I and my girlfriend have been dating for about a year now, it's a distance relationship (badagry-abeokuta), though I have my job and she's an Entrepreneur with about five start up businesses. She's a baby mama and also school. The most fascinating thing about her is that she's very very brilliant and smart. So full of ideas, humble and even cheap to maintain, not the so demanding ( though I never fail in all my manly Responsibilities). She always acknowledge it to my face and behind me that man like me is so so scare. So she's ready to marry me ASAP once am ready.

I also want to marry her and can't even wait, but my twin problem with her are:

1, she's was a coded runs girl in the past and that lifestyles is stil in her. So no matter how much/ or what i do, once she's Hot or just feel like catching fun she will just chat up any guy she likes from her contact, seduce him & bed him.
2.. because she's been hurt in the past by a cheating baby daddy and because she has married men she also cheats with and did know all the tactics in d game, she constantly post it and keep telling girls that men are born cheater and he if didn't cheat now will Cheat as soon as he's rich.

No, she never show any traces of her cheating lifestyle to any one, not even to those she cheats with. To some she pretent to be a starving deserted housewife, to others she pretent to be a lonely, hustling singly mother with no boyfriend or mind to love again. So with her humility and hard-working ( truly she is) everyone believes her and love her too. Plus she's dark and pretty.

I used to love and so trust her too, until late last year when she said for the third time, that we should quit d relationship but later apologise. So I felt something is fishy And i had to tap her phone then I got my shocker.

Funny enough she's so very jeolous though she trust me (atleast for now)

At first I told some councellors (with proof) and they advice me to leave her that she won't stop cheating.

I found it hard to leave her yet because
I still don't have anyone else and am still so obsessed with her brilliance, maturity, humility, hard-working, sense of humour, tolerance, and more of her rare charisma. Just last week we landed an online business that can fetch use about 100k monthly as partners. I believe our partnership as couple can land us greater things in future , we have excellent communication and crave for Entrepreneurship and creative .. so match in many ways ... Sex, social, religion, education, ethnic and all wer'e just so very compatible

THE WORSE NOW IS I start losing my libido to her, why ?

1.. the last time she visited while with me she was chatting one of her sugar daddy and another new (Nigerian) bf in Spain, She sent a naughty pic I snapped her to d guy and that made me lost interest quickly, could not even touch her again till she return.
2.. last Friday she chatted me she was Hot, so I agreed she should come tomorrow Tuesday, but I know she will be up to something, so I quickly went to tap her chat. I realized she sent a semi nude pics she sent to me to about 3 other people, and she's chatting one of her ex telling him she's lonely and Hot because it's cold , so that asked her to come visiting this Thursday. Then yesterday evening her phone was off and when she on it .. I saw she was chatting her Spain bf that she's drunk. .. then I knew she went out with someone yesterday. So someone yesterday, me tomorrow , ex fixed for Thursday, damn .. !!!

I called her today that I couldn't see her tomorrow again that I will be busy. Also made up my mind not to sleep with her again. But her prowess and brilliance and traits. Is rare to find , so am still scared of losing her. What do u advice pls. MATURED RESPONSE ONLY PLS.

meanwhile I once tried to caution her. I started by complaining about her phone being in flight mode and lied I also got infection. But she immediately threatened a quit. So then we settled.... But now am rather ready for the quit because I don't see her changing... She rather feel so smart and that will last until d day I will open book for am.

Stop saying her good traits are rare to find. That's what is holding you down. When you start telling yourself that her good traits kind of lady are numerous out there in number. That will be the beginning of emancipating yourself from uncommon traits mental slavery. I wish you all the very best in your quest for peace of mind and a quick delivery from your mental slavery bondage.

Bro, it will end in premium tears

1. What happened to having an affair with single ladies?

2. You already said that her hooing lifestyle is still manifesting but you won't borrow yourself sense.

3. Baby mamas have this unending attachment to their baby daddy, is it something you wanna deal with with your precious time?

It looks like the hot sex she is feeding you have blocked your brain from correct reasoning.

Guys pls talk but maturely, this girl is everything a man could pray for. But this ...her sexcapes, is frustrating. She has men she's rejecting oooo, but having about 3 sugar daddies, 7fuckmates and still searching for more when u're also in a serious relationship is a worst thing from any responsible lady. When it come to flirting ..she appeared cursed.

