what most guys who spend foolishly on ladies don't know is that these women get money pass them,they will keep their own for future purposes and be spending your own even the money they spend on you is your own money

EmekaBlue:

My Nysc days i got to learn how women are. She will collect the same amount of alawi with me...hide her own and start dictating how we will spend mine. I was still dating her after nysc, one night we both hanged out and she got a lil tipsy, i ran out of cash and asked for her atm to borrow me some money to buy takeaway home and i mentioned her favorite yoghurt...she reluctantly gave me d pin, i crossed down d road to use d atm...i decided to check her balance...na that day i know women are Selfish,Smart and Self-centered SSS....oboy, i saw 454,500.00naira when i had zero in my own account and anytime i collect my salary she is all over me to get her share for upkeep and the rest.

I started viewing women differently then. You have to just ignore them kinda and be smart when you spend forget them calling u stingy or asking what have u done for me.

NB- To know these women know what they are doing, you will see them very irritated if they have brother a girl is doing same thing to him. They will even fight the lady

EmekaBlue:

My Nysc days i got to learn how women are. She will collect the same amount of alawi with me...hide her own and start dictating how we will spend mine. I was still dating her after nysc, one night we both hanged out and she got a lil tipsy, i ran out of cash and asked for her atm to borrow me some money to buy takeaway home and i mentioned her favorite yoghurt...she reluctantly gave me d pin, i crossed down d road to use d atm...i decided to check her balance...na that day i know women are Selfish,Smart and Self-centered SSS....oboy, i saw 454,500.00naira when i had zero in my own account and anytime i collect my salary she is all over me to get her share for upkeep and the rest.

I started viewing women differently then. You have to just ignore them kinda and be smart when you spend forget them calling u stingy or asking what have u done for me.

NB- To know these women know what they are doing, you will see them very irritated if they have brother a girl is doing same thing to him. They will even fight the lady

AfroKnight:
The only women who are not selfish are your mothers or daughters. Even sisters are now becoming selfish.

MJBOLT:

just because they are not selfish to you doesn't mean they are not selfish to other men

FEMALE NATURE IS UNIVERSAL

EmekaBlue:
Dont you think our fore mothers then own was to cook,get water from d stream,take care of the children,stay humble and our fore sisters own was to shake their asses going to d farm or stream and allow the guy she love to touch her in the bushes no too much materialism like nowadays

Igivebooks:
I know I'll get trashed for this but if as a guy, you are expecting the same kind of big gift as you give to your woman then it says a lot about you.

Now I'm not saying it's bad for women to give you gift but any high value man will tell you that he expects little to nothing from his woman in terms of monetary gifts.

As a man you should be focused on building yourself not to the point of not needing a woman but to a point where she needs you.

Bringing the above equation into a relationship, the woman you love should always give you less than you give her. It creates the power dynamics in your relationship and like Jay Z says 'you need me, I don't need you'.

She will need you.

Please don't be one of those mummy's boy that cry that he isn't getting good gifts from his girl. Rather look at her loyalty. That's all you need as a man. There are many hoes out there but few are loyal. Find one of those few.

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Karlifate:


@bold, you made a valid point.


What if she's buying you gifts with the crumbs she gets from her side dude(s) or sugar daddies?

AngelicDamsel:

Why didn't our forefathers complain?

I blame the economy.

Boyfriend-Girlfriend relationship na scam.

In most cases, both partners are in for selfish reasons. Sex, materialism, indulgence, adventure etc. It is mostly trade by barter. Until you take it to the next level, don't complain, if you think your partner gains more in the relationship than you.

Igivebooks:
lolz you'd be surprised that some niggas today will be happy