What are your expectations in your relationship/marriage? 

These are some of the expectations that I have heard from both men and women:

Women:
maintain a stable job
do handy jobs around the house
discipline the children
protects them against harm

Men:
bare children
cook meals
clean house
maintain her appearances
listen
do not express excessive opinions
provide sex on demand
wash and iron clothes
be a hostess when guests come over
have a job
not ask for excessive material things
maintain perky bosoms and nyansh

Mrs.Chima:



Women:
maintain a stable job
do handy jobs around the house
discipline the children
protects them against harm

Men:
bare children
cook meals
clean house
maintain her appearances
listen
do not express excessive opinions
provide sex on demand
wash and iron clothes
be a hostess when guests come over
have a job
not ask for excessive material things
maintain perky bosoms and nyansh

hahahahha the opposite huh?

The sex better be good  - no compromise with me
He has to have a sense of humor
He has to be gentle and tender
But He also definitely has to be firm and hard - because many times - I can be indecisive and I need a decision maker during those times
He has to love kids
He has to be able to talk dirty to me - if he is shy - FORGET IT - we can't both be plagued with that
But First and foremost - he has to love God deeply
He said if I washed laundry - he would iron
He has to help me cook
He has to allow me to hire help to come into the home and help with house chores as well

@ Mrs. C

I LOVE THE PROVIDE SEX ON DEMAND

That's exactly what I want - I want him to provide me sex on demand - that is heaven - [shy-one giggles over and over again]

you know he talks dirty to me over the phone and I cannot get enough of it - it is fantastic!!!! lolololol - ahahahahaha - yayyy - hip, hip horray - for my dirty talking man

good home cooked food and sex on demand of course.

oh, no nagging too.

I laughed when my husband told me my role in the house is to be bared foot and pregnant for the rest of my child bearing years.  

I laughed so hard and told him he must be TRIPPING!  He was serious and said that women SHOULD PROVIDE SEX on every demand even if they are not in the mood!  I also said that women can REVOKE punny coupons if we feel like it.  

I had an hour long African man lecture.  I was doing my to do list in my mind.  So, I can't repeat what he said.

kokoye:

good home cooked food and sex on demand of course.

oh, no nagging too. 

Hey suga!  You prefer African home cooked meals or American home cooked meals?  Both?

I always do both and once a month do an African meal party for my husband's family and my friends. I can do a mean arse Jollef Rice and perfected a soup recipe given to me by an in-law.

Mrs.Chima:

I laughed when my husband told me my role in the house is to be bared foot and pregnant for the rest of my child bearing years.  

I laughed so hard and told him he must be TRIPPING!  He was serious and said that women SHOULD PROVIDE SEX on every demand even if they are not in the mood!  I also said that women can REVOKE punny coupons if we feel like it.  

I had an hour long African man lecture.  I was doing my to do list in my mind.  So, I can't repeat what he said.  

oooo - i love this that you said - i do the same - sometimes you just have to zone them out - it's unfortunate but necessary - my babe harps and nags more than i do - u just have to zone sometimes - u just have to

That the AFrican men for ya.

Mrs.Chima:

Hey suga! You prefer African home cooked meals or American home cooked meals? Both?

I always do both and once a month do an African meal party for my husband's family and my friends. I can do a mean arse Jollef Rice and perfected a soup recipe given to me by an in-law.

we will marry you again and again.

You know I am looking for a second husband. I have a particular Yoruba man in mind.

Mrs.Chima:

What are your expectations in your relationship/marriage?

These are some of the expectations that I have heard from both men and women:

Women:
maintain a stable job
do handy jobs around the house
discipline the children
protects them against harm

Men:
bare children
cook meals
clean house
maintain her appearances
listen
do not express excessive opinions
provide sex on demand
wash and iron clothes
be a hostess when guests come over
have a job
not ask for excessive material things
maintain perky bosoms and nyansh

thank you for this list

i will make sure i show this to my wife when i get home

now she will know what to expect from me

OP.
nONE OF THE ABOVE ,But Punny