Ok,

I'm single, although not searching, reason: I have not met the real one. I guess when I see, I will know.

Non committed would be more appropriate for me and it's by choice!

y?

at first i thought i was too young and now am waiting for my bobo to come bac for me

wellllllllll?

for me one has to be careeful becos once u enter the MARRIAGE EXPLORER there is no BACK button. Only the forward buttom and all the unplesant WEBPAGE u have loaded remains with u. So guys and gals i choose to choose carefully.

@TOPIC

I guess I'm single now. satisfied now
I find it frustrating most Men I meet always want a party

To all you Guys out there, If you're freaky. just buzz off

@Crazyp

Wonder why you're still single, Why not get in touch me and perhaps i could give you some tips in finding the right guy,

jassavy2k@hotmail.com

I AM STILL NOT READY YET.
MOREOVER,IT'S SO HARD TO MEET THE RIGHT GIRL.

I was told marriage is not easy when I wanted to walk into it, and I got frightened, even more frightened when a lady tied a hectare on her waist ready to rough handle her husband. I am now contemplating either to go back to seminary school and become a priest or struggle and make money to be able to face marriage heat. So, i'm afraid.

Caradona:

@TOPIC

I guess I'm single now. satisfied now 
I find it frustrating most Men I meet always want a party 

To all you Guys out there, If you're freaky. just buzz off

LOL, i don die with laff for here, , sweetheart, i don't assume you have the words party etched on your forehead. Wetin u dey do wey dey make MOST GUYS ask u for party?

lol

@Caradona
Know why most guys want Tresome wit you?Cos you've got a pix of a porn star on your profile( Angel Eyes)

@topic
1. Loves doing things MY WAY, and relish my independence

2. Hates to share.

3. Detest people in my space

4.Still cannot find someone like my dad,

5. Enjoys being sought after, sss

Islander:

4.Still cannot find someone like my dad,

am i missing something? Your dad!!!!!!!! anyway let me reserve my comment.

fromuk:

am i missing something? Your dad!!!!!!!! anyway let me reserve my comment.

YES reserve your comment, for you may bite off a little bit more than you can chew.

My dad (RIP) was an epitome of what a Man should be. He was the damn best. My mother was treated like the Queen that she is, and he took care of his responsibilities as a man. Therefore, I deserve the same treatment as my mom, thus my aim in finding a mate like my dad,

Islander:


My dad (RIP) was an epitome of what a Man should be. He was the damn best. My mother was treated like the Queen that she is, and he took care of his responsibilities as a man. Therefore, I deserve the same treatment as my mom, thus my aim in finding a mate like my dad,

good for you! that's fantastic, at least those who had bastards for fathers know what you are talking about. good on you is what i say . Mine was a pig so don't really matter


@fromuk
you don't get it, she means someone as good as her father, a girls life apparently is shaped by the relationship she had or has with her father, after all he is the first man she got to know. got it?

Thank you my dear KulaShaker,
I find it rather disturbing to say the least that "BLACK PEOPLE" find it difficult to comprehend how important a father-daughter relationship is. Now before the Nairaland sharks come attacking me, let me reiterate that I am BLACK.  I used the term, not to in any way insult anyone, but to rather tackle a problem that has been plauging us for centuries.

A few years ago while conducting research information for a project in college, I came across some rather disturbing findings.  It was proven that women who grew up with without the affection of a male (father, step-father) end up most of the time settling for any baboon that comes her way preaching the false gospel of "love"

As you plainly stated my dear, my dad and brothers, albeit of their many flaws, treated us, the ladies in my family, with ultimate respect, showered us with Love, thus we are equipped with the necessary essentials in choosing befitting mates.


PS. Kula sorry to hear about your dad. The truth is there are sperm donors and there are fathers. Every man is capable of being a daddy, but not every daddy is a father.

yeah gotcha!

not met mr right and not through with school,

@ Islander
I rili feel u on dat 1, it's d same way any guy dat has a responsible mother would always look for her qualities in a potential wife (at least that what my dad said was 1 of the reasons he chose my mom), but nowadays its lyk all those virtuous qualities are missin in our women these days

agbola:

@ Islander
I rili feel u on that 1, it's d same way any guy that has a responsible mother would always look for her qualities in a potential wife (at least that what my dad said was 1 of the reasons he chose my mom), but nowadays its like all those virtuous qualities are missin in our women these days

Now that a real man has finally spoken I feel justified in my reasoning. And you are so right. It's high time that both men and women realise that having sound relationships with their children will enable them to grow into great parents,

@fromuk
you don't get it, she means someone as good as her father, a girls life apparently is shaped by the relationship
she had or has with her father, after all he is the first man she got to know. got it? Smiley

Just wondering. . . so what shapes a boy's life, the relationship he has with the mother or the father or are boys
on their own?

