Hi Everyone.. Please I need your advices, I met this beautiful girl about 3 months ago and I really care about her so much, however when we first met she told me how heartless most of the guys she has dated in the past treated her, then she asked me to tell her exactly what I wanted from her, In my response I said I would want something serious should there be any chemistry between us.

So we started dating, but I later found out that she is a bit of a difficult person even though she is a nice, caring and a very sincere lady..

A friend of her told me she quickly react to anger and hardly talk to people in class, she also pleaded with me to be patient with her and try to help her change.

My major concern is that I love her and thinking of getting married to her, though she somehow thinks I might break up with her like the previous guys did to her and also thinks I maybe using her for fun, which is not true, I'm only trying to understand her properly before taking any further steps.

My question is, do such ladies change after marriage or gets worse? The fact that she doesn't have friends also bothers me.

Please any advice will be appreciated. Thanks

Apart from changing from looking clean and sexy to unkept and local, every aspect and attributes of a lady remain the same after marriage.

If she’s difficult in a relationship, she’ll get worse when she fully balance as your wife.

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Bro, you're the only one who can make her change. Trying to understand her is a good thing but does she understands you too?

I think that's the reason for her past breakups and she hasn't worked on herself. Not every guy can try or have the patience to understand her like you're doing.

Sit her down and let her know what you observed but in a matured way without hurting cause no relationship can work without understanding from both partners.

Arrrrrrrh

For sanity sake run from 'quick to vex' girls with violence. Everybody get angry but anger with out control omo that one na lose guard. Just run.

They don't change after marriage because she's now your wife, if she break TV she no go pay.

If you see you can't change her, just run for your sanity sake.

3 months only? and you're thinking about wiving her up already?!

Maybe your problem na lack of options.

You sound like it's been a long time a pretty woman showed you romantic interest so as soon as you met one who did you loved up immediately.

Sha try to de interact with other fine babes around you. Make sure the babes u talk with are as pretty or even finer than her.

To make it easier for u, ALWAYS MAKE SURE the new babes in your radar see you hanging with the current one. In fact, you have to purposely make them see you with your current babe because It kinda raises your sexual market value. And makes everything easier for you when you finally approach them.

It works like magic!
If I want to chyke a babe who is a 8 or above, I always make sure she sees me with a hotter chick first before approaching her. Except it's someone i know I might not see again then I'll approach her immediately

Financial challenge.

You can never change a woman. If she doesn't interact with people then she could be dangerous when provoked.
Still give her time, there's nothing to rush for

kings38:
Hi Everyone.. Please I need your advices, I met this beautiful girl about 3 months ago and I really care about her so much, however when we first met she told me how heartless most of the guys she has dated in the past treated her, then she asked me to tell her exactly what I wanted from her, In my response I said I would want something serious should there be any chemistry between us.

So we started dating, but I later found out that she is a bit of a difficult person even though she is a nice, caring and a very sincere lady..

A friend of her told me she quickly react to anger and hardly talk to people in class, she also pleaded with me to be patient with her and try to help her change.

My major concern is that I love her and thinking of getting married to her, though she somehow thinks I might break up with her like the previous guys did to her and also thinks I maybe using her for fun, which is not true, I'm only trying to understand her properly before taking any further steps.

My question is, do such ladies change after marriage or gets worse? The fact that she doesn't have friends also bothers me.

Please any advice will be appreciated. Thanks

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Guy my sincere advice to you is that people don't change and if you are hoping that things will get better after marriage you must be dreaming. It's either you manage the situation like that or quit the relationship amicably.

Guy, run from girls that doesn't have friends... They are damaged... Most if their thinking is healed from films and social media... They don't think straight..

People hardly change. Only consequences can change a difficult person.. And don't be too sure she is scared you will dump her.. In the game of dumping. No one knows who will dump who.. If u start to feel less comfortable with her.. Plz dump her sorry ads, you will be doing her good by doing that, cuz it will help her change... Don't pity any lady, cuz they will sting you hardest at slight chance...

Again, go get money, that is the only language ladies understand. They don't care about any such thing called love

I guessed both of you are students? If both are of you are students, why not concentrate on your studies and the future to take itself.

CandyOps:
3 months only? and you're thinking about wiving her up already?!

Maybe your problem na lack of options.

You sound like it's been a long time a pretty woman showed you romantic interest so as soon as you met one who did you loved up immediately.

Sha try to de interact with other fine babes around you. Make sure the babes u talk with are as pretty or even finer than her.

To make it easier for u, ALWAYS MAKE SURE the new babes in your radar see you hanging with the current one. In fact, you have to purposely make them see you with your current babe because It kinda raises your sexual market value. And makes everything easier for you when you finally approach them.

