gj:

There is this girl I loved so much, but something happened!

What?

I lately found out that all the while she had been telling me she was in school, she had never gotten admission into any higher institution. This lie lingered for about 6years, though initially, I was not going out with her. Then after I started going out with her, she still kept the sturf away from me. She was supposed to graduate last 2years, but didn't. When I asked how she was preparing for her NYSC she smartly told me that she would not be going for NYSC because she hates such. She claimed it is waste of time.
Then lately, she opened up when I confronted her and accused her of hiding her academic status from me, and that this would bring a barrier between us. She opened up and told me that she never entered school; all that while, she had been looking for admission into University. As I'm talking to you now, she is still looking for Admission.
As for the lie, she pleaded for forgiveness .
The two things are:
1. She kept the truth from me for over 6years.
2. She is yet to get Admission at the age of about 27years.

Do I forgive and still continue with her, or forget about her? I feel cold each time I remember her!

busygirl:

@op How would you date someone for 6 years without visiting her uni? If you can discern well enough, you should have known that she was telling a lie.

gj:

I do visit her in the University. The funny thing is that she went to the extent of renting a house off-campus and was collecting money from her parents. The parents new about it same last two years. Everybody visits her in the school but nobody ever new she has never been admitted into the school. Nobody ever thought of following her to the classroom, nobody ever suspected her. It looked all genuine. She is just a professional lair.

D-sense:

Nigerian girls are so mean

D-sense:

OP.
Just get over her . . .And let it go.

Nigerian girls are so mean

gj:

I do visit her in the University. The funny thing is that she went to the extent of renting a house off-campus and was collecting money from her parents. The parents new about it same last two years. Everybody visits her in the school but nobody ever new she has never been admitted into the school. Nobody ever thought of following her to the classroom, nobody ever suspected her. It looked all genuine. She is just a professional lair.

deniyor:

Relationships based on falsehood are never successful.
Her crime isn't she is uneducated. It is in lying about it.

Basildon1:

Better stop acting slow and get your act right. Gals that hang around schools but are not in the school only do that for one reason if my memory serves me right - She's a RUNZ gal!