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I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jul 24, 2020
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Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by lograr(m): 12:43pm On Jul 24, 2020
Avoid this

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Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by chatinent: 12:45pm On Jul 24, 2020
Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by Juliusmomoh: 12:46pm On Jul 24, 2020
U don't know what u are saying .... I was once in ur shoe .. Instead of u to be in ur room praying, u are on NL asking pipu to wish u well ... .. U never know satan... ... When u start again DM
Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by kestolove95(m): 12:52pm On Jul 24, 2020
Masturbation is not bad for boys op, if u stay long without sex, u might fall sick or easily get angry and even depressed unless u want to start fvcking olosho ND doing dat might give u sickness, so bring back ur masturbation and burn calories, feel happy ND stay safe from STDs.
Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by etrange: 12:59pm On Jul 24, 2020
Juliusmomoh:
U don't know what u are saying .... I was once in ur shoe .. Instead of u to be in ur room praying, u are on NL asking pipu to wish u well ... .. U never know satan... ... When u start again DM

Let's not get overly religious over things that require practical steps. That he's on NL doesn't mean he's not praying, they are not mutually exclusive. Some people perform better when they feel accountable. This is a proven strategy used by therapists. By sharing this here, he somehow gets himself to be accountable to anyone following his thread and the thought of reporting progress here and possibly getting encouraged would serve as a reward (somewhat countering the pleasure reward offered by masturbation). The action-reward cycle that leads to addiction is exactly what is employed to get rid of it.

OP, good luck and better don't come back here with "sorry guys, I failed" cause I'll personally kick your as.s!

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Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by Juliusmomoh: 12:59pm On Jul 24, 2020
kestolove95:
Masturbation is not bad for boys op, if u stay long without sex, u might fall sick or easily get angry and even depressed unless u want to start fvcking olosho ND doing dat might give u sickness, so bring back ur masturbation and burn calories, feel happy ND stay safe from STDs.
Where u carry ur own advice from .... Can u tell me 5 benefit of mastubation ?
Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by Juliusmomoh: 1:04pm On Jul 24, 2020
etrange:


Let's not get overly religious over things that require practical steps. That he's on NL doesn't mean he's not praying, they are not mutually exclusive. Some people perform better when they feel accountable. This is a proven strategy used by therapists. By sharing this here, he somehow gets himself to be accountable to anyone following his thread and the thought of reporting progress here and possibly getting encouraged would serve as a reward (somewhat countering the pleasure reward offered by masturbation). The action-reward cycle that leads to addiction is exactly what is employed to get rid of it.

OP, good luck and better don't come back here with "sorry guys, I failed" cause I'll personally kick your as.s!
"I will personally kick your as.s!".... Nairaland is full of comedian .. And one is spoted grin grin
Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by BrightestFuture: 1:43pm On Jul 24, 2020
Well, i started a year ago and i want to stop it. I still did it 2day but i will never again.
Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by IgiveLadiesBj(m): 1:58pm On Jul 24, 2020
BrightestFuture:
Well, i started a year ago and i want to stop it. I still did it 2day but i will never again.

Hate to be bearer of bad news but you'll still do it again

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Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by illicit(m): 2:43pm On Jul 24, 2020
Unstoppable shi....
Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by GreatAchiever1: 3:13pm On Jul 24, 2020
BrightestFuture:
Well, i started a year ago and i want to stop it. I still did it 2day but i will never again.
Maybe coz u are always idle, or there something triggering that sensation in u, maybe d web, social media or perhaps some movies/book...

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Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by kestolove95(m): 3:28pm On Jul 24, 2020
Juliusmomoh:

Where u carry ur own advice from .... Can u tell me 5 benefit of mastubation ?
I HV mention dat oready if u read d comment I made
Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by Juliusmomoh: 4:30pm On Jul 24, 2020
kestolove95:
I HV mention dat oready if u read d comment I made
U amaze me
Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by kizwid(m): 4:37pm On Jul 24, 2020
well, it a good thing you want to stop it. but then, i must tell you it take a lot if willing action. you can go 6 months without masturbate, that doesn't mean the urge has done.. first you need to understand what make you do the act, it is when you are stressed, it is when you see sexual related thing, is it when you watch film/porn or when you are happy/sad?.. then stay far away from anything that will trigger the act..

Also, dont always carrying a thought that you want to stop masturbating, ordinarily, you will think you been mindful, but in real sense of mind. you are reminding you yourself of the act. mind don't abide by the rule "Do" or "Don't", all it understand is the act itself. so if you said "I dont want to masturbate again", the only thing/word your mind understand there is masturbate, because that's what is familiar with. so instead of putting on your on things you don't want to do, let it be on the things you want to do. (in this case, your hubby, friends and all that)

And the last things.

you can not be successful in act of stopping masturbating without finding a subtitude for it. in fact forget the epistle of do that, don't do this. when you have an alternative for act of masturbation, you are 90% cured already. most people may say, you should start working out, and anything they may say. But the direct alternative to masturbation you can think of is sex. because brother, you've known the feeling already and nature can not be cheat. when the tank in full, you will want to do something about it. and addictive of masturbate is far greater than to that of sex. so you can start by, depending on how frequently you masturbate before, that if i go certainly weeks without masturbating i will compensate myself with a sex to relieve myself of the urge of doing it in future.
Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jul 24, 2020
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Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by Lordfranklin(m): 5:04pm On Jul 24, 2020
kestolove95:
Masturbation is not bad for boys op, if u stay long without sex, u might fall sick or easily get angry and even depressed unless u want to start fvcking olosho ND doing dat might give u sickness, so bring back ur masturbation and burn calories, feel happy ND stay safe from STDs.
I wonder why I haven't died from lack of sex or depression. Lack of sex does not kill or cause one to fall sick
Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by kizwid(m): 8:13pm On Jul 24, 2020
UnchainedAddict:
you are still chained in this prison , you become fully unchained when you have achieved sexual purity in thoughts and in action ,with how you are going before you know it you'll be under the bondage of a new addiction while trying to quit one ,it's almost like reducing the urge to watch TV by now using your phone , start following the Masturbators anonymous thread now
enjoy your thread bro, am not among the folks the need to follow.
i do sex when my body request for it and am not a Casanova
Re: I Started Masturbating 2 Years Ago And Now I'm Going To Stop by TheSoothSayer(m): 8:17pm On Jul 24, 2020
kestolove95:
Masturbation is not bad for boys op, if u stay long without sex, u might fall sick or easily get angry and even depressed unless u want to start fvcking olosho ND doing dat might give u sickness, so bring back ur masturbation and burn calories, feel happy ND stay safe from STDs.

Everything you've posted here is a lie from the pit of hell.

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