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Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by MrTAnonymous(m): 1:26am On Oct 04, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1: You need deliverance for real. No be small deliverance sef, I mean the Celestial and Cherubim kinda deliverance. The person wey do you like this no try at all You think you can satisfy a woman's wants completely. I pray you don't regret marrying an unloyal bit**ch that will be busy kpanshing different men up and down since those ones can provide her with what she wants. Na then your eyes go clear Incase you don't know na me talk |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by Nobody: 1:39am On Oct 04, 2020 |
MrTAnonymous: it is a pity but you lack comprehension |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by MrTAnonymous(m): 1:51am On Oct 04, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1:You are the one with comprehension issues. You need to work on resolving it before it gets to late. Your arguments are always off point, makes me wonder if you are human Incase you don't know na me talk |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by Nobody: 1:53am On Oct 04, 2020 |
MrTAnonymous: arguement off point..interesting What i wrote and what the reply you gave which one is off point? And the most funniest stuff is that you have written comprehension issues like a million times without ever answering any of the questions i asked nor even giving any sane explanation to what was written |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by MrTAnonymous(m): 1:56am On Oct 04, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1: You need to calm down, relax, go back to page one and start reading all your comments to see if you made sense. Incase you don't know na me talk
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Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by Nobody: 2:01am On Oct 04, 2020 |
MrTAnonymous: you actually didnt make any sense. You see things in black and white rather seeing the big picture I understand that critical and anylytical thinking is a deficiency among many nigerians so i am not suprised with your level of thinking |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by MrTAnonymous(m): 2:06am On Oct 04, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1: You think you made sense Sha don't come back here on Nairaland to create a thread on "all women are the same" Goodnight. Incase you don't know na me talk 2 Likes |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by tunjilana: 8:54am On Oct 04, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1: If she was what she is truly meant to be, an empowered and selfless woman, she wont need her parent in order to fill the gap at this time especially over something not so capital intensive as rent and food...except of course she was just sitting there idle all this years the man was toiling Such parent doesn't even deserve any respect for breeding a woman who cant fill in the gap for her husband on her own without having to recourse to them. My perspective is clear...a parent(wealthy or not) should raise an independent daughter capable of adding value and supporting her family in times of downtime....not run to them when her support becomes necessary...that is a failure on their part And the part that a man will not have a downtime or should not have to rely on his spouse in times like this is toxic masculinity When divorce comes in and they wanna halve your sweat, they won't say she should not have those things despite the fact she was clearly not financially involved.... You need to start seeing things the 2020 way...be capable on your own as a man and also not entertain laziness, selfishness and entitlement from a woman. 1 Like |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by MrTAnonymous(m): 9:31am On Oct 04, 2020 |
tunjilana: Thank you so much for this piece, God bless you. I got tired of arguing with him, He thinks we are probably still living in the Stone age or something. Happy Sunday. Incase you don't know na me talk |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by Nobody: 9:41am On Oct 04, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1: Hmmmm true, but let's remember times are not easy anymore. I never depend on a woman's money but I'd like to know my wife can be supportive. If not why would you have a partner that cannot help. Asking loan from her parents is a no-no sha |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by Nobody: 9:56am On Oct 04, 2020 |
pcguru1: I know times are not easy but the guy trying to play victim and portraying the woman as a bad woman because she didnt collect money from her wealthy parent is bad. It seems he married her for her parent wealth. My issue is the attitude of the guy. He feels he must get what he wants by manipulation and playing victim. Support is given by mutual respect and understanding not by deceit. Imagine she had no wealthy parent and no money in her account what would he have done? |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by Nobody: 10:03am On Oct 04, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1: Yeah i cannot imagine myself asking my parents of loan, talkless of my wife's parent. |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by tunjilana: 10:27am On Oct 04, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1: Let me drop this here....you need to ask