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Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by Lacrissa: 6:22am On Apr 05, 2011 |
Ok I met this guy on facebook through mutual friends and we began sending casual messages like family, school etc, then we exchanged skype info and we began talking. I appeared a lil shy but he laughed it off and when we hung up, he sent a good night message with a smiling smiley. Then we spoke another day on skype and this was much longer and a lil detailed. we talked about our tribes, cooking, which he jokingly said, if he comes down my area, he would eat my food. We teased, he even said i should stand up so he could see me, then i jokingly told i was shy, After we finished, we both said good night and even to hang up, I was fidgeting which made him smile/laugh. My question for you guys is being a guy, what would or could you be thinking. Me acting all shy, showing eagerness to talk to you in a way, is it wrong? Should I act differently? Or there's nothing absolutely wrong? Please would love your opinions, |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by Lacrissa: 6:38am On Apr 05, 2011 |
Come on guys |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by Nobody: 6:40am On Apr 05, 2011 |
pending. . . *ready! Let me tell you Lala (do you mind if I call you that? ) Guys for the most part love shy women. I am a talker and a loud mouth once I get to know someone but upon meeting I am terribly shy! Only a few members on here know me and can vouch for that. The thing is men like shy girls because it gives a hint of innocence and is in a way, ironic as it sounds, inviting. It says "come, chase me" but don't OVER do the shyness no matter how uncomfortable you feel because it can be a sign of weakness and vulnerability and some men are not attracted to it and others will take advantage. It will wear off through time I am sure but you cannot make him see you sweat too much |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by MsPotato(f): 6:41am On Apr 05, 2011 |
Your story is the same Ive heard from hundreds of other girls when they are in an E relationship with a guy online. The guys all act the same like you guy and the girls all behave the same like you so I guess its normal. |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by jaybee3(m): 6:42am On Apr 05, 2011 |
In my world, you had be classified as a child that needs nurturing instead of dated. BTW, being shy is attractive but excessiveness can become irritating. |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by Nobody: 6:45am On Apr 05, 2011 |
^^SPOT ON! "can become irritating" i learned the hard way. |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by Lacrissa: 6:51am On Apr 05, 2011 |
jay bee: Why the sentence in bold? MzDarkSkin: Yeah feel free to call me that I wasn't excessively shy but somewhat, i think 'cos I like him. At the same time, I'm thinking I hope I'm not appearing that I like him like that too fast, It could be a turn off, so I think Ms. Potato: Alrite just don't want to appear desperate especially when we are just skyping. |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by MsPotato(f): 6:54am On Apr 05, 2011 |
Poster, just be yourself and dont try to be too good to be true for him cause eventually if you two are serious, he is bounfd to know your true colours. Whatever he doesnt like about you now, let him have that than at least you will know if he is the guy for u or not. |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by Lacrissa: 6:55am On Apr 05, 2011 |
Ms. Potato: Thanks Ms Potato |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by jaybee3(m): 6:55am On Apr 05, 2011 |
Lacrissa:Emphasis is on "In my world", and that was what happened when i experienced something like that. Stopped taking her seriously cos frankly how was she going to be able to overcome that shyness when we meet in person? (my thoughts at the time) |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by Lacrissa: 7:01am On Apr 05, 2011 |
jay bee: Noooo lol the type of shyness isn't the irritating one, Maybe you tell me stand, I say no, not yet, not now, but we still had our convo |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by Nobody: 7:03am On Apr 05, 2011 |
@Lala I understand you 100 percent. Do not be unsure of yourself sis, but if you find yourself having doubts then you should probably take it at a much slower pace. This might potentially blossom into something real so you want to be ready in all aspects: emotionally especially! Nothing wrong with being shy or having a crush but just be moderate and be wise. |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by Nobody: 7:12am On Apr 05, 2011 |
AMAZING! anyway, Lala take heed to my advice and have a blessed night. Stay sweet. |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by jaybee3(m): 7:41am On Apr 05, 2011 |
Lacrissa:Oh i ceeeeee but still though, why are you shy about hving to stand or what not? Do you know it can be termed wrongly, You should have just commented along the line off "I don't wanna be showing you my whole self just yet" instead of acting all shy. |
Re: Guys Need Your Thoughts On This Please Lots Of Opinions Welcomed by vaLasce(m): 2:06pm On Apr 05, 2011 |
shyless!, |
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