HopeVictor:
This greedy attitude from men is very childish and wicked..if you don't want a chubby woman you go for the slim ones..stop stressing and frustrating women after they've given birth..it's a natural thing that they will add weight..

Pimine:


Aswearugaaad

Does it have to be for health reasons?

One of the reasons he married her was cos he liked what he saw but now she's secured the ring so she feels she can start piling up the fat.

Tell that woman to work on herself, look good for her husband, and stop tryna make him feel guilty for wanting a sexy spouse.

AsherAmari:



Is it only the woman that should work out to look sexy? What of the man?

You men neglect your weak waistline after after having children without any efforts to firm it back up and then turn to the woman pointing out her flaws like you guys are 100% sexy.

Learn to love and accept your spouses after the changes occurr. No body is perfect.

HopeVictor:
This greedy attitude from men is very childish and wicked..if you don't want a chubby woman you go for the slim ones..stop stressing and frustrating women after they've given birth..it's a natural thing that they will add weight..

Zzor:
Also tell him to work on his pot belly and penis and that his penis has shrinked over time,tell him also that the pastor is still fit and his organ still very strong after five kids,just cause fight and after the fight he will learn to appreciate you.

Zzor:
Also tell him to work on his pot belly and penis and that his penis has shrinked over time,tell him also that the pastor is still fit and his organ still very strong after five kids,just cause fight and after the fight he will learn to appreciate you.

Pimine:

Aswearugaaad

She hasn't complained, but the man has. That should tell you that's there's a world of difference between how she looked then and now.

Why should a woman who has only 2 kids let herself slowly become horizontally challenged?

The changes are normal but they can be reduced to the barest minimum if she's not lazy. Let's not hide under the umbrella of 'nature' to mask our unwillingness to put in the work to look good.

Rhodaogunpeju:
Why are our Nigerian Men so insensitive.

I'm naturally a chubby lady with curves and I remember vividy how my husband used to praise my physique and say I'm his spec. According to him skinny girls are not his type.

We got married and I have given birth to two kids and I added weight a little, plus we were living comfortably so the good life was evident in my life and body.

The church we normally attend, the pastor's wife has 5 kids already and she's much older than me but she still looks moderate enough with little or zero stomach fat.

My husband seeing this woman has constantly been telling me to try and work on myself, this man literally wants me to be skinny, when we married I wasn't skinny, the blow was when he compared me to my Pastor's wife, saying I have just 2 kids and I added weight while our Pastor's wife has 5 and she's looking like she never gave birth.. I cried and I have been crying since..


It hurts so much .. It makes me wonder if this man still loves me?

HopeVictor:
This greedy attitude from men is very childish and wicked..if you don't want a chubby woman you go for the slim ones..stop stressing and frustrating women after they've given birth..it's a natural thing that they will add weight..

Zzor:
Also tell him to work on his pot belly and penis and that his penis has shrinked over time,tell him also that the pastor is still fit and his organ still very strong after five kids,just cause fight and after the fight he will learn to appreciate you.

lefulefu:
Op Its like u have added more weight and that could be the reason he is complaining. I know it's normal for women to add when married but then u won't die nau if u start doing a little exercise nau.apart from trimming down exercise wil also be good for ur health. He is ur husband so take anything he says seriously.

MufasaLion:
Most men don't like women that are not conscious of their body especially after marriage and child birth. And if the woman is not careful men tend to go elsewhere for what they want. Just work in yourself but don't be too hard on yourself.

But he shouldn't have made a comparison anyways.

Zzor:
Also tell him to work on his pot belly and penis and that his penis has shrinked over time,tell him also that the pastor is still fit and his organ still very strong after five kids,just cause fight and after the fight he will learn to appreciate you.

BRATISLAVA:


Are men conscious of their own bodies? Some are so unfit you wonder how when they don't give birth to children or have to cope raising a family. Some cannot even clean their heels. Very disgusting and lazy. But they will still be the ones to complain and comment on women bodies. If she comments on his own body, hell will freeze over.

