I have been with this guy for 2 years. In the beginning, the sex was just okay but just as it does it started to fade off. He got mad about it. He made this huge wahala about it at the time and it really changed the way that I saw sex in the relationship it went from a natural expression to a task I had to fulfill. I tried doing it just to make him happy, but he didn't want it unless I wanted to which was not going to happen every day like he wanted. Something you should know is that I have never had an orgasm with him at all Asin at all at all.
He can have me like 3 times a day and always sleeps after. Therefore, whenever I go to visit him all he wants is just me having sex with him all day and napping in between which is not fun for someone with a brain and feelings. He sees the fact that I want to go out and do things with him as something that friends do and not partners. I feel really used since sex is so one-sided. I have gone to doctors for my new low libido, but they are not helpful. He is not as talented in bed as he claims and says how he has never had any issues with other girls. He just doesn't want to listen to me and my needs, but gets very angry every few months by claiming I am making excuses for not wanting to have sex. I truly am tired because I have a full life with a lot of responsibilities. The last thing I want to do at the end of the day is to deal with this and the pressure. I just want to relax and not have the pressure of someone touching me and asking me for sex all the time. What do I do? How do I close this massive orgasm gap with someone unwilling to change?

You guys are sexually discordant.


Well, since you're not legally tied, you have two choices. Either you endure in the relationship if you love him, or you call it a quit and move on with your life, hoping to meet someone sexually mature for you.

Hmmm.... Since he's not ready to listen to you, just take a break. A real man should be instested in his partner's feelings, can't just treat her like a sexdoll na

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First thing first, ask your parents about trying any mutilation on you, who know they might have compromise your vaginal anatomy through genital mutilation that eventually earned you inability to have orgasm


By the way,Dont put a blame on the guy,it your fncking orgasm,dont just lay on bed like a log of wood,work for it,climb him,rock,twist,twerk on his manhood like your life depend on it,tell him to moan for you,even tell him to eat your ear duct............

Work for your hecking orgasm

He has never given you an orgasm, and at the same time he's unwilling to listen and try to change things and you still don't know what to do.
People just run to SM these days for every little problem, that one doesn't even know what's fiction and reality again.
This same old recurring issue of lack of sexual satisfaction everywhere.

One legend used to say;
"If you ain't cumming, you should be going"

Find a better schlong. Hopefully, this underwhelming experience will make it easier for you to be satisfied.

Disclaimer: what I just delivered isn't expert advice.

Talk to him , that's the only way forward , tell him your heart , what u really feel and the way forward that he should try to understand , mostly for future purposes...if he doesn't , better leave him.

Enwhen:


Talk to him , that's the only way forward , tell him your heart , what u really feel and the way forward that he should try to understand , mostly for future purposes...if he doesn't , better leave him.

I have talked to him alot, at some point I even cried but he still won't listen

if u have told him and he doesn't care, get your own space and explore yourself.

Huh i thought sex was for married peeps only huh, what have my children turned into.

Olumo rock fall on both of you

Casandra25:


I have talked to him alot, at some point I even cried but he still won't listen

If you are ok with it stay but if no , leave him....don't force yourself on him...you also need to feel the relationship...it's not a one way thing, else marriage would become boring to u in future , that's if he even have such plan for you.

enya , i can feel your pain , you are really hurting so much. I dont wish you to mourn any more or cry over a one minute man. You will do well by sending me ur phone number , we need to meet up. I promise u multiple orgasms .

Na sex be this one problem

Massive orgasm gap

So orgasm is now your problem in life.

Casandra25:

I have been with this guy for 2 years. In the beginning, the sex was just okay but just as it does it started to fade off. He got mad about it. He made this huge wahala about it at the time and it really changed the way that I saw sex in the relationship it went from a natural expression to a task I had to fulfill. I tried doing it just to make him happy, but he didn't want it unless I wanted to which was not going to happen every day like he wanted. Something you should know is that I have never had an orgasm with him at all Asin at all at all.
He can have me like 3 times a day and always sleeps after. Therefore, whenever I go to visit him all he wants is just me having sex with him all day and napping in between which is not fun for someone with a brain and feelings. He sees the fact that I want to go out and do things with him as something that friends do and not partners. I feel really used since sex is so one-sided. I have gone to doctors for my new low libido, but they are not helpful. He is not as talented in bed as he claims and says how he has never had any issues with other girls. He just doesn't want to listen to me and my needs, but gets very angry every few months by claiming I am making excuses for not wanting to have sex. I truly am tired because I have a full life with a lot of responsibilities. The last thing I want to do at the end of the day is to deal with this and the pressure. I just want to relax and not have the pressure of someone touching me and asking me for sex all the time. What do I do? How do I close this massive orgasm gap with someone unwilling to change?

