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I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Jamariwolff(f): 11:37am On Jun 21, 2020
No abasing comments Please.

I am a 22 year old and i identify as exclusively heterosexual and live actively heterosexual sex life but recently i have begun to find other women attractive and notice them. I dont get hot or anything, i just notice the attractive face, the body, i look a little bit longer than usual, have dilated pupils. Even on my instagram, i notice the women more BUT I DONT GET HOT. I have never considered myself homosexual except some girl crushes in secondary school.

Could this mean i could be not straight since i find these women attractive and want to glance longer?

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by AFvckingAlpha(m): 11:40am On Jun 21, 2020
I guess your Bi sexual. Its normal dear. Just accept your sexuality and stay safe. Nigeria is a shitty country.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 11:42am On Jun 21, 2020
Jamariwolff:
No abasing comments Please.

I am a 22 year old and i identify as exclusively heterosexual and live actively heterosexual sex life but recently i have begun to find other women attractive and notice them. I dont get hot or anything, i just notice the attractive face, the body, i look a little bit longer than usual, have dilated pupils. Even on my instagram, i notice the women more BUT I DONT GET HOT. I have never considered myself homosexual except some girl crushes in secondary school.

Could this mean i could be not straight since i find these women attractive and want to glance longer?
You need brain reset.

Too much of Hollywood and internet is confusing your brain.
HOMOSEXUALITY IS A PATHOLOGICAL/MEDICAL DISORDER OF THE BRAIN.
Gays, lesbians and bisexuals are sick people that need medical attention. But stubborn head won't allow them to accept that they're sick.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by missimelda01(f): 11:43am On Jun 21, 2020
Do you have lesbians as friends? Have you been watching movies that shows a lot of homosexual activities? If the answer is yes, then you should stop. You were born female but your sexuality is something you learn as you grow up and I think you might have been feeding your mind on the wrong things.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by SultanOfAbia: 11:43am On Jun 21, 2020
I onced had a 3some with a girl like you, she wanted to try lesbian and I arranged a girl that I knew was bisexual.

Mehnnn. She ended up falling in love with the other girl. That's how she fully converted to lesbianism.
I don't blame her, women are naturally soft and sweet in the middle.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Adasun(m): 11:46am On Jun 21, 2020
Pray and stop watching all dis corrupt movies

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Slawormir: 11:46am On Jun 21, 2020
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Baby girl.
You are still heterosexuals in your sexual orientation

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Freestainworld(m): 11:47am On Jun 21, 2020
your post will make sense if only you can pregnant your fellow woman
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 11:48am On Jun 21, 2020
AFvckingAlpha:
I guess your Bi sexual. Its normal dear. Just accept your sexuality and stay safe. Nigeria is a shitty country.
Yes.
Homosexuals will call it a shitty country but we like it like that tongue
We hate HOMOSEXUALITY here because IT IS MORALLY WRONG!

I am homophobic and I find homosexuals very repulsive.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by henrysolution(m): 11:50am On Jun 21, 2020
It's a normal phase, some guys even notice it but it harder for them to admit t.

Stop watching movies that expose you to the act and don't nurture the idea, if you do it will fully manifest.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by doitforyou(f): 11:50am On Jun 21, 2020
Are you sexually attracted to women?

Appreciating the female form doesn’t mean you want to have sex with them.

Watching movies or being around lesbians will NOT suddenly make you sexually attracted to women.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by AFvckingAlpha(m): 11:50am On Jun 21, 2020
FuckTheWorld:

You need brain reset.

Too much of Hollywood and internet is confusing your brain.
HOMOSEXUALITY IS A PATHOLOGICAL/MEDICAL DISORDER OF THE BRAIN.
Gays, lesbians and bisexuals are sick people that need medical attention. But stubborn head won't allow them to accept that they're sick.


Your naive ass is sick!!

Go sit down!

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Jamariwolff(f): 11:53am On Jun 21, 2020
doitforyou:
Are you sexually attracted to women?

Appreciating the female form doesn’t mean you want to have sex with it.

i believe i can be attracted To it with some "wanting To,"

I just notice the women more than the men these days
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 11:53am On Jun 21, 2020
grin
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by AFvckingAlpha(m): 11:55am On Jun 21, 2020
FuckTheWorld:

Yes.
Homosexuals will call it a shitty country but we like it like that tongue
We hate HOMOSEXUALITY here because IT IS MORALLY WRONG!

