jornwhite:

Now i am 100% sure a woman is behind this moniker every guy not on there side is either poor or jobless ... poverty no be soup tii e ye e ! thank God obim rescued you

So you really believe all her fabu fabu tales for dis nl?

Romangalactic:

So you really believe all her fabu fabu tales for dis nl?

Let just play along, if we don't swallow there fabu dem go tag us EP (enemy of progress). reality is there to deal with liers.

Ybaby:


The way you just go off topic is amusing to me........ you must have some undiagnosed issues.

I asked why does your body pain you when I praise my own husband. Why?

Maa bi mii nii jamb question, here is not instagram or twitter, what there to envy on a faceless forum. i no see regina or cuppy envy naa you wey i no even sure you exist i go waste my envy on ...abeggi go n cook

jornwhite:





Maa bi mii nii jamb question, here is not instagram or twitter, what there to envy on a faceless forum. i no see regina or cuppy envy naa you wey i no even sure you exist i go waste my envy on ...abeggi go n cook

eyah!

Ybaby:


eyah!

i like your spirit tho !

jornwhite:



i like your spirit tho !

Of cos you do. Who no like better thing

DeckXavier:



The fathers before us were more logical, having multiple wives gave them options and also kids that could work on the farm or whatever business they were into, they weren't in love, it was just the common sense thing to do.

words like "man up" would starting flying around when she's no longer attractive, omo that one no concern me o.

Was your father a polygamist? Was your mother always in shape?

Romangalactic:

I love your comment. I too am very visual person because I've made peace with the reality that love is a mask and relationships will always depend on selfish interests. I can't stand my woman looking like a whale,not when I'm responsible for her financially and all she has to do for me is look exceptionally attractive.

The day she starts to let go in the name of I gave birth to your children,na dat day I begin search for another smallie with my spec to use as sidechic. You can't be eating my money and still want to use emotion to manipulate me into liking what I hate.

At least you didn't say divorce her

Ybaby:


Of cos you do. Who no like better thing

really !! i shuld be d judge on that

Nooil:



Was your father a polygamist? Was your mother always in shape?

the fathers before my dad were, and to your second question, my mum doesn't make stupid arguments like Nl girls so I guess dad could overlook that. But I'm not my dad.

DeckXavier:
the fathers before my dad were, and to your second question, my mum doesn't make stupid arguments like Nl girls so I guess dad could overlook that. But I'm not my dad.

Not all fathers before your dad were polygamists. Most times, it's even their wives that will advise them to take a second or third wife when they can no longer cope with childbearing struggles.

It's good to know you're not your dad.

Nooil:


Not all fathers before your dad were polygamists. Most times, it's even their wives that will advise them to take a second or third wife when they can no longer cope with childbearing struggles.

It's good to know you're not your dad.

lol, so true. My dad is an astute businessman, I'm more of a scientist.

Romangalactic:

So you really believe all her fabu fabu tales for dis nl?

Idiots meetup

E ku jatijati

jornwhite:




Let just play along, if we don't swallow there fabu dem go tag us EP (enemy of progress). reality is there to deal with liers.

Unserious poor men gossiping about a woman and your kids fees are yet to be paid..... sad!

efosky1246:


My brother, you almost brought tears to my eyes with this your write-up. It's a pleasure to know good men still exist.

I keep saying it that most dysfunctional marriages, not all(before they come for my head) is usually the fault of the man. From a surface point of view, it might seem like it's the woman. But most times. The woman is reacting to the deficiencies in the man.

When you treat a normal, healthy woman right and act like a leader, set the tone in the relationship. Not just shouting "I am the man" up and down. There is no how she would not submit and respect you. Men need to be held more accountable.

We should grab a drink together if you're keen. Would love to connect in person.

I love how you reason.
I'll not find it hard submitting to an understanding man like you.

bukatyne:


@bold:

Perhaps you help the upcominhwomen and list what you think makes a man a good leader.

Hopefully, they shun the opposite so we have peace in our homes.

I agree men need to be held more accountable which would be hard if the women choose the bad men with their eyes open.

Let go of that mindset Buka
Like I've always told you, we don't always have it all figured out. Even you...
People change.
We can only get it right by spiritual discernment , not by human intelligence. No mere mortal is above deception.

bukatyne:


Like a woman, any man that leaves emotionally healthy women and settles for a cray cray has himself to blame.