why she isn't in a position to help out on her own. Going to her parents is a no-no but why is she not empowered enough to support an obviously hardworking man when he had a downtime Coming from wealth doesn't remove entilement and dependency mindset from some women. In fact it emboldens it...cos she knows that all she needs to do when there is a downtime is run to her parents(temporarily or permanently)... You maybe shocked that a hardworking woman from a poor background will be more valuable to this man than her She may even start misinterpreting every reasonable demand from the man for her to be productive as an encroachment into the so called wealth Men need to learn how to measure a woman's real value...And it has nothing to do with her background....but who she is individually |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by Nobody: 11:53am On Oct 04, 2020 |
tunjilana: If that man can complain and nag like that i don't believe he is a hardworking man. The man acted like he is entitled to her money because they are married that is just weak. Must being supportive only be about money, there are many ways a woman can support a man. Btw, what he did by going through her account is wrong and i believe it is not the first time he is doing that. Dont you think a woman will support you if you are atleast trying, the guy is busy complaining about his minus in his account and how to she is from a wealthy home, instead of thinking about ways to improve his finances. I guess he sees her as a meal ticket. |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by tunjilana: 6:31am On Oct 05, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1: I do not know where ur deductions came from, but he isnt asking her to support him in buying a ferrari or going on some expensive vacation or embarking on some crazy worthless venture....We are talking of a man who is seeking help to feed and house the family whom she is also a part of. A man who is incapacitated because of a job loss, meaning he has bn doing dis b4 the disaster...And u see nothing wrong in such a woman holding back her resources at such a time? I dont knw if u are serious with all u say or just kidding but don't let your testosterone and adrenaline make you become a prey to a selfish woman. Many men dont understand the ills of being with a selfish woman until life happens(ill health, job loss, dwindled business fortune e.t.c.) and these are things that can happen to anyone. Her parents resource has no biz bn mentioned if she had a supportive mindset and worked/planned towards a day like this on her own prior the man's downtime Someone has advised u earlier, a woman who believes her resources should never be called in during your 40-50-60 years marital duration doesnt have the right mindset for such a long journey and should not be dragged along....let her be and find an adult who understands the basics of life and loves you enough to not want you to suffer or kick you when down 2 Likes |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by iInjureHerYansh: 8:05am On Oct 05, 2020 |
southniyikaye:Man you're a man |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by iInjureHerYansh: 8:07am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Zzor:Stupid Nonsense point..any guy should buy this crap at their own peril. The few likes she got are from her counterparts.. How about Treat a nigerian woman right and she'll think it's her pussy that's making you treat her so right?. You be trying so hard to come up reasonably but the more you do the less smarter you appear 1 Like |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by Nobody: 8:11am On Oct 05, 2020 |
iInjureHerYansh:You think I'm here to impress you or anyone? eat shit |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by iInjureHerYansh: 8:13am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Zzor:Gulp cum from an Alpha male like you always do 1 Like |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by proclinician: 8:20am On Oct 05, 2020 |
southniyikaye: Nawaoo e be things way de happen |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by Nobody: 8:21am On Oct 05, 2020 |
iInjureHerYansh:I can see what you always have in your brain.mtcheww |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by proclinician: 8:29am On Oct 05, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1: This is a happenstance that surfaced during the period of the pandemic do you remember. I want to add more to this but I don't know if you're male of female. This info will help me get the right words for you but either ways, what you said here is absolutely senseless. 1 Like |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by iInjureHerYansh: 8:30am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Zzor:What you got in your brain and throat? If not cum 1 Like |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by Nobody: 8:54am On Oct 05, 2020 |
iInjureHerYansh:please I don't want to fight today,be guided.God bless you |
Re: Man Is Broke, His Wife Has Money But She Is Not Willing To Help, Advice Him by MrTAnonymous(m): 9:34am On Oct 05, 2020 |
tunjilana: Stop trying to convince him, I tried till I got tired. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, so he is entitled to his. My prayers for him is that he doesn't end up with a selfish and self centered woman. Incase you don't know na me talk |
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