I am homophobic and I find homosexuals very repulsive.

Homosexuality is morally wrong!!! WTF!!!

Nigga, who the fvck brainwashed you??

Fvcking hypocrites!!!

You need to grow up and accept people for who they are. Stop conforming to dogmas.

Read and unread.

TF!! Blinded by what!!

He says he is homophobic, lol.

Go suck a dick nigga!!

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 11:56am On Jun 21, 2020
AFvckingAlpha:



Your naive ass is sick!!

Go sit down!
Your PREMATURE sexual organs are sick and needs urgent attention.

HOW CAN YOU CALL YOURSELF A LESBIAN, YET YOU USE DILD0?

OR A GAY AND YOU INSERT YOUR PENIS IN A SHITTY HOLE...

ARE YOU NOT SICK IN THE HEAD?

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 11:57am On Jun 21, 2020
Durrent you again?
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by AFvckingAlpha(m): 12:03pm On Jun 21, 2020
FuckTheWorld:

Your PREMATURE sexual organs are sick and needs urgent attention.

HOW CAN YOU CALL YOURSELF A LESBIAN, YET YOU USE DILD0?

OR A GAY AND YOU INSERT YOUR PENIS IN A SHITTY HOLE...

ARE YOU NOT SICK IN THE HEAD?

You're a naive nitwit who has fallen prey to dogmas.

Exchanging words with you is not worth it.

Your dumb, your words are devoid of anything sensible to say the least.

Jeez!

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by themaestro08(m): 12:05pm On Jun 21, 2020
FuckTheWorld:

Yes.
Homosexuals will call it a shitty country but we like it like that tongue
We hate HOMOSEXUALITY here because IT IS MORALLY WRONG!

I am homophobic and I find homosexuals very repulsive.

Okay moderfucker. You have been noticed. Keep in mind your opinion doesn't matter, and no one gives a hoot about your shitty opinion.

That said, explain(rationally with scientific citation) what makes homosexuality immoral?

If you can't then its better you shut the hell up

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by themaestro08(m): 12:10pm On Jun 21, 2020
FuckTheWorld:

Your PREMATURE sexual organs are sick and needs urgent attention.

HOW CAN YOU CALL YOURSELF A LESBIAN, YET YOU USE DILD0?

OR A GAY AND YOU INSERT YOUR PENIS IN A SHITTY HOLE...

ARE YOU NOT SICK IN THE HEAD?

You are big fool man.

Lots of us here are strict heterosexuals but you know what? As gentlemen we live and let live - we don't irrationally go around hurting other people and attacking their sexual preference.

Peoples sexual orientation is none of your farking business.

Stop this garbage behaviour!

Let that sink in you absolute thicko

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jun 21, 2020
[quote author=themaestro08 post=90908098]

You are big fool man.
You must be mistaken for your father...
Lots of us here are strict heterosexuals but you know what? As gentlemen we live and let live - we don't irrationally go around hurting other people and attacking their sexual preference.

Peoples sexual orientation is none of your farking business.

Stop this garbage behaviour!

Let that sink in you absolute thicko
In this part of the world, we perceive homosexuality as a crime and it's going to continue being our business.
You faggóts and faggóts apologists can take your sick fuckēries to stupîd countries that permits it. Try it here and you'll rot in jail.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:26pm On Jun 21, 2020
themaestro08:


You are big fool man.

Lots of us here are strict heterosexuals but you know what? As gentlemen we live and let live - we don't irrationally go around hurting other people and attacking their sexual preference.

Peoples sexual orientation is none of your farking business.

Stop this garbage behaviour!

Let that sink in you absolute thicko
homosexuality is a choice, i just realised. And i am leaving this lifestyle myself.

The screenshot photos are from a quora post that opened my eyes

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:27pm On Jun 21, 2020
themaestro08:


Okay moderfucker. You have been noticed. Keep in mind your opinion doesn't matter, and no one gives a hoot about your shitty opinion.

That said, explain(rationally with scientific citation) what makes homosexuality immoral?

If you can't then its better you shut the hell up
Lol!
How miserably stupîd can some DOLTS be?

And you think your own opinion matter?
grin
In fact, my opinion even matter to the level of authority because if we catch you in that gross immoral act, if mob action or lynching doesn't take care of you, the prison will.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:27pm On Jun 21, 2020
Jamariwolff:
No abasing comments Please.

