nyiamfrank:
A young lady needs advice as she lamented that her husband rarely Bleep her, not to talk of satisfying her. But that he always enter the toilet pretending to shit then come back and sleep. But that last night she spied on him and caught him doing soapy.

What does she do now?

Holinesss:
[s]After my first son was born, I found out I became the second husband while my son became the center of attention. Most times my wife will decline my sexual advances with I have the feed the baby, the baby will wake up, I tired etc

It affected my ego, I stopped asking or making sexual advances. I nearly lost urge for sex, as I blocked all sexual triggers. I didn’t masturbate or anything. I was just there. Though I was tempted to keep side chick. But thank God it didn’t happen. It took months before we could finally find a meeting ground for compromise. I help with some house chores so they can sleep so we can have more fun time.

Unless when a man has issue of long years of flapping if not, who would not want to enjoy his own wife. I can assume the wife has punctured her husband ego sexually so the man in his innocence and respect for his marital vows choose to flap instead of cheating.
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[s]When a man beg, plead and keeping asking for it soon he will adapt to the new normal and stop asking and many men will use it as an excuse to justify their cheating[/s].

ShackWes:
bro if she wan dey stress you abeg use your hand ojare

tnerro1:
The wife should check herself, if you are sexy(some women forget about being sexy after marriage) and your husband still does soapy , then ur husband is addicted or gay

CalliDora1:


Oh.. you think it's only the woman that has to look sexy and attractive? Do you know if it was the man who stopped being sexy and attractive thereby turning the woman off?

Men too should check themselves. If you're still that neat and attractive man your wife used to cat all over his body before or you have joined the papa group that stopped smelling nice and no longer looking well groomed but be looking like Samanja.

It takes two to tangle. Tkor.

musicproducer:
come i wan see u

CalliDora1:


Whia we dey go?

musicproducer:
wen we see we go know wer we go enter

CalliDora1:


Enter where?

Tkor .

musicproducer:
where we fit enter tor where for lag u dey(if u dey lag)

dawnomike:
Simple...Speak to him about it to understand his reasons. There is a fault somewhere. Maybe the wife had turbed down his advances in time past that hurt his ego.
So, to avoid any repeat of such... He decided to help himself.

CalliDora1:


If I may ask, what exactly do you want?

musicproducer:
wat do u need

nyiamfrank:
A young lady needs advice as she lamented that her husband rarely Bleep her, not to talk of satisfying her. But that he always enter the toilet pretending to shit then come back and sleep. But that last night she spied on him and caught him doing soapy.

What does she do now?

Easysolution:
Some people are addicted to masturbation, a chronic mastubator enjoy it more than sex

ShackWes:
bro if she wan dey stress you abeg use your hand ojare

Constantine10:
Masturbation is not the problem, Masturbating is normal for both men and women, you can't not have good sex if you don't masturbate. Maybe they don't love each or feel that specific connection anymore. They need to see a therapist

dawnomike:
Simple...Speak to him about it to understand his reasons. There is a fault somewhere. Maybe the wife had turbed down his advances in time past that hurt his ego.
So, to avoid any repeat of such... He decided to help himself.

CalliDora1:


Oh.. you think it's only the woman that has to look sexy and attractive? Do you know if it was the man who stopped being sexy and attractive thereby turning the woman off?

Men too should check themselves. If you're still that neat and attractive man your wife used to cat all over his body before or you have joined the papa group that stopped smelling nice and no longer looking well groomed but be looking like Samanja.

It takes two to tangle. Tkor.

CalliDora1:


Nothing from you.

ThatEnuguboi:

Masturbation is bad biko, from weak erection to premature ejaculation, that's why u all will maintain the masturbation bc u know u have losed the penile erection to bleep a woman properly