Nairaland- This quote was taking from an article that I recently read--- The thoughts are not my own , but those of Steve Harvey--- What is your opinion on is it true talk or rubbish?

A Woman's Love is, GREAT, A Mans love compared to a woman's is Unrealistic-


"Nothing on this planet can compare with a woman’s love—it is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. Pure. If you are her man, she will walk on water and through a mountain for you, too, no matter how you’ve acted out, no matter what crazy thing you’ve done, no matter the time or demand. If you are her man, she will talk to you until there just aren’t any more words left to say, encourage you when you’re at rock bottom and think there just isn’t any way out, hold you in her arms when you’re sick, and laugh with you when you’re up. And if you’re her man and that woman loves you—I mean really loves you?—she will shine you up when you’re dusty, encourage you when you’re down, defend you even when she’s not so sure you were right, and hang on your every word, even when you’re not saying anything worth listening to. And no matter what you do, no matter how many times her friends say you’re no good, no matter how many times you slam the door on the relationship, she will give you her very best and then some, and keep right on trying to win over your heart, even when you act like everything she’s done to convince you she’s The One just isn’t good enough.
That’s a woman’s love—it stands the test of time, logic, and all circumstance. Well, I’m here to tell you that expecting that kind of love— that perfection—from a man is unrealistic. That’s right, I said it—it’s not gonna happen, no way, no how. Because a man’s love isn’t like a woman’s love."

OP.
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MzD@rkSkin:

It's realistic and fact. Thank you for reminding me, poster. I need to cop this genius's book ASAP. 

D-sense:

OP.
Blahh Blahhh Blahh Blhaa . . .  . . . . .

Right back at ya!! lol

How's Mr Jide?

D-sense:

How's Mr Jide?

I am not sure who you are talking about on my end but How is Ms/Mrs D- Sense? uhmmmmmm,

Please post the rest of the article because this half view is not going to get a balanced review.

You just posted this quote to make nigerian ladies on here to feel so fly about themselves, nigerian's women affection is for you to have huge amount of stash full in a "ghana must go" bag thats when they can love you this way, they don't even wanna whether u look like chimpazee jnr brudda but as long as you got this dough, u are the green light.

I belief this quote is from a white folk, abeg stop using whites mentality to compare an african/nigerian mentality, they are incompatible.

wow wow wow wow
this is sooooo TRUE.
@OP,thanks for sharing this.

huh!

Tosinville:

You just posted this quote to make nigerian ladies on here to feel so fly about themselves, nigerian's women affection is for you to have huge amount of stash full in a "ghana must go" bag thats when they can love you this way, they don't even wanna whether u look like chimpazee jnr brudda but as long as you got this dough, u are the green light.

I belief this quote is from a white folk, abeg stop using whites mentality to compare an african/nigerian mentality, they are incompatible.

May be you'll attract real and true women if you stop believing this. Flash/Loud men attract shallow/materialistic women

Naijababe,

I don't like someone born and raised abroad claiming to be nigerian without no nigerian experience just because your dad told ya that he's from nigeria.

If you truly lives in nigeria then you'll get what i'm talking about, madam.

Lord_Reed:

Please post the rest of the article because this half view is not going to get a balanced review.

I am sorry - this is actually an excerpt from a book written by Steve Harvey, "Act Like a Lady Think Like A man" The rest is way too long to add.

Tosinville:

You just posted this quote to make nigerian ladies on here to feel so fly about themselves, nigerian's women affection is for you to have huge amount of stash full in a "ghana must go" bag thats when they can love you this way, they don't even wanna whether u look like chimpazee jnr brudda but as long as you got this dough, u are the green light.

I belief this quote is from a white folk, abeg stop using whites mentality to compare an african/nigerian mentality, they are incompatible.

Tosinville I posted this article to start a discussion not stroke egos, that is not the type of business I am in, Very simple ,

The quote is from Steve Harvey----------- Please read well, This quote is from "Steve Harvey"


Thanks!

Tosinville:

Naijababe,

I don't like someone born and raised abroad claiming to be nigerian without no nigerian experience just because your dad told ya that he's from nigeria.

If you truly lives in nigeria then you'll get what i'm talking about, madam.

Sorry, I think I missed a beat, what does that have to do with the article? Does that make her get your point better if she was born , bred and lives in Nigeria? NOT-----Last I checked this love thing was universal my man!

Ladyjide,

I know the way how strong love is with the white folks thats not how it is with some other race.

Tosinville:

Ladyjide,

I know the way how strong love is with the white folks thats not how it is with some other race.

Sorry on this one I completely disagree, Love is strong with "white folks", ? and it is what with all other races-- especially AFRICANS?

but Tosin this was written by STEVE HARVEY ( HE IS NOT WHITE)

Steve harvey? i don't really know that author but i'll definately go for some research asap maybe on wiki lol. Well if he isn't white, he might be talking from experience with the white folks.

A Woman's Love is,   GREAT, A Mans love compared to a woman's is Unrealistic-

Fa fa fa fowl foul!

^^Abi, it depend o! so i don't really care about what steve harvey in that book

Wrote in dat book i meant

Tosinville:

Steve harvey? i don't really know that author but i'll definately go for some research asap maybe on wiki lol. Well if he isn't white, he might be talking from experience with the white folks.

Ha Ha!! Now really, 

koolchicco:

Fa fa fa fowl foul!

True or untrue?

Tosinville:

^^Abi, it depend o! so i don't really care about what steve harvey in that book

Not meant for you to care? It is meant as a matter of opinion either he is talking real, or talking trash,  and this is coming from a book written by a " MAN" but I guess we know your vote already!

lol

Sincerely, i know the greatest love of all comes from women but it depends.

Tosinville:

Sincerely, i know the greatest love of all comes from women but it depends.

You missed adding 'WESTERN' before the bolded word.


@LadyJide

Soooooo untrue!

^^Thats the reasons why i said it depends. Nigeria recession can't make anyone to love the way it suppose to be unlike those ones in the western thats the reason why i said they shouldn't use western love life mentality to compare 9ja own o! cos e dey RED to their head here lmao!

Is this a kinda poem or article! Cnt even gerrit, Bt since it something about women,Na lie, pardon me

Yh
very true
*if she loves him*
grtest s an understatement

I would like to reply to this but it's so one sided. What makes men's love unrealistic? Anyway as far as what has been posted, it is an over generalisation and an ideal. No one I know is completely like that. Everyone has flaws, so for anyone to think he'll find 'perfect' love as described here is joking and in for a long unyielding search.

I like Steve Harvey but this excerpt is highly biased. Find time to post the rest. Women don't deceive yourselves, this is only an ideal.

I kind of agree with him. When a woman loves, she loves for real

Tosinville:

Naijababe,

I don't like someone born and raised abroad claiming to be nigerian without no nigerian experience just because your dad told ya that he's from nigeria.

If you truly lives in nigeria then you'll get what i'm talking about, madam.

Mo gbe! She na me be born and raised abroad ? I was going to tell you a short real life story but I no get time now,will come back to you later

That’s a woman’s love—it stands the test of time, logic, and all circumstance. Well, I’m here to tell you that expecting that kind of love— that perfection—from a man is unrealistic. That’s right, I said it—it’s not gonna happen, no way, no how. Because a man’s love isn’t like a woman’s love."


I won't take it from the women that when some of them Love they can be intense about it but to state that a man's Love is unrealistic is absolute bunkum. When some men do Love they throw themselves completely into it and give it 100%.

Naijaababe,

hahahaha! mo ti gbo e, its ok.

@OP

You are right. Our love is unrealistic. Happy Now?