Did I say you can borrow my word?
Someone was so sure you're my alternate

bukatyne:


If you want to quote me, it would be appreciated if you quote me properly.

Ending your sermon with watch, pray and be wise isn't necessary if you believe people change, people evolve so we can't know them.

I have even accepted maybe it is my gift some posts back.

Some people can discern others, some can't. I hear you.

And NL is wide enough, everyone should type what they believe in biko.

I sense some pride in you. You hate to be corrected also.
No matter how intelligent we think we are, WE DON'T KNOW IT ALL.
Change your mindset. "God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble"

If the man is already rich and even just decent looking, he'll have such a big pool to choose from that any entitled, poor chick is not gonna make the cut. Sorry but choosing works both ways - if a woman is attracted to me just due to my bank account, why in HELL would I want to have anything to do with her? On top of it, if I'm rich enough that she's interested in me, I'm rich enough to afford the most beautiful women around without the need to tie myself to any of them.

Nooil:

At least you didn't say divorce her

Lol, sidechic is cheaper & less messy

MFerrara:
If the man is already rich and even just decent looking, he'll have such a big pool to choose from that any entitled, poor chick is not gonna make the cut. Sorry but choosing works both ways - if a woman is attracted to me just due to my bank account, why in HELL would I want to have anything to do with her? On top of it, if I'm rich enough that she's interested in me, I'm rich enough to afford the most beautiful women around without the need to tie myself to any of them.

Average looking women just don't cut it when there's money.

Mariangeles:


I love how you reason.
I'll not find it hard submitting to an understanding man like you.

You've not found him yet?

Romangalactic:

Lol, sidechic is cheaper & less messy

No, it's not. You're just scared of divorce probably because you're still connected to your roots or religion. You're not totally "emancipated."

Nooil:

No, it's not. You're just scared of divorce probably because you're still connected to your roots or religion. You're not totally "emancipated."

Lol, I don't like divorce

Romangalactic:

Lol, I don't like divorce

But you like the side chic idea because you can always go back to God and say, "I don't know what got over me Lord, forgive me for I have sinned against you." Right?

Nooil:


But you like the side chic idea because you can always go back to God and say, "I don't know what got over me Lord, forgive me for I have sinned against you." Right?

Lmao I'm not thinking that far. I just don't like the idea of a divorce plus sidecics are cheaper and less messy as long as you play it right

efosky1246:


I could. It's just time.

Women need to be educated on qualities they should look out for in a man. Failure to choose right on the part of the woman coupled with irresponsible men is the foremost reason for dysfunctional relationships today.

Tell me the qualities, please.

I guess iyawo Chris Oyakhilome didn't have such spiritual discernment. Also many Christians whose marriages are either crashing or simply being endured just to make people believe they have a happy marriage... Discernment this, discernment that. Let's tell ourselves the truth religion doesn't make you have a better marriage.

The goods and ills of marriage are experienced by all humans regardless of religion. In fact, one would think marriages contracted the Christian way might be more at a disadvantage simply because it's more like buying a pig in a poke. You don't know what you get until it is too late to return. No sex before marriage doctrine is used to hide a lot of sexual liabilities including infertility and sexual incompatibility. Then the strictly Christiany courtship aura is mostly all deceptive, using let's pray about it to avert sensible introspection and investigation...

Leave spiritual discernment out of it until you get to your Church; marriage was made for humans and not for Christians. It is a social construct and won't thrive by religious opinion.

Mariangeles:


Let go of that mindset Buka
Like I've always told you, we don't always have it all figured out. Even you...
People change.
We can only get it right by spiritual discernment , not by human intelligence. No mere mortal is above deception.

So we should date them but not marry them.Who will now marry those guys?

Everyday more rubbish is been thrown out. Just a pity.

Pls I'm not being rude pls.....

Can I ask you a question?

Did your mum married your dad when your dad was Dangote

No offense pls.

Let's agree that this is a great advice for the sake of argument.

It means, a lot of women would stay single for a long period or for life since most men would never get rich anyways.

But this is a shitty line of thought.

Shey women no dey ever make money ni? Women no dey become rich?

Dear women, try to get rich yourself. This is not for marriage or relationship sake but because money is good!