It works like magic!
If I want to chyke a babe who is a 8 or above, I always make sure she sees me with a hotter chick first before approaching her. Except it's someone i know I might not see again then I'll approach her immediately

Thanks a lot for your advice.. Attracting and dating beautiful ladies has never been a problem for me, We are talking about a wife material here, she may be gorgeous but has some Issues you can't handle

donstan18:
Apart from changing from looking clean and sexy to unkept and local, every aspect and attributes of a lady remain the same after marriage.

If she’s difficult in a relationship, she’ll get worse when she fully balance as your wife.

You have a good point, I have seen nice ladies who completely changed after marriage and some crazy ones who became the best wives after marriage

tolufase:
I guessed both of you are students? If both are of you are students, why not concentrate on your studies and the future to take itself.

No Sir she is the only one in school, though in her finals

MotivationKG:
Bro, you're the only one who can make her change. Trying to understand her is a good thing but does she understands you too?

I think that's the reason for her past breakups and she hasn't worked on herself. Not every guy can try or have the patience to understand her like you're doing.

Sit her down and let her know what you observed but in a matured way without hurting cause no relationship can work without understanding from both partners.

Thanks a lot for your advice, I am trying my best and hoping things turns out for good

People don't change. People are always who they have always been after their formative years. A girl of 16 can no longer change as her basic attitudes have been formed. A boy of 18 can no longer change too. They can only continue to build on their foundations.

Your girl ain't gonna change.
When you want to marry someone, ask yourself if you can manage his or her weaknesses. Don't hope for change so you won't be disappointed.

Over and out!

kings38:
Hi Everyone.. Please I need your advices, I met this beautiful girl about 3 months ago and I really care about her so much, however when we first met she told me how heartless most of the guys she has dated in the past treated her, then she asked me to tell her exactly what I wanted from her, In my response I said I would want something serious should there be any chemistry between us.

So we started dating, but I later found out that she is a bit of a difficult person even though she is a nice, caring and a very sincere lady..

A friend of her told me she quickly react to anger and hardly talk to people in class, she also pleaded with me to be patient with her and try to help her change.

My major concern is that I love her and thinking of getting married to her, though she somehow thinks I might break up with her like the previous guys did to her and also thinks I maybe using her for fun, which is not true, I'm only trying to understand her properly before taking any further steps.

My question is, do such ladies change after marriage or gets worse? The fact that she doesn't have friends also bothers me.

Please any advice will be appreciated. Thanks

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bros better think well ooo, i'm in the same shoes right now dated my stubborn babe for 7 yrs and later married her, i can tell you one thing her difficulty increases day by day, the worst is she uses my child as bait whenever we have issues and that is really disgusting.

kings38:
Hi Everyone.. Please I need your advices, I met this beautiful girl about 3 months ago and I really care about her so much, however when we first met she told me how heartless most of the guys she has dated in the past treated her, then she asked me to tell her exactly what I wanted from her, In my response I said I would want something serious should there be any chemistry between us.

So we started dating, but I later found out that she is a bit of a difficult person even though she is a nice, caring and a very sincere lady..

A friend of her told me she quickly react to anger and hardly talk to people in class, she also pleaded with me to be patient with her and try to help her change.

My major concern is that I love her and thinking of getting married to her, though she somehow thinks I might break up with her like the previous guys did to her and also thinks I maybe using her for fun, which is not true, I'm only trying to understand her properly before taking any further steps.

My question is, do such ladies change after marriage or gets worse? The fact that she doesn't have friends also bothers me.

Please any advice will be appreciated. Thanks

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There's nothing wrong with her. The only issue is that you haven't come to the full realization that no two people are exactly the same. Just make sure, however, that she has an altruistic interest in you and avoid the use of neither servility nor domineeringness in relating with her, else you'll become a victim of her past negative experiences or enter into the book of her tormentors. If she has an altruistic interest in you, she'll gradually align to your lead with the both of you coming in sync, provided that you've humane philosophy that you work and walk on and have an altruistic interest for her too.

kings38:


Thanks a lot for your advice.. Attracting and dating beautiful ladies has never been a problem for me, We are talking about a wife material here, she may be gorgeous but has some Issues you can't handle

Boy, tell yourself the truth and stop being shady... Aside from gorgeous what other qualities does she have that kept you dummy... Boy, get yourself a woman that loves you more than you do wen it comes to marriage... How to know if she truly loves you...by the words she uses on you and the way she talks to you... Talking about gorgeous it's a class and you know where she belongs

There is note like change after marriage.. If u wan know see where Nigeria marriage with apc don land us...