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Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by ngojoygurl(f): 12:56pm On Jul 09, 2007 |
Am in love with a man that is older than me with 12years and he wants to marry me, do i go ahead with the marriage? |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by ThoniaSlim(f): 2:02pm On Jul 09, 2007 |
you have not told us how old you are. but 12years, hhmmmmmm. not so old if your a bit matured and you think he's the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by viee(f): 2:09pm On Jul 09, 2007 |
i can, at 22, my bf was 33 we were able to commnunicate quite well. u said u love him, thats the key factor. good luck. 1 Like |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by ngojoygurl(f): 1:07pm On Jul 16, 2007 |
sorry i didn't tell u how old i am, am 25 and he is 40. is actually 15yaers that he gave me and not 12 pls. |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by Amiga(f): 1:30pm On Jul 16, 2007 |
If you guys are in love with each other that's what matters |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by Bolarge(m): 1:33pm On Jul 16, 2007 |
@Topic Nope. But I can marry a chick that's 12yrs younger than me. |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by zignor(m): 1:39pm On Jul 16, 2007 |
@post this babe self.!!you are not serious. when he was givig you money, you accepted and you didn't know that he is older than you. |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by ngojoygurl(f): 3:21pm On Jul 16, 2007 |
We were friends and that was how it all started, i was not actually collecting his money cos i did not put my hand in his pocket, i only accepted the once he offered me! But pls 40 and 25 is it okay by u! 1 Like |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by Eiregirl(f): 3:49pm On Jul 16, 2007 |
If you are comfortable with that age gap & you can communicate with each other & love & respect each other, then there's nothing wrong there. As long as he makes you happy don't worry about what anyone else thinks. I don't think age matters in a relationship two people connect. If you want to spend the rest of your life loving this guy go for it & I wish you two a long & happy life together |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by zignor(m): 3:53pm On Jul 16, 2007 |
ngojoygurl: infact, I will not tell you yes or no cos I did not know when you started didn't you see his status before? you only like his money huh? spoil child |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by mishoo(m): 4:20pm On Jul 16, 2007 |
if u still find him lovable and attractive pls go ahead. happened to one of my uncles in his 40th year and the Lady is 25 yrs old from his childhood church. after 8 yrs, they are still enjoying their marriage. POray very well, then proceed. Cheers. |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by ngojoygurl(f): 4:26pm On Jul 16, 2007 |
ZIGNOR :what are you? spoilt old man, am sure you must have destroyed alot of young girls life, thats the only reason you could condemn someone coming out life to seek advice. this is a forum where one could be counselled not insulted.love is something you cant control.the guy is a mature guy and he is focused.wat is there if she feels a sense of security with him.The bible says in the multitude of counsel, there is safety, it is either you agree or disagree, dont insult her because she is a good person This is : Her friend and collegue(name withheld) |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by Mandora(f): 10:59am On Jul 17, 2007 |
I can have never been involved with any guy less than 8 years older than I wat counts is not his age or urs bt d fact dat u guys do well 2geda |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by ngojoygurl(f): 11:07am On Jul 17, 2007 |
Mandora, Hey girl friend, are u saying i should go ahead and marry him? |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by kilasos(f): 11:09am On Jul 17, 2007 |
what does ur family think about it? if they support u,then thats fine,if they dont it might be a big problem.they might think he is trying to influence ur decisions, one of my mentor`s husband is 16 years older than her,even at 40,she still speaks about him with so much love and affecton.i pray that for you.take care Marry him if you feel the conviction in ur heart. |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by zignor(m): 11:17am On Jul 17, 2007 |
@ngojoygurl. . . . . . stop crying you are a confused person. I didn't know that you are a church goer a gold digger,you can't eat your cake and have it stop running around , the bible says that your sin will find you out . this is the tip of iceberg l ol |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by baby1402(f): 11:24am On Jul 17, 2007 |
