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Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by BABE3: 4:19pm On Apr 16, 2011 |
@OP, Yes, I think it's out of place. In fact, I don't think, I know! Baby daddies, Baby Mamas BS! If you want to remain single, that's find. (Paul the apostle in the Bible was single. Jesus didn't get married while on earth, so No P) But don't go around impregnating women and collecting the children. Simply adopt abeg. Some kids are out there looking for a home and love. So biko, adopt. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Nobody: 5:57pm On Apr 16, 2011 |
African_queen: BABE!: Just why not having a child (with her) might be better! |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by BABE3: 6:09pm On Apr 16, 2011 |
^^I should give you a reason why not having a child with her might be better? |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Apr 16, 2011 |
I am confused. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Nekai(f): 6:12pm On Apr 16, 2011 |
What kind of woman would choose to go through 9 months of pregnancy, childbirth, body changes, hormone changes, leaky bosoms, 4+ months of round the clock marathon feeding sessions and all that by herself? You can't even begin to share that 50-50, so a woman will agree to be your baby factory while you are free to live out those 1 1/2 to 2 years that a baby will take out of her life? And then, even if she agrees, what's to stop her from finding another guy that wants to take care of her in her time of need? Maybe you want another man raising your child. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by iice(f): 5:46am On Apr 17, 2011 |
Rare but so long as you guys stick to your agreement and do right by your stipulations. . .goodluck |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Wislet(f): 11:36am On Apr 17, 2011 |
@OP, yes. The Lord Jesus did not marry. But neither did He devise this devilish plan too! He never had any such contract wit any woman. If u know u don't want to marry (there's provision for that-but only for those that want to worship God exclusively! And not for work or ambition for goodness sakes) then do so. But don't BRING A CURSE UPON YOURSELF BY COMMITTING SIN WITH ANOTHER WOMAN (whether a child is involved or not). That idea is not from God. That people are doing it DOESN'T MEAN IT IS RIGHT. Get your priorities straight. . . In this day and age, the devil is devising different ideas to counter almost every good thing God has instituted. He puts such ideas in the minds of men & makes it look so attractive & easy. But what he will never tell you is that such ways have a deep, bottomless gully at their terminating points. Be warned. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by ThoniaSlim(f): 12:47pm On Apr 17, 2011 |
You perfectly normal. I've met a couple of peeps who aren't marriage inclined and I find nothing wrong with that! I'm of the opinion, whatever rocks your boat! At the end of the day its your life, so live it the way you want too. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Wislet(f): 2:02pm On Apr 17, 2011 |
ThoniaSlim:that life he's living is accountable to someone. It's not his, but God's. Remember. Let's not think through the back. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by ThoniaSlim(f): 2:05pm On Apr 17, 2011 |
Yes Preacher Chike! Lmao! Oh puhleaseee! What brought religion into this now? Like seriously! |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by MMM2(m): 2:16pm On Apr 17, 2011 |
dere is nothing wrong in it and is ur life as well. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Wislet(f): 7:06pm On Apr 17, 2011 |
ThoniaSlim:Marriage is an institution ordained by God, and sex is incorporated in it. Anything outside that is corrupted & working backwards. . . If he does not want to marry, then he should do without de woman perhaps & be alone. If not, best to DO IT RIGHT. Don't be fooled by so-called 'modernization' or 'liberal thinking' my friend. They are all intelligent foolishness. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Odunnu: 7:22pm On Apr 17, 2011 |
Like have a child and who takes care and in what kinda environment? We Africans have great regards for family and marriage so in Africa, say Nigeria, you would be considered abnormal |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Nobody: 9:46pm On Apr 17, 2011 |
Hello house, There are alot of people who feel the same way you feel (myself included). I really dont see the need for marriage again when I look at the married men around me and I see how miserable and unhappy they are. I have decided not to end up like that. I would probably want a kid, but getting married? . . . |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by slymm(f): 10:02pm On Apr 17, 2011 |
bla bla bla, and the religious fanatics are out blazing again. The man has decided to flee from the bondage known as marriage, let him be. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Nobody: 12:23am On Apr 18, 2011 |
Wislet: Wislet: Who are you? like really? u are not just a bot? u exist? |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by vaLasce(m): 2:04am On Apr 18, 2011 |
I think d best thing/gift God gave man is FREE WILL. So do as it pleases u poster, ur only ansarable2ur creator,dats if u belive u ve a creator. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Wislet(f): 8:16am On Apr 18, 2011 |
sauer:yes i do. 100%. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Nobody: 12:16am On Apr 19, 2011 |
Wislet:seriously?? |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by kayjasper(f): 1:45am On Apr 19, 2011 |
hmm interesting topic thoughthe most interesting of all this is between WISLET and SAUER who are you? You are just not a bot? i am real,100% seems like two opposing spirits(the devil talking to an angel) who didnt know the other existed before. A bit scary dont you think |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by chic2pimp(m): 2:17am On Apr 19, 2011 |
slymm:I'd rather refer to them as NUTCASES |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Nobody: 1:32am On Apr 20, 2011 |
chic2pimp:you have got to be the classic nutcase. What school did u attend again? Nutty High? Okay, wislet appears to me rather strange, really? Never heard anyone talk like that or express such opinions. 'Lord Jesus' really? oops! |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Nobody: 1:37am On Apr 20, 2011 |
J12: I understand your point. But I don't think it's wise all the same to 'flee' from marriage because of bad experiences others have. You should be able to do it your way. I flee rather from the humdrum, the living together, the routine life, the putting your wife first, the attending functions together. Really, the dependence that follows. Isn't it funny no one ever inquires about Oprah's sex life or engagements with men (don't like her as example, though)? This is how I mean it! |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Wislet(f): 7:26am On Apr 20, 2011 |
sauer:It took you dis long to say wat u're TRULY having de shivers for. Well my dear, am not a fanatic, i say it de way it is. And i dont blame those that see talking about God as strange, goes a long way to show who they TRULY ARE. . . Anyways, am happy u're not scared of marriage itself but the ROUTINE that follows. . Well, if u feel so strongly about it, u can discuss that with ur partner. Talk frankly with her about your jitters. If she agrees to give u some space, and make it less of a mundane experience for you, then okay. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Wislet(f): 7:36am On Apr 20, 2011 |
kay jasper:funny guy. slymm:Pls go somewhere & take ur schnapp. Guess u're a champion at that. chic2pimp:Am sorry but u just embarrassed yourself. Ur statement is yaba left personified. Are u regular there?, Just asking. sauer: sauer:De guy just made a spectacle of himself. @sauer, Yes, he is my Lord. Hope u got no problem with that. Better not, unless u're an atheist. Peace. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Apr 23, 2011 |
Wislet: and wislet is 'f'? oh lord, shiit! |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Nobody: 10:19pm On Apr 23, 2011 |
. . . |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by BABE3: 10:23pm On Apr 23, 2011 |
J12: ***Covering my mouth*** I'm sorry! RIP, to the deceased! |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by redsun(m): 10:27pm On Apr 23, 2011 |
Commitment is all about affordability and wants. |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Apr 23, 2011 |
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Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by BABE3: 10:32pm On Apr 23, 2011 |
Sorry ehn! Pele! ***Hugs J12 and consoles him*** Ndo! Hoped you've stopped crying, |
Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Nobody: 10:36pm On Apr 23, 2011 |
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