One thing you need to understand in life is that you can’t always eat your cake and have it. you probably had a guy who pounds you alot more than him before you met him and you’re struggling to adjust. You can’t have everything you want in one guy!
I also disagree with you that you’ve had sex with someone for 2years without having orgasm.
You Ladies twist things alot to suit your audience.
some of you ladies expects to have sex with a guy with the same energy always and that’s not realistic.
It’s okay to breakup with him but remember you’ll not always eat your cake and have it.
If you meet another guy who wouldn’t pound you everytime the way you envisaged, you gona walk away too right? Most of you ladies who complain about orgasm are not busy mehn

Casandra25:

I have been with this guy for 2 years. In the beginning, the sex was just okay but just as it does it started to fade off. He got mad about it. He made this huge wahala about it at the time and it really changed the way that I saw sex in the relationship it went from a natural expression to a task I had to fulfill. I tried doing it just to make him happy, but he didn't want it unless I wanted to which was not going to happen every day like he wanted. Something you should know is that I have never had an orgasm with him at all Asin at all at all.
He can have me like 3 times a day and always sleeps after. Therefore, whenever I go to visit him all he wants is just me having sex with him all day and napping in between which is not fun for someone with a brain and feelings. He sees the fact that I want to go out and do things with him as something that friends do and not partners. I feel really used since sex is so one-sided. I have gone to doctors for my new low libido, but they are not helpful. He is not as talented in bed as he claims and says how he has never had any issues with other girls. He just doesn't want to listen to me and my needs, but gets very angry every few months by claiming I am making excuses for not wanting to have sex. I truly am tired because I have a full life with a lot of responsibilities. The last thing I want to do at the end of the day is to deal with this and the pressure. I just want to relax and not have the pressure of someone touching me and asking me for sex all the time. What do I do? How do I close this massive orgasm gap with someone unwilling to change?

Tell him to suck your vagina before inserting his di*k

hmmm...both of una pairing no be am..na e be things

You need some aphrodisiac.
Also, do know that you might not be part of those who orgasm via penetration, some women need to be fingered in the clitoral region. Get you some natural aphrodisiac and try out what I said.
If you feel used then communicate it with him, if he fails to change then find someone else who would want your happiness.
Btw I sell natural aphrodisiacs

Lies

Lies every time

truthfulperson:
enya , i can feel your pain , you are really hurting so much. I dont wish you to mourn any more or cry over a one minute man. You will do well by sending me ur phone number , we need to meet up. I promise u multiple orgasms .

Casandra25:

I have been with this guy for 2 years. In the beginning, the sex was just okay but just as it does it started to fade off. He got mad about it. He made this huge wahala about it at the time and it really changed the way that I saw sex in the relationship it went from a natural expression to a task I had to fulfill. I tried doing it just to make him happy, but he didn't want it unless I wanted to which was not going to happen every day like he wanted. Something you should know is that I have never had an orgasm with him at all Asin at all at all.
He can have me like 3 times a day and always sleeps after. Therefore, whenever I go to visit him all he wants is just me having sex with him all day and napping in between which is not fun for someone with a brain and feelings. He sees the fact that I want to go out and do things with him as something that friends do and not partners. I feel really used since sex is so one-sided. I have gone to doctors for my new low libido, but they are not helpful. He is not as talented in bed as he claims and says how he has never had any issues with other girls. He just doesn't want to listen to me and my needs, but gets very angry every few months by claiming I am making excuses for not wanting to have sex. I truly am tired because I have a full life with a lot of responsibilities. The last thing I want to do at the end of the day is to deal with this and the pressure. I just want to relax and not have the pressure of someone touching me and asking me for sex all the time. What do I do? How do I close this massive orgasm gap with someone unwilling to change?

Simply buy a Vibrator and use it while having d sex... That should make ur kini more sensitive to attain orgasm easily ko matter how poor he is in bed... Take that orgasm by force, don't wait for him to perform magic.

Of all the problems plaguing humanity, na sex be ur issue. Awon eyan toto dike.

Casandra25:


I have talked to him alot, at some point I even cried but he still won't listen

Are you sure this guy is not using yyou for sex?
You cried over sex?

Wetin sex go cause ehn

you have never had an orgasm with your boyfriend,he naps when he is straffing you,my question here is ,what is wrong with you?what is keeping you in a selfish relationship?if you cant tell yourself the truth i don't think anyone else could do it better.

Casandra25:

I have been with this guy for 2 years. In the beginning, the sex was just okay but just as it does it started to fade off. He got mad about it. He made this huge wahala about it at the time and it really changed the way that I saw sex in the relationship it went from a natural expression to a task I had to fulfill. I tried doing it just to make him happy, but he didn't want it unless I wanted to which was not going to happen every day like he wanted. Something you should know is that I have never had an orgasm with him at all Asin at all at all.
He can have me like 3 times a day and always sleeps after. Therefore, whenever I go to visit him all he wants is just me having sex with him all day and napping in between which is not fun for someone with a brain and feelings. He sees the fact that I want to go out and do things with him as something that friends do and not partners. I feel really used since sex is so one-sided. I have gone to doctors for my new low libido, but they are not helpful. He is not as talented in bed as he claims and says how he has never had any issues with other girls. He just doesn't want to listen to me and my needs, but gets very angry every few months by claiming I am making excuses for not wanting to have sex. I truly am tired because I have a full life with a lot of responsibilities. The last thing I want to do at the end of the day is to deal with this and the pressure. I just want to relax and not have the pressure of someone touching me and asking me for sex all the time. What do I do? How do I close this massive orgasm gap with someone unwilling to change?

So this long story is just because you want to cum....oya come let me make you cum

A guy is behind this monicker! Beware guys!!

Warlord2012:

So this long story is just because you want to cum....oya come let me make you cum

bros I was here b4 u see my number na just stay behind me after I make her cum u go nd do urs

Deckline:
A guy is behind this monicker! Beware guys!!

. Me I hv ntin to lose my own is to comment if na boy na him loose if na gal hallelujah