Ujujoan:

I think I completely agree with this . . . .

When push comes to shove, these people stick to their kind!

I'm sorry you felt the need to tow that line Ify, I pray God will open you eyes on time to see the errors in your ways!

mukina2:

Why cant people mind their own business

Is ify the first conversion story here on NL?

I agree with her though, this thread will bring nothing but insults and anger from others . I dunno why people feel the need to be the judge of what others do or do not do.

There had been stories from both sides and no one raised anything, cant people let others chose their own way

smh.

Lagosboy:

Honestly, i never insult people and i try not to be angry but your comments honestly digusts me. Can you not respect someones choice to be whatever? You are free to invite her to whatever faith you like but to say "errors in her ways" is plain disgusting. She is a matured woman free to choose what she likes and if you care you could read the thread in which she created about her curiosity before she converted, perhaps you might have a change of heart yourself. She went on about 10 month journey into the knowledge of islaam before she accepted islam.  https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-359506.0.html

I respect whatever belief you believe in but will call you to research into islam , perhaps the grass might be greener for you on the other side. I feel a lot lighter now and my inital anger has vanished  , i call you with all due respect to understand islam as a faith before you make a judgement on "errors" . With all humility I invite you to worship your creator without associating any partners to him, I invite you to ask questions about islam to enhance your wealth of knowledge and plead with you to accept my invitation

Have a great day sister !!

Ujujoan:

I think I completely agree with this . . . .

When push comes to shove, these people stick to their kind!

I'm sorry you felt the need to tow that line Ify, I pray God will open you eyes on time to see the errors in your ways!

What the. . . . ?! Uju, are you serious about this? So because Ify, as an adult woman, decided to change to a religion quite different from yours, there must be error in her ways? Are you serious?!!!
Wait, you were joking abi?

mukina2:

what did you drink today?

Ujujoan:

What are you talking about

I gave my personal opinion to Ify because she's someone I truly respect on this forum. She's an adult and has every right to make decisions that affect her life and those of her family and me giving her my opinion does not mean I'm judging her![/b]Please if you don't know what to say, you might want to check the next thread!

I dey laugh . . .

Ujujoan link=topic=594534.msg7703443#msg7703443 date=1297333062:

I think I completely agree with this . . . .

When push comes to shove, these people stick to their kind!

I'm sorry you felt the need to tow that line Ify, I pray God will open you eyes on time to see the [b]errors in your ways!

spikedcylinder:


What the. . . . ?! Uju, are you serious about this? So because Ify, as an adult woman, decided to change to a religion quite different from yours, there must be error in her ways? Are you serious?!!!
Wait, you were joking abi?

Lagosboy:



Except judgement means a different thing, you have already judged her as the opposite of being right is being in ERROR.

You do not need to laugh as you are not OBJ but rather like Mukina advised take a cold drink and look into islam yourself as it might benefit you.

Ujujoan:

I have no need for that, I'm perfectly happy where I am. I do not feel the 'pull' she described so I think I'll pass on that!

I saw the sermon you gave to her on that thread and I think it's just classic! Unfortunately, I'm not moved.

You are good muslim and I have nothing against you or your religion . . . . I just feel sad that Ify felt the need to do what she did!

But hey, to each his own!

Lagosboy:

Sister, The objective of me inviting you is not to be moved but rather to understand the concept of islaam which will enable you make fairer assesments in the future. Life is not always black or white and the rule in life is that one needs to understand something in detail in order to make an accurate judgement on that thing.

Feel free to always ask questions about islam so that next time you hear one of your friends have become muslim you would know how to deal with the situation better. Make sure you read the thread till completion whenever you have the time and ask what you dont understand.

I wish you our Lords guidance always

Ujujoan:

I like you . . . you are polite. which is somthing that cannot be said for most people on NL!

I'll respect your wishes and try to be more objective in my veiws about your religion. But dont expect me to one of your converts sha . . .

Ujujoan:

The way people talk about this thing as if changing a religion is changing a location!  

Religion is a way of life . . . It's not something you wake up and say  'Oh how about I go over to the other side that appears to be greener . . '  

I certainly do not know why she made the decision and I bet she must have being convinced she was making the right one. I just don't agree . . .  

spikedcylinder:

Ha! I'm sure she doesn't agree with the way you live your life either (not just her for that matter, many many many others) but you don't find anyone calling your life an error because of personal decisions you've either made individually or with members of your family.
We need to be more open minded about these things, seriously.

Lagosboy:


Never say never . . . . But seriously i do appreciate the time you took to reply to me and your promise of objectivity. I am a muslim but i try never to castigate a whole faith and I try to explain islam to anyone without putting down the other persons faith. I try to but we are all not perfect .

There is no substitute to knowledge and the more you know about something the better analysis you can make and the better the objectivity as well . Another advice is to look at islam as a faith and not only analyse islam from the actions of muslims. True, our actions should be a reflection of our faith but unfortunately many of us dont act upon the principles of islam.

I sincerely wish you our Lords guidance always!

Ujujoan:

Ohhhh spikey leave me jor . . ahan!

ehen so what if I talk say na error nko? no be my mouth I take talk am? If na you do am sef, I go still tell you the same thing sef!

I'm atheist. Oya, talk make I hear.

spikedcylinder:

I'm atheist. Oya, talk make I hear.

Ujujoan:

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denzel2009:

Depart from me ye worker of iniquity.

greateros:

Ify!
Ichosia ebe i ga eje feechi gi oburu na nke ndi na kpoisiala! Ewuu nmwanem! Ndo inugo!

Nnegi na nnagi ga si oburu na ha malu ha ka ewepu afo-ime gi oge odi onwa abuo!

Mata amata na onweghi oge ndi isi-ala ga ewe gi ka nwane ha ni hi na ibu onye igbo!

Chigi meregi ebere!

Get your acts together cause it seems you are a thoroughly confused being! Now i believe you truly contacted that 419herbalist guy for solutions out of your desperation. To think i was boldly defending you on that trade with my other ID.

agabaI23:

;d :d
roflmao

ifyalways:

lolz.
Its very funny.Strangers springing up to assign themselves roles . . .my OWN life kwa?

Gbam!!!!

agabaI23:

Ify congrats in [b]our [/b]new found faith