the most important thing is that do u love the guy? Is there chemistry between u? and can u tolerate his bad habbits as well as he yours? u r the most important person when it comes to making up ur mind about the guy, because, no matter what anyone says to u regarding this in the end it is u who is going to live with him. So dont let anyone make up ur mind for u. Ask urself what made u to fall in love with the guy, if it is worth it go ahead and do it, and so long as he is a nice and good enough man for u not for any other lady. "What is one man's food may be another man's poison", wish u all the best both ways, that is if u do decide to go ahead with or decline his proposal. But make up ur mind fast, cos he wont hang around for too long, there are many fishes in the river waiting to be fished out, and u may lose him b4 u know it. |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by hamabra(m): 4:18pm On Jul 17, 2007 |
love is dynamic, if u sure u luv him and he does why not,but 4 me age difference should be within an acceptable range. |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by ngojoygurl(f): 4:36pm On Jul 17, 2007 |
Zignor, U are a fool and an idot for calling me a gold digger, and what makes u thinks that what i posted is ture? animal that doesn't know to talk to human beings. See u zombi that is calling me names, go and tell yr sisters that, FOOL!! |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by ngojoygurl(f): 4:49pm On Jul 17, 2007 |
Zignor, What makes u think that what i posted is true, animal that doesn't know how to talk to human beings and who told u that the man is rich? you re so lousy and jobless, very negative human being.infact you have mental touch, you need a phychiatrist, big foooooooooooooooooooooooooooool!!!!!! 100 times, |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by BASETSANA(f): 4:58pm On Jul 17, 2007 |
why not?its not as if l will be marrying his age l will be marrying him whats important is that l love him for as long as we have the same interests l dont see why age should be a barrier,actually in our culture there is a belief that you should get married to an older man so you can have a good life so its all a matter of choice |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by MILITIA(f): 5:03pm On Jul 17, 2007 |
Yes if I am above 30! Then we will both be old cargos---by Nigerian definition! If I am 35 and above as an unmarried female---- ---------- Please any man will do, even if his is 90 years older, before express train reach China, leave me behind! |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by zignor(m): 8:22am On Jul 18, 2007 |
ngojoygurl: . . . , . . , What makes u think that what i posted is true ? . . . . . . , .who told u that the man is rich ? A Confused person. . . . , . . . . LMAO |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by ngojoygurl(f): 9:56am On Jul 18, 2007 |
Zignor, Must you talk here? you and yr contributions are not needed here pls, busy body!!! |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by zignor(m): 1:56pm On Jul 18, 2007 |
ngojoygurl: Dear, take it easy now . , . , . . , . . you will not get a husband with this your atitude for your info . . . , . , I just want to pull your leg to see your character Anyway, you can marry him cos age doesn't matter. . . . . . . . .happy now |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by Macgreat(m): 4:50pm On Jul 18, 2007 |
Am not a girl so i wouldnt know |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by trendy(f): 5:19pm On Jul 18, 2007 |
go ahead and get married if u love him nothing do u! but if he were younger i would say Never!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by ngojoygurl(f): 10:27am On Jul 19, 2007 |
Zignor, I want to know u better! hope u don't mind? |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by zignor(m): 12:45pm On Jul 19, 2007 |
ngojoygurl: Dear, yes I wouldn't mind. infact, I would be glad to know you too. Anyway, I'm a Nigerian , 30yrs, fair in complexion, 6f. tall, single and working. if you need more about me, pls do ask |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by ngojoygurl(f): 3:53pm On Jul 19, 2007 |
Zignor, My email and yahoo chatting ID is ngojoygurl, if u are online now hook on let's chat. |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by zignor(m): 3:59pm On Jul 19, 2007 |
ok dear, see you |
Re: Can U Marry A Man That Is 12yrs Older Than U? by ngojoygurl(f): 4:02pm On Jul 19, 2007 |
Where exactly are u in Nigeria? am in Abuja. |
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