Mummymahdi:



In some cases yes. Me am using my money to add a little weight but nothing
The tommy always went back attached to the back immediately after bearing. Each child

BRATISLAVA:


Today you want to stand on the side of truth

Feddytune:
Sorry men can be insensitive, but I think he loves you and only wants you to look hotter .. why not stop crying and set up a time table for exercises to keep fit

Zzor:
Also tell him to work on his pot belly and penis and that his penis has shrinked over time,tell him also that the pastor is still fit and his organ still very strong after five kids,just cause fight and after the fight he will learn to appreciate you.

Rhodaogunpeju:
Why are our Nigerian Men so insensitive.

I'm naturally a chubby lady with curves and I remember vividy how my husband used to praise my physique and say I'm his spec. According to him skinny girls are not his type.

We got married and I have given birth to two kids and I added weight a little, plus we were living comfortably so the good life was evident in my life and body.

The church we normally attend, the pastor's wife has 5 kids already and she's much older than me but she still looks moderate enough with little or zero stomach fat.

My husband seeing this woman has constantly been telling me to try and work on myself, this man literally wants me to be skinny, when we married I wasn't skinny, the blow was when he compared me to my Pastor's wife, saying I have just 2 kids and I added weight while our Pastor's wife has 5 and she's looking like she never gave birth.. I cried and I have been crying since..


It hurts so much .. It makes me wonder if this man still loves me?

adontcare:
abi o

Jeon:


I'm a man.
here is a similar story[ opposite of chubby]

can you imagine a man open his mouth to utter this statement to his wife[mother of his two kids ]" with the way you look like to collect cup drink water from you go dy irritate person".why did he made such comment? because she is slim.

Zzor:
Also tell him to work on his pot belly and penis and that his penis has shrinked over time,tell him also that the pastor is still fit and his organ still very strong after five kids,just cause fight and after the fight he will learn to appreciate you.

Zzor:
will you keep quiet, was the man trying to keep his home by disrespecting his wife like that? Are you one of the men I exchanged because I've lost count.rubbish

Rhodaogunpeju:
Why are our Nigerian Men so insensitive.

I'm naturally a chubby lady with curves and I remember vividy how my husband used to praise my physique and say I'm his spec. According to him skinny girls are not his type.

We got married and I have given birth to two kids and I added weight a little, plus we were living comfortably so the good life was evident in my life and body.

The church we normally attend, the pastor's wife has 5 kids already and she's much older than me but she still looks moderate enough with little or zero stomach fat.

My husband seeing this woman has constantly been telling me to try and work on myself, this man literally wants me to be skinny, when we married I wasn't skinny, the blow was when he compared me to my Pastor's wife, saying I have just 2 kids and I added weight while our Pastor's wife has 5 and she's looking like she never gave birth.. I cried and I have been crying since..


It hurts so much .. It makes me wonder if this man still loves me?

BRATISLAVA:


Don't be surprised the man is nothing to write home about himself. Most are unfit, and it's only testosterone that's saving them. It's just that women don't complain about men gaining weight and letting themselves go in marriage.

Men usually are in the position to complain about women bodies because their in bodies don't do much.

Rhodaogunpeju:
Why are our Nigerian Men so insensitive.

I'm naturally a chubby lady with curves and I remember vividy how my husband used to praise my physique and say I'm his spec. According to him skinny girls are not his type.

We got married and I have given birth to two kids and I added weight a little, plus we were living comfortably so the good life was evident in my life and body.

The church we normally attend, the pastor's wife has 5 kids already and she's much older than me but she still looks moderate enough with little or zero stomach fat.

My husband seeing this woman has constantly been telling me to try and work on myself, this man literally wants me to be skinny, when we married I wasn't skinny, the blow was when he compared me to my Pastor's wife, saying I have just 2 kids and I added weight while our Pastor's wife has 5 and she's looking like she never gave birth.. I cried and I have been crying since..


It hurts so much .. It makes me wonder if this man still loves me?

Offpoint1:
Lefulefu comma see chun chin o, you wey like dem big

HopeVictor:

You cannot say Nigerian men lack sense as a man.. so stop hiding under this moniker and reveal your true self..

franchasng:
Madam don't mind Nairalanders and their insensitive comments. Keep on crying jareh, who knows, your miracle maybe in the crying which will help you lose that excess fat faster. Increase your crying hours and thank me later



You are doing well ma