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Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by BABE3: 7:58am On Mar 10, 2011 |
eyaa, if u are for real, pele,, i feel for una, pray to GOD FOR GUIDANCE!, he will surely answer, |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by foreman: 3:35pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
@Poster Your KINI may not be that small you never know. I was almost in your shoes bro. This kind of thing happens to too-serious brothers most of the time. I got to know my wife was cheating after we got married. This has changed my lifestyle forever. I met a former girlfriend who was divorced and started having sex with her. I was lucky she told me I wasn't doing her good and taught me some basic things about having sex. Things have never been the same for me since. I started taking beer which I never did before (this one boost confidence trust me) paraga, alomo, Now I bleep everything in skirt my wife, ashewos (if I am on official assignments and I feel like), former girlfriends, NYSC girls at the office, a neighbor's housewife etc Never knew sex was that sweet. Even my wife now calls me "pariolodo". In fact she does some crazy things I keep wondering how much I dulled myself in the past. The truth is that most likely you wife will not mention your shortcomings to you so u need a neutral "bodi" to practice that kin "bodi" with no strings attached. If you fail the first time try again (you may be jittery at first it is normal)this is not cheating, you are trying to help ur marriage, these are things you should have done before getting married bro. Your wife may be cheating already there is no woman that is frigid. if she ain't feeling you, she ain't going to give ordinary water talkless of earthquakes. |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by MrsChima(f): 3:36pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
OP, Did you get the whipped cream and cherries? |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by foreman: 3:38pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
Do you guys have a kid? If not, please consider yourself NOT MARRIED! |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by SAGoddess: 3:39pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima: He said he wasn't the one with a problem, says he posted link. . . . . .but he writes in first person (he almost yanked my head off on another thread) |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by MrsChima(f): 3:45pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
Oh. Okay. I was just helping. My sex life is BOOMSHACKALACKA! |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by SAGoddess: 3:48pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
SO, for the record, OP does not have a small penis, lasts longer than 5 mins and his woman is not frigid |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by Semira22(f): 5:44pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
@SA Goddess - yeah, you right, the topic wasn't for the op, he posted from a link. But Mrs. Chima's post could come in handy to anyone who has the same problem. |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by tyson55(m): 5:56pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
You made me laugh out loud for reall. |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by Onchedu(m): 7:17pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
Dude, sexual inexperience isn't what is ''killing'' your marriage. That probably is just one evidence of deeper problems one of which is malnurished intimacy. I'm not talking bout sex. How well do U & your wife communicate? Did U build on the other necessary forms of intimacy that should preceed sexual intimacy? Are U friends? Do U share any interests in common? What things do U enjoy doing together? Good sex that leaves either or both parties feeling deeply satisfied even after the show is over doesn't just happen. It starts with a process & leads to a series of processes that come about naturally if each preceeding one is properly carried out. your small pen.is isn't the problem & your wife's frigidity can be turned around if U both want to develop healthy & satisfying intimate relations sensually & sexually. your p.e.n.is is small? Compared to what? Small for who? Who told U it is small or if it is small it automatically becomes useless? Are U a Joystick or do U have a Joystick? Is your ability to satisfy your wife sexually limited to your pe.nis? your wife is like a beautiful flower & U are like night & day. U need to set the mood for her petals to open up when it's day & when it's night it's ok for her to keep them open or closed. Trust me if U both play your cards right U have better chances of enjoying a great sexual history for the rest of your life than most other couples do. The beauty of sex sometimes lies more in the explorations & discoveries with that lover who is willing to go with U & is on the same naieve level with U. Don't use por.n o. Let her be your por.n & be her por.n when U get to that level. For now, U have got to learn to talk to your wife bout little things & with time & developing comfort levels U can learn to toast her, then learn to turn her on till she wants U bad. U have to learn to control your libido also, keeping your desires steps behind hers & that requires a lot of temperance, self control & maturity. It myt take a while depending on how both of U go about it but having a blissful sexual relationship built on more than just sexual desire is possible. Good luck |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by Onchedu(m): 7:32pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
Yeah Semira is right, marriage was not made for sex. Sex was made for marriage. Now for the girls that think size matters more than skill, are U imagining that every woman has the same size of va.ginal cavity? Just cos Ur's can contain the titanic doesn't mean there aren't women that can take no more than a canoe. |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by White007(m): 12:32pm On Mar 13, 2011 |
Is there anything like sexual inexperience? So why not teach her? But the problem could be you, becourse you last only 5mins. |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by vaLasce(m): 4:39pm On Mar 13, 2011 |
yes! sex means a whole lot,and marriage's a whole lot'bout sex.Poster,worryless'bout d size'f ur penis,except u experience premature ejaculation,u can use dat small size'f urs2ur own amazement,and2d highest sexual satisfaction ur wife can eva imagine.1stly u nid2discover ur wife's hot spots,it requires u guys2indulge in alot'f pre-intimacy.Also try several sex positions.dnt b afraid2sexually experiment,ur sexual fulfilment cld just b lying smwer near u.All d best! |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by Yemmyc(f): 5:37pm On Mar 13, 2011 |
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Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by kaymoney2(m): 10:04pm On Mar 13, 2011 |
vaLasce: @ Valasce you sounded like OKO OLOYUN world wide with these your advice |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by koolchicco: 11:09pm On Mar 13, 2011 |
kay-money:Whats that? |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by galatico(m): 12:54am On Mar 14, 2011 |
That's the reason I would never marry a virgin . |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by koolchicco: 1:02am On Mar 14, 2011 |
galatico:Cosigned! |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by MrsChima(f): 1:05am On Mar 14, 2011 |
LMAO@Chicco not marrying a virgin! |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by kaymoney2(m): 1:06am On Mar 14, 2011 |
koolchicco: But she is still a Virgin how you go come do am naw |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by koolchicco: 1:07am On Mar 14, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima:Whats funny? FYI I like 'em wider wider! *looks around to check who's watching* |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by koolchicco: 1:08am On Mar 14, 2011 |
kay-money:Who? Og? U sure? |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by MrsChima(f): 1:09am On Mar 14, 2011 |
koolchicco:You like them ten men in a canal kinda toto? You are so nassy! |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by Nobody: 1:11am On Mar 14, 2011 |
If your thing is small and your wife is frigid then im not sure what the problem is. An unfrigid woman would probably not be able to cope with what you mentioned in your original post. |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by kaymoney2(m): 1:11am On Mar 14, 2011 |
koolchicco: You are a the baddest human being av ever seen bros you wicked pass winch Yes I sure |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by koolchicco: 1:14am On Mar 14, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima:Yea that's how I like 'em cos I'm on the 'high side' too. |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by koolchicco: 1:16am On Mar 14, 2011 |
kay-money:PMSL @'Wicked pass winch' Kay abeg I need that passcode. The babes is simply irresistible. *Looks around again* |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by MrsChima(f): 1:27am On Mar 14, 2011 |
koolchicco: Chicco, I better not find out that you got extra, extra, extra small condoms in your back pockets! |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by koolchicco: 1:38am On Mar 14, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima:Nahhhh! I got em 'rain coats' instead. |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by kaymoney2(m): 1:39am On Mar 14, 2011 |
koolchicco: Chico you get facebook acatee aka account passcode no 1 |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by koolchicco: 1:48am On Mar 14, 2011 |
kay-money: Yea man! |
Re: Sexual Inexperience Is Killing My Marriage. by kaymoney2(m): 2:01am On Mar 14, 2011 |
kay-money: Go add her there enough opportunities abound you there |
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