Pls if u started dating someone, n you really luv/like the person and believe d two of you cud have a bright future 2geda, n this person tells u abt his/her elder sister/brother who has taken care of him/her since dere mom died, n is like a mother to him/her. Ur bf/bg tell u wonderful stories abt dis sister/brother, ONLY for u to meet her/him (d sister/brother) n den bad memories of wen u were in Junior skool flood back, u remember wen u were punished for no just cause, when u were sent on errands like a slave, when ur head was hit against a metal bunk, wen u were flogged, when ur provisions were taken n never returned n those days wen u felt like u were in a horror movie, COS SHE/HE WAS UR CHIEF TORMENTOR  .

you feel very uncomfortable around her/him, n she/he is nt even acting in a way dat shows he/she is sorry for the past, n as if u really need her/his consent to date ur partner. pls wat wud u do, leave d guy/girl  or wat ?

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don knw

shit happenz!

i'd see it as my yesterday.

U're dating the girl and not her family member ---- so avoid the family member.

it is nt always easy to see TERRORIST who almost made ur life unbearable and say past is past (even after u have forgiven dem), especially when dey are nt acting sorry @ all, n then acting like they have control ova ur relationship (still sort of bullish-may because dey still see u as a junior)

There is nothing Luv can't do, there is no sin luv can't forgive, there shouldn't be any obstruction in ur relationship.