Zeal0000007:
Pals I'm really fade up on my woman, next year supposed to be our marriage introduction, we've been together for 5years now. I engaged her last 3month ego. over two years now I've been struggling so hard to have sex with her she barely allowed me touch her. she gives allot of excuses during sex, she almost like write down the number of times we have sex in a week. should we have time table for sex?

I can't have access to her body when I want to, and we're staying together, I'm not a wood. It's always one excuse or the other just to avoid sex, she's really frustrating me, and this is someone I want to get married to in months, and I don't want to Cheat on her either because I love her and want the best for us. we're having issues like this now that we are not married what about when we are married. l'm thinking of quitting. she's 22 while I'm 29, she love sex before ,even more than I do, l'm just surprised at this development for the past 2year now, why is it different now, women do all they can to keep their men to themselves, why is mine pushing me away, from my observation there's no one or anything distracting her, she just being wicked to me and stubborn, pals I don't know if there's another option, I wanted to quit or give her a competition by bringing in another woman if that will make her sit up, I'm just fade up.

MJBOLT:

you guys are not even married and she's using sex to frustrate and manipulate you it's better you quit that rubbish relationship instead of cheating.

RisenPhoenix1:
She's trying to establish an early line of authority in your relationship. Maybe you plead with her for sex and she has understood that she can use it to control you. Don't give in to such behaviour. You're the man, you control the home; including how much sex goes on. Next time she refuses you, tell her you want some space and move out. When the time to come back is ripe, inform her that you will only marry her if she is open to a possible polygamous arrangement in future. If she refuses the condition, find another woman to marry. They are all over the place.

Good luck.

Zeal0000007:
baba please thanks for the advise, the gal don really frustrate me my life, weda she thinks I can't go out there to get someone else.

Jodha:
Why are yhu guys having sex when y'all are not married yet..

Zeal0000007:
Pals I'm really fade up on my woman, next year supposed to be our marriage introduction, we've been together for 5years now. I engaged her last 3month ego. over two years now I've been struggling so hard to have sex with her she barely allowed me touch her. she gives allot of excuses during sex, she almost like write down the number of times we have sex in a week. should we have time table for sex?

I can't have access to her body when I want to, and we're staying together, I'm not a wood. It's always one excuse or the other just to avoid sex, she's really frustrating me, and this is someone I want to get married to in months, and I don't want to Cheat on her either because I love her and want the best for us. we're having issues like this now that we are not married what about when we are married. l'm thinking of quitting. she's 22 while I'm 29, she love sex before ,even more than I do, l'm just surprised at this development for the past 2year now, why is it different now, women do all they can to keep their men to themselves, why is mine pushing me away, from my observation there's no one or anything distracting her, she just being wicked to me and stubborn, pals I don't know if there's another option, I wanted to quit or give her a competition by bringing in another woman if that will make her sit up, I'm just fade up.

vickyfrancis1:
What most people don't understand is that Intimacy is an intricate part of a successful relationship/marriage... Don't let any over zealous religious person tell you otherwise...if you are not sexually compatible, talk to her and if she maintains her stance, then call it off. because issues like this when unattended will become a very big problem later.

No be later now u start to Dy cheat unnecessarily and she go wan treat ur f**up.

hashtagged:
If you can't have sex with the sex tool you are about to marry anytime you want, that sex tool is broken, dispose of it and get a more functional one, they are very cheap these days

CastingCrowns:

smh... I pray no one refers to your mother and sister in this abominable terms you just used above