I am a 22 year old and i identify as exclusively heterosexual and live actively heterosexual sex life but recently i have begun to find other women attractive and notice them. I dont get hot or anything, i just notice the attractive face, the body, i look a little bit longer than usual, have dilated pupils. Even on my instagram, i notice the women more BUT I DONT GET HOT. I have never considered myself homosexual except some girl crushes in secondary school.

Could this mean i could be not straight since i find these women attractive and want to glance longer?
dear OP, you feel like that because you have the CHOICE To act on homosexuality like everyone else.

Homosexuality is a choice !!!
And you can decide To act on it or remain in your normal lifestyle.
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by themaestro08(m): 12:33pm On Jun 21, 2020
Durentt:
homosexuality is a choice, i just realised. And i am leaving this lifestyle myself.

The screenshot photos are from a quora post that opened my eyes

Where are the pictures ?
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by themaestro08(m): 12:35pm On Jun 21, 2020
FuckTheWorld:

Lol!
How miserably stupîd can some DOLTS be?

And you think your own opinion matter?
grin
In fact, my opinion even matter to the level of authority because if we catch you in that gross immoral act, if mob action or lynching doesn't take care of you, the prison will.

Okay moderfucker. I was expecting a rational response but what I got was load of horse shit grin grin grin

Literally the biggest ass hole on Nairaland grin angry grin

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jun 21, 2020
themaestro08:


Where are the pictures ?
can u see them on this post ?

Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by HitSong: 12:40pm On Jun 21, 2020
FuckTheWorld:

Lol!
How miserably stupîd can some DOLTS be?

And you think your own opinion matter?
grin
In fact, my opinion even matter to the level of authority because if we catch you in that gross immoral act, if mob action or lynching doesn't take care of you, the prison will.

Lol!

Leave that guy alone.
He is a fûcking gay.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Jamariwolff(f): 12:40pm On Jun 21, 2020
Durentt:
dear OP, you feel like that because you have the CHOICE To act on homosexuality like everyone else.

Homosexuality is a choice !!!
And you can decide To act on it or remain in your normal lifestyle.
thanks. This cleared off the problem i was having. I can decide To act on what i am feeling, but i wont. Thanks again.
Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by HitSong: 12:41pm On Jun 21, 2020
FuckTheWorld:

Your PREMATURE sexual organs are sick and needs urgent attention.

HOW CAN YOU CALL YOURSELF A LESBIAN, YET YOU USE DILD0?

OR A GAY AND YOU INSERT YOUR PENIS IN A SHITTY HOLE...

ARE YOU NOT SICK IN THE HEAD?
Lol!
Smart dude grin

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jun 21, 2020
Durentt:
can u see them on this post ?
homosexuality is not a choice 90% of the time.

I know homosexuals who were willing to do anything to change their sexual orientation, got depressed and even going for deliverance but they couldn't . Your point is invalid

Homosexuality is deeper than just sexual feelings.

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Re: I Am Starting To Doubt My Sexual Orientation, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jun 21, 2020
Descortes:
homosexuality is not a choice 90% of the time.

I know homosexuals who were willing to do anything to change their sexual orientation, got depressed and even going for deliverance but they couldn't . Your point is invalid

Homosexuality is deeper than just sexual feelings.
I lived an active homosexual life for 6 years age 14 - 20 (pornography, fantasy of relationship with same sex, masturbation thinking of same sex, and 1 sex experience with the same sex, 1 sex experience with the opposite sex). All these while suppressing my heterosexual aspects.

I thought i was born gay due To my childhood effeminacy (see the thread on my profile).

But then i decided To make lifestyle changes and stop watching those porn videos for weeks now and I started To imagine myself with the opposite sex. Together WITH PMO (porn,masturbation, orgasm) program support.

I am not totally free of homosexuality urges but it is going away, i believe with time i would be free.

Just like the op is wondering, If i can see a woman and admire her face or body even a little and look at her longer, then why can i have an active romantique and sexual relationship with her?
Some people are more inclined To act on homosexuality but it is definitely a choice even To these people.

I am not religious or whatever but i believe what made me gay was liking the idea of that lifestyle and gay pornography.

One more thing: people who love the homosexual lifestyle, see nothing wrong in it are susceptible To act on it.

HOMOSEXUALITY IS A CHOICE SO IS HETEROSEXUALITY

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