Luckyheart:
Why don't you seek God's face personally?

Op take this advice.

2buffagain:


Village mindset.
What does village proximity have to do with your marriage after you 2 wed and start your life?

It's either you have comprehension problems or you just want to show your foolish on social media.

LEBEfirstson:
Greetings Nairalanders.

I'm from Anambra and was dating this esan girl. She is hardworking, religious and homely.

At this point, I decided to take things to another level and needed to seek or make consultation about my future with her in marriage but lo and behold, I got a shocking answer.

A prophet told me that it won't just work for both of us. He said that its fine if I want to go ahead and marry her but if I want to listen to what God is saying, that I should not go ahead.

I then had to send my brother to consult traditionally, The traditional man said that my ancestors doesn't approve this very girl as she will bring division in the family when she enters and will be spoiling things for me.

Before then, I had gone to see a particular pastor, before I say Jack Robinson, this pastor ask me to be careful of a girl by my side,. That this girl is spoiling things for me but I don't always understand what they mean because I don't see what this girl is spoiling for me.

I really really love her very much. She is not perfect and I'm not perfect too but she is kinda girl I want to Marry.

I'm just confused.

Heed the words of wisdom.. If u like go marry cos of beauty or tight toto

What about those that pastors told to go ahead, yet they are having problems.
Does it mean they didn’t hear well.

If you have peace of mind with this girl, why won’t you wife her

Lol

LEBEfirstson:
... Yes

Well, fear uromi oh

LEBEfirstson:
Greetings Nairalanders.

I'm from Anambra and was dating this esan girl. She is hardworking, religious and homely.

At this point, I decided to take things to another level and needed to seek or make consultation about my future with her in marriage but lo and behold, I got a shocking answer.

A prophet told me that it won't just work for both of us. He said that its fine if I want to go ahead and marry her but if I want to listen to what God is saying, that I should not go ahead.

I then had to send my brother to consult traditionally, The traditional man said that my ancestors doesn't approve this very girl as she will bring division in the family when she enters and will be spoiling things for me.

Before then, I had gone to see a particular pastor, before I say Jack Robinson, this pastor ask me to be careful of a girl by my side,. That this girl is spoiling things for me but I don't always understand what they mean because I don't see what this girl is spoiling for me.

I really really love her very much. She is not perfect and I'm not perfect too but she is kinda girl I want to Marry.

I'm just confused.

If ur epistle is real.

What will you say in future if the marriage collapses?

You will tag all women are bad

Marriages are scams

Nobody can be like your mother.

Contrary to my opinion that women are major cause of marriages failure, I think I will be shifting more blame on men now.

Marry a good women you say no!

Very important to be entangled with someone who won't cause you bad luck.

I pity d poor girl

LEBEfirstson:
Greetings Nairalanders.

I'm from Anambra and was dating this esan girl. She is hardworking, religious and homely.

At this point, I decided to take things to another level and needed to seek or make consultation about my future with her in marriage but lo and behold, I got a shocking answer.

A prophet told me that it won't just work for both of us. He said that its fine if I want to go ahead and marry her but if I want to listen to what God is saying, that I should not go ahead.

I then had to send my brother to consult traditionally, The traditional man said that my ancestors doesn't approve this very girl as she will bring division in the family when she enters and will be spoiling things for me.

Before then, I had gone to see a particular pastor, before I say Jack Robinson, this pastor ask me to be careful of a girl by my side,. That this girl is spoiling things for me but I don't always understand what they mean because I don't see what this girl is spoiling for me.

I really really love her very much. She is not perfect and I'm not perfect too but she is kinda girl I want to Marry.

I'm just confused.

I swear,very bad

kazyhm:
You're not good for the girl either......very fetish blockhead.

Unclekayfarms:
Why is it that Igbo don't inter marry?

Says who? I am an Igbo man and my wife is from Esan. My brothers are married to Igala and Hausa ladies.

LadySarah:
plz leave her fast fast for a better person. you don't deserve her. coconut heads.

You mess without consultation but when it's time to wife her, you start running around.

Even your pastor is having problem in his marriage but he won't tell you.

that bolded got me ROTFL


where in Abia are you from?

Unclekayfarms:
Why is it that Igbo don't inter marry?

Says who? I am an Igbo man and my wife is from Esan. My 2 brothers are married to Igala and Hausa ladies.

Aileexa1:
Why did you na put Esan in the title like it was the tribe that had an issue?

are you from Edo state beside I've seen what I'm looking for in your profile

annford:



Says who? I am an Igbo man and my wife is from Esan. My brothers are married to Igala and Hausa ladies.

A lot of Igbos don't marry fellow Igbos. Many Igbo women prefer marrying Yoruba men.

I was born at esan but didn't grow up there, esans are often referred to as the ibos of edo, very very knowledgeable in business and they are good too. This tin of false prophets consultations is so old school idk why op still allow some scammers to be misleading him. Study ur woman physically and mentally if she's good and you like the character she exhibits then what trying to find what's not missing. My brother no time, settle down and start your family, good days ahead

Aileexa1:
Why did you na put Esan in the title like it was the tribe that had an issue?

