Martinez39s:
Ah! Finally! I knew it! Your true self!

JONNYSPUTE and Godoverevery come and see.

ReluctantAdult:

I haven't seen where the man only, is blamed for a girl's pregnancy. What I know is the woman is always the one shamed, ridiculed and scolded. So I don't know where this victim mentality you guys are talking about comes from.

Like I said, I'm not here to fight gender wars.

Martinez39s:
Ah! Finally! I knew it! Your true self!

JONNYSPUTE and Godoverevery come and see.

Godoverevery:
Am sure he/she isn't a Nigerian...... ln this country that some guys where even locked up becos there gf got pregnant.

Godoverevery:

Are you kidding ...... like are you a Nigerian cos u are not.

Some parents even go as far as arresting there daughter bf when pregnancy shows up.....which gender are you??

Martinez39s:
That moniker is probably a female or a self-hating simp. I think it's probably a female given the subtle manipulation the moniker was stringing.

ReluctantAdult:

Arresting the man usually happens in cases where the man is far older than the woman and doesn't want to share the responsibilities.

Godoverevery:

oooo so you see nothing wrong in that right.....I hope you are intoxicated or high.... so the didn't know the man is much older before legs.....I just know the meaning of your moniker.

Martinez39s:
Ah! Finally! I knew it! Your true self!

JONNYSPUTE and Godoverevery come and see.

Martinez39s:
In essence you are saying women can't be held accountable since they can be lost in the pleasure and the man has the take charge? Na only women dey lost inside pleasure?

Beside, this topic is about women unfairly and absurdly absolving themselves of any accountable when it comes to pregnancy by blaming men and playing the victim. I no understand wetin you dey yan.

Fountainofyouth:


[s]You lack understanding, as a man, during sex, the man is in control,(which i dont condone anyway) you the one thrusting in and out, therefore you control the sex, if a man doesnt want pregnancy or be blamed, he should master the act of withdrawal or using condom, it's very simple.[/s]


[s]And how the hell can a woman absolve herself from a pregnancy when she's the one carrying it for 9 months? Something that everyone can see[/s]

Fountainofyouth:
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You lack understanding, as a man, during sex, the man is in control,(which i dont condone anyway) you the one thrusting in and out, therefore you control the sex, if a man doesnt want pregnancy or be blamed, he should master the act of withdrawal or using condom, it's very simple.


And how the hell can a woman absolve herself from a pregnancy when she's the one carrying it for 9 months? Something that everyone can see

Godoverevery:

how about a lady knowing her cycle well.... knowing when is safe and not safe to have sex or use birth control pills like sensible ladies in other countries do Dumbo.....team is always the man fault

Fountainofyouth:
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You lack understanding, as a man, during sex, the man is in control,(which i dont condone anyway) you the one thrusting in and out, therefore you control the sex, if a man doesnt want pregnancy or be blamed, he should master the act of withdrawal or using condom, it's very simple.


And how the hell can a woman absolve herself from a pregnancy when she's the one carrying it for 9 months? Something that everyone can see

ReluctantAdult:
Well, while you can't blame one person for two people's action, you have to know that most women get lost in the pleasure during sex. You have to be sharp and alert so as to control the situation.

I mean I can't count how many times I've heard the following
'Don't use a condom please'
'Release inside me baby'

But as an alert guyman you have to stay woke and not let the pleasure cloud your thinking

Fountainofyouth:



How about a man not releasing inside her regardless of her safe period or pills or whatever, isn't that rather safe than sorry dumbo?

The man will blame the woman, the woman will blame the man, no one will blame themselves cos it makes them feel better, that is humans for you, get that into your brain.

nwaezeemmanuel:
When sex is consented, both parties are usually responsible for the outcome.

This is why i preach protected sex for both men and women, people need to embrace it more.

Regex:


I hate to be the bearer of bad news (proven fact) withdrawal methods during sexual intercourse is not safe.

Godoverevery:

and you are still plain stupid to the fact some Ladies will force you to release inside them.... just try and use your brain most men will be glad to not release inside.

ReluctantAdult:


Safe how? Pregnancy safe or std safe?

Std safe, yeah sure, not safe. The reason sexual partners should get tested for every std monthly, or use a condom always.

Pregnancy safe? Well, if you're on top of your game, you can always get away with it. I mean coupled with postcoital contraceptives like levonogestrel you'd get a 100% assurance you're safe

ReluctantAdult:


Safe how? Pregnancy safe or std safe?

Std safe, yeah sure, not safe. The reason sexual partners should get tested for every std monthly, or use a condom always.

Pregnancy safe? Well, if you're on top of your game, you can always get away with it. I mean coupled with postcoital contraceptives like levonogestrel you'd get a 100% assurance you're safe

Regex:


Do you know what is called pre-ejaculation? Well, it's enough to get her pregnant. So no matter how on top of ya game you think you are, you'd still get her pregnant if you don't use protection or she isn't on pills.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Withdrawal method isn't safe either way. That's because many guys will screw it up - the chance for failure is quite high.

I don't advise anyone to make it a habit, some men have become fathers because of withdrawal method.

blinking001:
Girl... baby I'm pregnant
Me.... go finance your life with it.
Girl.....meaning? Baby why are you sounding like this? we both enjoyed the act together.
Me...... I played my path and expected you to play yours
Girl...... what's the meaning of this?
Me...... It is what it is.
Girl....... so what are you saying? Am I keeping the pregnancy or what?
Me........blocks her on WhatsApp, facebook, Instagram etc


Two weeks later after unlocking her
Me.....Hello baby, its been long I heard from you. Hope all is well? I've missed you so dearly

Girl.......God will punish you and your entire generation
Me........I'm sorry baby
Girl........ leave me alone.

Me......And hold who?
Girl.......I don't know. Your father or anybody

Me.......I wont have you throw tantrums on my father. Dont ever try that rubbish again in your whole entire life

Girl...... I'm sorry. I was just angry you left me when I needed you most
Me...... smiling already inside me... the deed has been done

Girl......So what do you want from me?
Me.......I want you. I'm really sorry for the blackout. Was terribly mad at you for not playing your path. You getting pregnant wasnt part of our plan, the news got me destabilized and i had to take sometime to heal. You broke the trust I had for you.
Girl....... okay. Just leave me alone
Me.......And hold who na
Me.......how did it go?
Girl........its non of your business.
Me........alright.
Two days later
Me......baby how are you? I've missed you so dearly
Girl.......you miss yourself.
Me.......you're still mad at me? I've already apologised to you for the role i played in getting you angry. There is nothing I can do again. Take care of yourself bye.

Girl....hmmmmm. it's okay, I'm sorry for the way I acted. You know I love you and will always do.
Me......I know
Me......so when are you coming over.....

Girl......tomorrow evening.
Me......alright.
And the party continues.

Fountainofyouth:



Only an everlasting stupid and dumb person will say what you just said, stop disgracing your gender pls,

Or better yet, school me on how ladies force men to release inside them, I want to learn

ReluctantAdult:


Well, it is not advisable. But if you've mastered the art(yes, it's an art ) you can't get a foot wrong.
Postcoital contraceptives are your backup guys just to make sure you sleep sound at night

Godoverevery:

so if a lady is riding me and am about cumming but she refuses to get up what will the guy do..... forcefully push her away??....that just one instant....the rest u can figure out with ur dead brain.

Fountainofyouth:



I like the fact that you are portraying males as the weaker sex, go on