But no one will see it in her .. very secretive there. Not even a friend will notice.

I wish God can look me in the eye to tell me d way forward.

blockgeek69:
Bro, it will end in premium tears

Hmmmmm, May God safe me from this

What do u want to hear again?
Fck off jor!!!

You won’t get the honour of being called a Simp from me cos u are just extremely stûpîd.

Move on ...the easiest and best solution is to cut off ties and move on...she's bad for you and for your future...you'll be glad you did in years to come

Hmm this life no balance brother please leave her alone if you want to live long. have you ever thought of achieving those things you want to achieved with her and die Young because of so call marriage... brother she can never stop cheating u might end up fathering someone's child with this kind girl......may God gives you wisdom to see ur digging ur gravy with ur own hands

I hope you won't kill yourself in the long run?

She is tricking you and you are falling for it. You better wake up.

You have been jazzed

No doubt.

She nor go pass Edo or Yoruba woman.

I hope you haven’t started washing her paiint yet?

I have no words for you.

sirzee1660:
Hmm this life no balance brother please leave her alone if you want to live long. have you ever thought of achieving those things you want to achieved with her and die Young because of so call marriage... brother she can never stop cheating u might end up fathering someone's child with this kind girl......may God gives you wisdom to see ur digging ur gravy with ur own hands

Thanks for ur advice, I appreciate.

Coder2Client:
I hope you won't kill yourself in the long run?

She is tricking you and you are falling for it. You better wake up.

I appreciate ur advice

Is like this oga poster wants to die Young





Well I don't have anything to tell u but




This is what I have to say










Ur head is Koret






Ur head is not Koret

Carchoice:


You have been jazzed

No doubt.

She nor go pass Edo or Yoruba woman.

I hope you haven’t started washing her paiint yet?

Lol, I get ur point.

you better disengage her before you have high blood pressure on a public commodity

You already lost to the punanee.
You need some home remedies to get your sense back.

Hope you no dey give her head sha....?

The woman you described there isn't a humble woman; rather, she's a hypocritically disingenuous woman.

If you'll have peace of mind living with a woman who's your frenemy, go ahead with her, but if you won't, then leave her with alacrity.

Cashalhaji:
Guys pls talk but maturely, this girl is everything a man could pray for.

Sorry, I don't pray for something that will give me wahala.

Cashalhaji:
But this ...her sexcapes, is frustrating. She has men she's rejecting oooo, but having about 3 sugar daddies, 7fuckmates and still searching for more when u're also in a serious relationship is a worst thing from any responsible lady. When it come to flirting ..she appeared cursed.

Is this what you prayed for?

Cashalhaji:
But no one will see it in her .. very secretive there. Not even a friend will notice.

To think you hacked her account to see what you saw.

Cashalhaji:
I wish God can look me in the eye to tell me d way forward.

He'd probably say “Fūck you!”

Cashalhaji:

she's an Entrepreneur with about five start up businesses. She's a baby mama and also school.

1. Her coochie.
2. Her Arse-anal
3. Her mouth.
4. Her left hand
5. Her right hand

I tot u hv senses, bro marry ur peace of mind

Cashalhaji:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about a year now, it's a distance relationship (badagry-abeokuta), though I have my job and she's an Entrepreneur with about five start up businesses. She's a baby mama and also school. The most fascinating thing about her is that she's very very brilliant and smart. So full of ideas, humble and even cheap to maintain, not the so demanding ( though I never fail in all my manly Responsibilities). She always acknowledge it to my face and behind me that man like me is so so scare. So she's ready to marry me ASAP once am ready.

I also want to marry her and can't even wait, but my twin problem with her are:

1, she's was a coded runs girl in the past and that lifestyles is stil in her. So no matter how much/ or what i do, once she's Hot or just feel like catching fun she will just chat up any guy she likes from her contact, seduce him & bed him.
2.. because she's been hurt in the past by a cheating baby daddy and because she has married men she also cheats with and did know all the tactics in d game, she constantly post it and keep telling girls that men are born cheater and he if didn't cheat now will Cheat as soon as he's rich.