Them get issue before now..do u know I was frustrated for dating Esan girl?

Abudu2000:
I was born at esan but didn't grow up there, esans are often referred to as the ibos of edo, very very knowledgeable in business and they are good too. This tin of false prophets consultations is so old school idk why op still allow some scammers to be misleading him. Study ur woman physically and mentally if she's good and you like the character she exhibits then what trying to find what's not missing. My brother no time, settle down and start your family, good days ahead

The op must have seen some hypocritical characters before going to two prophets. Ladies they pretends during dating and it gives guys serious concern.

Unclekayfarms:

The op must have seen some hypocritical characters before going to two prophets. Ladies they pretends during dating and it gives guys serious concern.

see eh we men are the cause of whatever we get in a relationship. There is always and will alwbe a red flag when dating a bad girl, you just choose to ignore hoping that she changes or a miracle happens then when things finally goes south we start saying all girls are the same. If your woman is bad there's no hiding u will definitely know. I have had ladies i dated for a year and some for a week and some even for just one day. Believe me i can tell a good lady from one who's pretending I don't need someone to tell me that.

Craig24:


It's a culture.

We dislike distant marriages.

My both parents are from

One Town: UMUOJI;
One LGA: IDEMILI NORTH
One State: Anambra.

Good thing is I can visit my maternal home, spend hours there n still return to my paternal home at night in a hour on foot or 20 minute by transport.

I so love the setting and have been praying to God to give me a wife from my community.

Unclekayfarms:
Why is it that Igbo don't inter marry?

They prefer to Marry their own RETIRED ASHAWO S*stars, who will still do runs after She's married. Come to Oweri, Married Women compete with Single Ladies in Ashawo/runs work. They openly call it "HUSLE". It's a known facts here.

Unclekayfarms:

Them get issue before now..do u know I was frustrated for dating Esan girl?

.. How do you mean please?

annford:



Says who? I am an Igbo man and my wife is from Esan. My 2 brothers are married to Igala and Hausa ladies.

.. Seriously?

kazyhm:
You're not good for the girl either......very fetish blockhead.

Hahahahha. My problem, I have never seen someone who went to those pastors or traditionalist and the said pastor or prophet told them that they themselves are the problem.

It's always the person you are reporting that is the problem.

That girl should be happy she is leaving this man

annford:



Says who? I am an Igbo man and my wife is from Esan. My 2 brothers are married to Igala and Hausa ladies.

.. Is it also true that when an esan lady that married to another tribe dies, she must be buried in her father's house and not the husband house

:Why is it that Igbo don't inter marry?Says who? I am an Igbo man and my wife is from Esan. My brothers are married to Igala and Hausa ladies.

Aileexa1:
Why did you na put Esan in the title like it was the tribe that had an issue?

.
Are u esan?

zang:


Well, fear uromi oh

Which State is this?

kazyhm:
You're not good for the girl either......very fetish blockhead.

indeed he has allowed local and foreign scammers to decide his life for him

Uniquekriss:
I so love the setting and have been praying to God to give me a wife from my community.

Talk to your CHI. Marrying from within your clan or state has it's rewarding merits.

Your children will be grateful to you!

LEBEfirstson:
Greetings Nairalanders.

I'm from Anambra and was dating this esan girl. She is hardworking, religious and homely.

At this point, I decided to take things to another level and needed to seek or make consultation about my future with her in marriage but lo and behold, I got a shocking answer.

A [s]prophet[/s] told me that it won't just work for both of us. He said that its fine if I want to go ahead and marry her but if I want to listen to what God is saying, that I should not go ahead.

I then had to send my brother to consult traditionally, The traditional man said that my ancestors doesn't approve this very girl as she will bring division in the family when she enters and will be spoiling things for me.

Before then, I had gone to see a particular pastor, before I say Jack Robinson, this pastor ask me to be careful of a girl by my side,. That this girl is spoiling things for me but I don't always understand what they mean because I don't see what this girl is spoiling for me.

I really really love her very much. She is not perfect and I'm not perfect too but she is kinda girl I want to Marry.

I'm just confused.

Immediately I saw the bolded I stopped reading. They've not born a stupid pastor or prophet that will tell me my choice of a wife will not work. Only very weak men go to these gas lighters for counsel.

Wait ooo this OP SEF
How did nairaland approve ur existence here
You love a girl and you want to marry her as your wife then you started consulting oracle's and take prophets
Listen there's nothing like real prophets , they have their own problems , if they don't say it's your girlfriend, they'll say it's your step mom

Guy ever since you've been dating your woman , what negative effect has it done to your life ?
If there's any maybe u can start from there by telling us

I married my woman when I was as broke as an almajiri
God paved a way for me and I live in one of the most expensive estate in Lagos today (dolphin)
Many prophets even stop me on the way telling me she's this and that , but bro I followed my instincts and followed my heart

Or the same prophet no they nack people wives ?
In fact you don't deserve the lady in question , you're diabolic in nature

Lights up my kpoli in peace