Iyke-D:

Just wondering. . . so what shapes a boy's life, the relationship he has with the mother or the father or are boys
on their own?

Have you ever heard of the "Oedipus complex"? Well to cut a long story short, it simple outlines the attraction, according to Sigmund Freud, that boys have regarding their mothers. Now I am convinced that Freud was a mad man, in that he claimed that boys tend to have sexual feelings for their moms. He further went on to state that girls have what is called "Penis Envy" (it is self explanatory)

Anyway, you may not quite understand where I am going with all of this. My point is, if little girls are showered with affection and love by the "men" in their lives, they tend not to fall for the first guy who comes claiming to love them, thus many of the abusive relationships that many have settled for would have never materialised on the onset.

Same goes for boys. It has been proven that boys who are taught to be loving toward the "ladies" in their lives, grow up treating their wives in that very same manner. On the negative sides, homes where abuse was rampant tend to produce males who go on to being abusive to their better halves.

Islander:

Have you ever heard of the "Oedipus complex"? Well to cut a long story short, it simple outlines the attraction, according to Sigmund Freud, that boys have regarding their mothers. Now I am convinced that Freud was a mad man, in that he claimed that boys tend to have sexual feelings for their moms. He further went on to state that girls have what is called "Penis Envy" (it is self explanatory)

Anyway, you may not quite understand where I am going with all of this. My point is, if little girls are showered with affection and love by the "men" in their lives, they tend not to fall for the first guy who comes claiming to love them, thus many of the abusive relationships that many have settled for would have never materialised on the onset.

Same goes for boys. It has been proven that boys who are taught to be loving toward the "ladies" in their lives, grow up treating their wives in that very same manner. On the negative sides, homes where abuse was rampant tend to produce males who go on to being abusive to their better halves.

We both (You and ME) know that all you've written is crap. If you want to quote freund, you need to carefully analyze the context surrounding freund's conclusion(s)


where did you get that from or r you just making up stuffs to back up you cooked up ideology.In as much as i respect your idea of what a good guy should be, the circumstance that produces a good husband/bf has little to do with parental upbringing.Go watch Pursuit of Happiness and you will realize that there are other factors that help shape a guy's perspective . For starters, the world's best black neurosurgeon grew up without a father figure but turned out to be an "amazing husband and father" according to his wife.

@Caradona, Nice One! That's more like it.

@Caradona
When your demands are many - foursome, then they will demand party.

Just have not found Mr Right

just for one reason am a muslim and my bobo is a chistian my parents re not down with it

@fartbox stranger,
I thought before making a reply to your obviously miserable asshole, since I have come to realise that thanks to unproductive offsprings as yourself are responsible for the typle of world we live in. However, as I have continually stressed in the past, it is a free world and we are all entitled to our opinions. However, when airheads like yourself decide to be personal, then my metamorphasis sets in.

First of all, if you hadn't just jumped out of your sweaty jungle but had instead followed anything I have every written on this forum you may have read that Sigmund Freud and his mess-up theory has always been a thorn in a flesh. Since you seemed to be his long last illegitimate offspring, why don't you do US the honours and explain to us,

Secondy, for the love of God can you attack me for an observation that I made and have been made by many others in my field of work, then turn around and advise to go watch a movie to gain better understanding? I can see you are really going out of your "cotton picking mind". Yes the "pursuit of happiness" depicted the life of someone who had to struggle to become somebody, and yes NOT every child who grew up with loving parents turn out to be good. I guess it transcends beyond that, so it therefore accurate for me to also conclude that NOT every 419er really need to be scamming people of their hard earned money, and NOT every thief came from poverty stricken homes.

I have NO problem with anyone disagreeing with anything I have said. Afterall, we most times have to disagree in order to agree, however, when it is taken to a personal level then it irritates the hell out of me.

Now take your vile back to the jungle. If and when you decide on being civilsed and can reason like a well-bred human you can holla at me. Until then I have money to make,

mimiko! both of you should abscond to a distance land and get married. both parents cannot live your lives's for you.

stil single cos its much easier to think for one than two. besides its fun.

i'm still single cos most of the guys i've met r fake, always f**king up

i'm on my way to finding mr. right

may God help me