obowunmi:

Even if she was your wife nothing cosign am with your account balance.

Shy-One:

i have problem spending money

i spend too much and have very little control

he saves EVERYTHING - and doesn't spend much at all

we are like night and day

we have agreed that he will control the finances because we will be broke if I am in charge

my fear is that when i want to spend and shop - how do I get him to release money so I can splurge every now and then?

REALITY101:

He don't even have a job. . . Maybe he's working for NL

yes im working for NL:: are u happier now

190:

Well shy-one

I did give her the money but i never told her i had stacked all the cash elsewhere

she was wondering how so much money reduced just over 3days of she demanding for a shoe

Well i really think yourself and your man should split your cash into both separate accounts

and you can well be in control of one account and that would limit how much you spend since you spend feverishly

my ex was someone like you, she Gulped money with her 2 hands and 2 legs but i was stronger than her

I knew i had more than enough money else where but looked concerned each time she was considering getting something new

she controlled her spendings cos she knew the official account we both shared was low on cash, at the end of the day I WON AND TAMED HER!!!

Shy-One:

thank you - thank you - thank you

i am soo out of control in spending - it is my dirty little secret

now that i am in a relationship - he has discovered what i have tried to hide

we are planning a great life together and it is sooo essential that i get my spending under control - i marvel, completely marvel at his level of control and restraint - i have never witnessed in my life someone who is as restrained and deliberate as he

both of our names will be on the new account but he will be the ONLY signer (THIS IS per my request - because i fear i will spend through it until i can get better control of my spending)

THE ACCOUNTS we don't share will have the low balances.

190 thank you for your thought process - it helps me with my planning(s)

these threads - many of them at NL is very helpful on millions of different levels

Your welcome

But please slack on the spending ooh

You might wanna start saving something for the future kids you know

It aint too late 2 start planning now

190:

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