://twitter.com/search?q=%40walegates%20odumeje&s=09

ibkayee:

Lol no I haven't, I've seen you post it before and I was wondering who the hell he was at one point

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Twinkletwin: 8:32pm On Jun 04, 2020
Jullima:

So how do you know the girl with the rape story is wicked?
because it's goes the same when you beat up a girl during secondary school age she will use the saying as he asked me out and I refused that is why he attacked me to defend herself and she win the case so girls now use rape case to win sympathy although some are true
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Twinkletwin: 8:33pm On Jun 04, 2020
Jullima:

If it isn’t evidence then why are you disbelieving it?? You say people shouldn’t believe every story, I agree. Why are you disbelieving every story?
because anybody can form any story there
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:09pm On Jun 04, 2020
Twinkletwin:
because anybody can form any story there


And you know this as fact, how? Were you there when they were forming the fake story?

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Twinkletwin: 10:14pm On Jun 04, 2020
Fountainofyouth:



And you know this as fact, how? Were you there when they were forming the fake story?
which of them have I choosed? Can you specify

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