No, she never show any traces of her cheating lifestyle to any one, not even to those she cheats with. To some she pretent to be a starving deserted housewife, to others she pretent to be a lonely, hustling singly mother with no boyfriend or mind to love again. So with her humility and hard-working ( truly she is) everyone believes her and love her too. Plus she's dark and pretty.

I used to love and so trust her too, until late last year when she said for the third time, that we should quit d relationship but later apologise. So I felt something is fishy And i had to tap her phone then I got my shocker.

Funny enough she's so very jeolous though she trust me (atleast for now)

At first I told some councellors (with proof) and they advice me to leave her that she won't stop cheating.

I found it hard to leave her yet because
I still don't have anyone else and am still so obsessed with her brilliance, maturity, humility, hard-working, sense of humour, tolerance, and more of her rare charisma. Just last week we landed an online business that can fetch use about 100k monthly as partners. I believe our partnership as couple can land us greater things in future , we have excellent communication and crave for Entrepreneurship and creative .. so match in many ways ... Sex, social, religion, education, ethnic and all wer'e just so very compatible

THE WORSE NOW IS I start losing my libido to her, why ?

1.. the last time she visited while with me she was chatting one of her sugar daddy and another new (Nigerian) bf in Spain, She sent a naughty pic I snapped her to d guy and that made me lost interest quickly, could not even touch her again till she return.
2.. last Friday she chatted me she was Hot, so I agreed she should come tomorrow Tuesday, but I know she will be up to something, so I quickly went to tap her chat. I realized she sent a semi nude pics she sent to me to about 3 other people, and she's chatting one of her ex telling him she's lonely and Hot because it's cold , so that asked her to come visiting this Thursday. Then yesterday evening her phone was off and when she on it .. I saw she was chatting her Spain bf that she's drunk. .. then I knew she went out with someone yesterday. So someone yesterday, me tomorrow , ex fixed for Thursday, damn .. !!!

I called her today that I couldn't see her tomorrow again that I will be busy. Also made up my mind not to sleep with her again. But her prowess and brilliance and traits. Is rare to find , so am still scared of losing her. What do u advice pls. MATURED RESPONSE ONLY PLS.

meanwhile I once tried to caution her. I started by complaining about her phone being in flight mode and lied I also got infection. But she immediately threatened a quit. So then we settled.... But now am rather ready for the quit because I don't see her changing... She rather feel so smart and that will last until d day I will open book for am.

Don't marry her because she will continue her coded runs When you are married. A cheating wife will surely kill her husband one day.

This one don enter bottle

Brother play along for the sake of the benefit you're getting from her look for another lady forget her smartness many ladies are even smarter than her just that you concentrate on her only. Brother HIV, staph is real stop having s3x or better still protect yourself with her. Just the money benefit. Get another lady unknown to her.

Simply move on with your life young man. You would be liable to die young if you continue. Don't walk into a death trap with your eyes wide open.

The only advice you need is just for you to be HONEST with yourself for once.

purpinkx:


Sorry, I don't pray for something that will give me wahala.



Is this what you prayed for?


To think you hacked her account to see what you saw.



He'd probably say “Fūck you!”



1. Her coochie.
2. Her Arse-anal
3. Her mouth.
4. Her left hand
5. Her right hand

Them don carry your guy matter go settle for Jaruma kingdom

How about an open relationship?

Every lady av a good n bad side..
The possibility of u fathering another child in ur marriage is high
Come to think of it....a lady u r in a relationship with frolicking with sugar paddies..... Because of money damn it...damn it!
Seriously that's an insult
Can u deal with a cheating spouse... Look at how she is rationing d sex like turn by turn
Can she make a good mother....think about ur children
Future my foot... Online business my ass!
Guy u better go for peace of mind
Don't say I didn't tell u
She don't av respect for u ..neither does she av for herself
What kind of loose woman is that......
Any red flag u notice in relationship gets worse in marriage !!!!

I swear if I catch this OP in real life, I'll pay boys to throw him inside a canal, nonsense

Bros see as signs and wonders dey surround you.
You never still believe.you go later wound yourself.

She's smarter than you and also have a game plan at hand.
As you know wan gree hear word.

Kuku marry am.
We know say you go come back con dey cry,dey disturb us.

BRODA ODE!!!