A brief one, so i met this girl on IG some weeks ago, up to a month now, we have been talking and cool, and we were suppose to meet sometime 2 weeks ago, but things have not been smooth with me, i am working but currently on leave at the moment, i made some investment that didn’t end well so i lost lots of money, currently running some contracts and the clients are yet to pay up, she even gave some money sometime ago, things are rough with me i am yet to pay back, i have become very sensitive to all her behaviors lately even when she tries to say it’s not about the money , yesterday i was supposed to pay her back but the debtor owing me failed n he is promising this evening, she told me she’s moving on, like not kinda interested anymore, i really like her personality, she meets my requirements, she really wanted us to meet for her to be convinced at least it’s real, she works in Lagos n i am based in Rivers, financially I can’t host her at the moment and i will be going back to work next week, a lot she’s worried about, the distance, the nature of my job,( having to be away for months) and all, i kept convincing her she can cope.. i really wanna win her attention again, she’s a nice person n the kind i have always wanted..

How do i get to make her understand the fact that i am just faced with financial situation i do not understand, i am well to do, i have a nice job n in just a month at work i will be fine, she wants to see me before i go back to work, but I don’t have the finance to do so n I can’t go to Lagos neither, she saying i will have to forget about her if i go back to work without seeing her..

What exactly do you want??

I want her back, but she’s tired already n moving cus we are yet to see

You are the only one benefiting from this relationship and you cannot seem to bear a little inconvenience.

Have you discussed your present situation as the reason for your reluctance to host her?

If yes, then apologize to her but if no, look for money pay her back and let her be.

Guy pay that girl her money back.o, this ur rambling is not making sense, you never pay ur debt you wan let go.. oshi

gasparpisciotta:
You are the only one benefiting from this relationship and you cannot seem to bear a little inconvenience.

Have you discussed your present situation as the reason for your reluctance to host her?

If yes, then apologize to her but if no, look for money pay her back and let her be.

i have and gone as far , she’s know how it’s going with, had to open up cus i felt that was gonna be helpful

hmm let's wait for our romancenairalanders to come and judge this matter. zzor, sapphire

omaclarry:
Guy pay that girl her money back.o, this ur rambling is not making sense, you never pay ur debt you wan let go.. oshi

hmmm.. i am doing so today, but that’s not the problem here..

Any girl that can't stay in time of difficulty might not be good for marriage...
Pay her back and see her actions....

The first person you can discuss your financial situation is your wife...
Probably she's seeing you as a burden or someone better than you at the moment....

Hope you ain't disturbing the girl too much for money cos it piss them off...
Thanks
Hope it helps

Uzomacharles:
Any girl that can't stay in time of difficulty might not be good for marriage...
Pay her back and see her actions....

The first person you can discuss your financial situation is your wife...
Probably she's seeing you as a burden or someone better than you at the moment....

Hope you ain't disturbing the girl too much for money cos it piss them off...
Thanks
Hope it helps

thank you, I ain’t disturbing, i have not asked for any.. i will do so today

Me I will believe ur fraud ooo..

Gave u money started avoiding me.sh can still come,..ur good decorated and expensive looking apartment can speak for u.......yes! U can warn her about ur current situation and sh will b prepared ,but No! U want to dodge her..ur not real...and maybe a fraud!

bigpicture001:
Me I will believe ur fraud ooo..

Gave u money started avoiding me.sh can still come,..ur good decorated and expensive looking apartment can speak for u.......yes! U can warn her about ur current situation and sh will b prepared ,but No! U want to dodge her..ur not real...and maybe a fraud!

but i am cus i just paid her the money, so i want to get her back